In Episode 5 The Social Network we explore:

How social conditioning makes social rejection feel like a real threat, just like physical danger.

Recognizing the hidden “shoulds,” “have to’s,” and obligations that guide our choices.

The way cultural pressures (like men being told to stay strong or hide emotions) shape our personal stories.

Practical steps to shift from living by social rules to living by your values.

How to say no and hold boundaries—plus a simple phrase if “no” feels hard to say.

Two Gottman tools to strengthen connection with loved ones: the 20-second hug and the 6-second kiss.

Inspired by The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer and Dr. Richard Schwartz’s groundbreaking IFS work, Kristin explores what happens when we stop becoming our thoughts and start observing them — and how this shift can rewire your brain for safety, clarity, and connection.

In this eye-opening episode, Kristin breaks down:

• The 8 C’s that signal you’re in your Capital-S Self: Compassion, Curiosity, Calm, Clarity, Courage, Connectedness, Creativity, and Confidence

• How to instantly spot when you’re operating from a protective part instead of your core Self

• The “Minivan Metaphor” for understanding your inner world — and why Self should be driving

• How to intentionally choose which part is at the wheel in any situation

• Real-life examples of parts in action: the cynical spam-call deflector, the productivity/perfectionist driver, and the hyper-judgy meeting dresser

• A simple meditation or thought exercise to help you step back from thoughts, thank the part, and invite it to rest

• How “mom and toddler” thinking can help you gently redirect persistent mental chatter

• The Safe Stress Shutdown model and how it aligns with the 8 C’s

• The surprising freedom that comes when you realize you are not your thoughts — you are the one who hears them

This episode blends psychology, neuroscience, and lived experience to give you a roadmap for returning to your safest, truest self — even in the middle of life’s messiest moments.

This episode explores how we can start to rewire our emotional triggers by understanding the connection between thoughts, body sensations, and past experiences. When we recognize that emotions are simply our body’s physical response paired with a situation, we can begin to shift how we respond—especially to everyday stressors.

Emotions are like a best friend necklace—one side is the thought, the other is the nervous system’s physical reaction.

That pairing is what creates an emotional experience, and when it repeatedly leads to stress or shutdown, we often call it a trigger.

These responses are shaped by predictive wiring—patterns built over time from past experiences.

With awareness, we can begin to upgrade those patterns. For example, if sarcasm has triggered a flight response in the past, noticing the physical reaction, recognizing the situation is out of your control, and reminding yourself you’re safe can begin to rewire that response. You may still feel annoyed, but the intensity of the trigger becomes lighter over time.

Not everything needs to be processed deeply—if it’s a one-time moment, a simple reminder that you’re safe can be enough.

For patterns that show up repeatedly, making a plan and practicing nervous system regulation in the moment helps shift the default response.

By noticing what’s happening in your body and choosing how to respond, you’re not erasing the past—you’re rewiring the future, one trigger at a time.

In this episode of Navigating the Nervous System, Kristin explores the concept of Tiny Tigers — the small, daily stressors that hijack our nervous system and how to handle them.

We'll break down:

The three nervous system states: Safe, Stress, and Shutdown

Why we overreact to small stressors — and how evolution shaped these responses.

The three types of Tiny Tigers: Real Impact, Emotionally Draining, and Tiger Masks

How to sort your stress, reframe reactions, and choose what truly deserves your energy

Finally, we’ll dive into Captain Mindset — a powerful metaphor to help you steer your nervous system with intention, recognize what’s in your control, and stop letting minor stressors take the wheel.

Tune in to start sailing through stress with clarity, compassion, and calm.

Welcome to the very first episode of Navigating the Nervous System with Kristin Cronin Boone, licensed therapist, interpersonal neurobiology nerd, and your guide to understanding why you do the things you do. In this episode, we dive into how your nervous system drives behavior, emotion, and survival responses, often without your conscious awareness. You'll meet “Miss Amygdala,” learn about the upstairs vs. downstairs brain, and explore the three key nervous system states: safe, stress, and shutdown. Kristin shows you how to recognize your state and begin to reset in real time with box breathing.

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