download this episode It's so easy to see in others, yet when it was my turn I didn't pause to shift the vibe ... Which is why I could easily invite a reader to focus on what she wanted (when she wondered about her boyfriend's "bad" behavior), but I rolled right along with thoughts about how I never wanted to visit this emergency animal center again. (After picking up my deceased dog's ashes.) Within 24 hours I was in their lobby again, this time with a foster cat whose spay went awry. The thing about resistance - it's a powerful magnet to attract more of the very thing we don't want. I know it, you know it, and yet we still do it. Here's to learning to use our power for good!