Hello, Hello,Hello and welcome to the Naked Onion Mystery Tours Podcast I am your host producer edith and do I have a show for you today!
Do you ever feel when you are in a converstation with another person you are missing the point? Do you feel like you arent getting a full understanding of what the other person is saying and then the reaction comes. The one where they do not fully understand what you are aking them.
I know I have done this, I am a nurse so the better part of my day is taking care of sick people. The moaning the crying the pain I am completely aware of. So when I get home and the person I am with is being selfish and being selfish is not a crime, however when I am are around those in need all day and then I go home to an energy which doesn't replace energy I have lost through out the day it is so draining.
I have realized energies need to match. At 54 years old I want to come home to a person who isn't ignoring my needs in the relationship, ignoring special holidays because its "Just another day", Doesn't do any cleaning or household chores and expects me to do them all when I get home, eats all the groceries I buy and doesn't buy any to replace the ones eaten, yells at me (intentionally misunderstands me and instead of trying to understand calls me weird or emotional). Emotional intelligence is not taught and this is the vicious cycle of the patriarchy.
Instead of trying to "Make" My partner into the person I want which was taught to me (Capitalism, christianity, and the patriarchy) I am now with a human who is so compassionate. Its a weird place to be in. One minute you are waiting for the next shoe to drop, the next eplosion, the next door slam.
I believe one has to genuinely work to misunderstand the other person in your life. Insecurities create jealousy, rage, embarrassment and these emotions are about the person exploding and not anyone else.
Tonight we have stinkster on the show and his fiance' Wendy towards the end. Stinkster is a male influencer on tik tok. He is friends with Kitty Rebellion, who is one of the podcast hosts of NOMT and an advocate for women. He started his page as a political response to his family who decided not to "See" Him for his political beliefs. He is a kind soul who works on the daily to understand woman more and more and react less. He was told by society woman are less and he began his life believing this until now. He is an added bonus to the NOMT family.
The links to his page are in the BIO Thank you for listening to the Naked Onion Mystery Tours Podcast! and enjoy the show.
copy and paste the link to find stinkster on Tik TOk
https://www.tiktok.com/@stinkster1