When Nat Chats With, it's long. Sharon and I talk about there being no right or wrong. We talk about listening to what feels good for you, and the benefits of making yourself #1and healthy. We should all do this.

Some people have the ability to make you relevant. They can make you matter, and others...cant. Here's a story about wanting to be seen, and to seemingly get there by way of the seer changing view.

We think we need to have more forgiveness, when we really need to be wise. Apply forgiveness where it's applicable. Where it's not; learn what the situation CAN benefit from. Making up stories of how you forgave someone who won't change isn't the answer. A lie to yourself is seldom the answer, compared to being emotionally healthier.

Knowing and feeling are different. You can be sensible, but experience builds conditioning. Conditioning is forced feelings that we don't choose, and that require effort to overcome.

You will have your perspective created by your life experiences. This makes it impossible for everyone to agree with you because others live a different life. Accept we can't all agree, and allow comfort in "we are all didferent", because THAT makes sense.

Honesty and lying are different. When it comes to yourself, the inability to be honest with yourself means you are only making your life harder. Honesty is healthy and actually easier.

Life keeps lifeing on us, and none of us have it easy. Writing to a friend, and sharing with him some things I've written recently that say I see you, I support you.

Do you get butterflies? Are you easily flattered? Is the modern way of meeting people helping or hindering the ability to feel attraction? Here's my take on it.