This Summer, Don’t Let Screens Raise Your Kids

What if the “golden idol” in your home glows… and fits in your child’s hand?

This week on Needed Conversations, Ryan & Viktoriya Cole unpack one of the most urgent topics facing families today: how to reclaim your kids from screen time and reset your home around God’s presence this summer.

With school out and devices calling louder than ever, most parents feel stuck between survival mode and spiritual neglect. But this episode offers something different—a practical reset plan rooted in Scripture, presence, and peace.

💡 In this powerful episode:

– What the golden calf in Exodus reveals about modern distraction

– Why your kids need your face more than FaceTime

– The surprising science behind overstimulation (and how to reverse it)

– Screen swaps: Easy ways to replace digital chaos with soulful connection

– How to reframe this summer as a season of spiritual renewal, not just survival

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or mentor—your influence matters.

Your kids are watching. And what they see in you becomes what they pursue.

✨ Make this a Summer of Presence, not just entertainment.

Sign the Presence Pledge and join families who are choosing to rebuild altars, not idols.

Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge

00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations

00:03 The Importance of Spiritual Renewal

00:20 Modeling Behavior for Children

01:34 The Presence Pledge Explained

02:33 Incorporating Kids into The Presence Pledge

03:52 Challenges and Strategies for Parents

10:41 Biblical Lessons on Presence

17:36 Practical Tips for Reducing Screen Time

27:30 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

In this week’s powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole tackle one of the most sensitive issues many couples face: setting healthy boundaries with extended family.

Whether it’s in-laws overstepping, family drama leaking into your marriage, or blurred lines of emotional dependency, learning how to protect the spiritual atmosphere of your home is critical. With biblical examples and personal stories, Ryan and Viktoriya walk you through:

✅ Why "leave and cleave" still matters

✅ How to honor your parents without giving them unlimited access

✅ Creating a united front with your spouse

✅ What to do when family members don’t accept your boundaries

✅ How to protect your marriage from emotional outsourcing

✅ And how acceptance, not just confrontation, can bring peace

Plus, they explore biblical case studies like Abraham & Hagar, Moses & Jethro, and even Jesus’ own family tensions to show how God uses boundaries to build healthy legacy.

Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge

00:00 Introduction to Healthy Boundaries

00:45 Navigating Boundaries with Extended Family

03:19 The Presence Pledge and Social Media Fast

04:29 When Family Crosses the Line

08:43 Practical Tips for Setting Boundaries

20:55 Biblical Examples of Boundaries

28:05 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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On today’s episode of Needed Conversations, we dive deep into how worship can recalibrate your heart, your home, and your marriage.

Too often, we allow distractions, busyness, and even our own pain to shift our focus. But Scripture reminds us that we become what we behold. If your eyes are constantly fixed on problems, comparison, or negativity, your spirit will grow weary — and your marriage will suffer.

Worship shifts our gaze back to what’s true, restoring intimacy with God and softening our hearts toward our spouse.

Today, we unpack:

• Why worship is more than a song — it’s a posture of life
• How gratitude changes the atmosphere of your marriage
• How true intimacy starts with vulnerability before God
• Why presence — with God and your spouse — is the foundation for lasting connection

We also share practical ways you can invite worship into your daily rhythms and reconnect through stillness, gratitude, and spiritual intimacy.

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00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations

00:03 The Power of Gratitude and Worship

01:33 Welcome and Setting the Scene

02:01 The Presence Pledge and Worship

02:28 Understanding Worship in Marriage

04:24 Personal Reflections on Worship

17:16 Worship's Impact on Family and Marriage

26:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

31:54 Closing Remarks and Announcements

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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

What if the most spiritual thing you could do right now… is rest?

In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole unpack a revolutionary truth: you were never meant to live from hustle to exhaustion, from pressure to burnout. You were designed to work from rest—not for it. Before Adam received his assignment, God introduced him to the rhythm of rest. His very first full day was the Sabbath. In this episode, the Coles explore how our obsession with productivity has disrupted our marriages, diminished intimacy, and distanced us from God’s voice. They call couples back to a slower, more sacred pace—a Kingdom rhythm where rest becomes our posture, not our reward. If you’ve been chasing success but feel emptier than ever, this conversation is your reset.

Join the Presence Pledge—a digital detox and rhythm reset for your marriage—and begin reclaiming the most important hours of your day. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge

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00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Opinions on Success

00:25 Embracing Kingdom Culture Over Hustle Culture

00:53 Understanding Purpose and Presence

01:16 The Principle of Rest Before Responsibility

02:28 Welcome Back: The Presence Pledge Series

02:35 Setting Margins and Boundaries in Marriage

03:42 The Digital Detox: The Presence Pledge Explained

07:59 Reclaiming Energy and Overcoming Digital Addiction

10:11 The Importance of Fasting and Health

11:24 The Power of Community and Connection

15:44 Building Margins for Work and Rest

16:09 The Biblical Foundation of Rest and Work

21:05 The Deception of Striving for Success

24:32 The Sabbath Lifestyle: Rest as a Daily Experience

25:44 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

What does your social media algorithm say about the state of your soul—and the health of your marriage?

In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya take you deep into the quiet war being waged right in your pocket. It's not just about screens—it's about desires, distractions, and the subtle erosion of intimacy.

You’ll explore:

• How your algorithm is discipling your desires
• The spiritual dangers of ambient noise and digital fatigue
• Why stillness is where God speaks—and connection thrives
• A powerful couples' challenge: swap phones and examine your explore feeds
• The biblical roots of temptation and how sin begins with distorted desire
• The connection between what you feed your soul and what flows from your heart
• How to curate your feed and your environment to protect what matters most

Sign the pledge today at ⁠https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge⁠

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You don’t need more time. You need to be present with the time you already have. Let's walk this out together—one sacred moment at a time.

#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals

00:00 Introduction to the Presence Pledge

00:06 The Digital Dilemma in Marriages

01:56 Understanding the Presence Pledge Challenge

04:31 The Impact of Digital Overload

05:59 Defining Algorithms and Their Influence

10:43 Guarding Your Heart and Mind

15:38 Practical Steps for Digital Detox

19:08 Spiritual Insights and Final Thoughts

30:17 Join the Presence Pledge

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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

It's time to reset. Your marriage needs your presence—not constant distractions.

Welcome to a brand new 8+ week series on Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole — The Presence Pledge. In this first episode, we're laying the foundation for a relationship reset that prioritizes connection, restores rhythm, and realigns your heart with God and your spouse.

In Episode 1: The Power of Presence, we’ll explore:

• What the Bible says about presence in the Garden (Genesis 3:8)
• How daily rhythms affect emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy
• Why two sacred windows—morning and evening—matter more than you think
• What neuroscience says about breaking habits and building lasting connections

Join the challenge by signing The Presence Pledge:

• No phones 2 hours before bed and 2 hours after waking
• Keep devices 5 feet away from your bed
• Create intentional check-in moments with God and your spouse
• Give yourself permission to restart with grace when you fall off

Sign the pledge today at ⁠https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge⁠

Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.

You don’t need more time. You need to be present with the time you already have. Let's walk this out together—one sacred moment at a time.

#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals

00:00 Introduction to The Presence Pledge

00:42 Setting the Foundation for the Series

01:11 The Importance of Presence in Marriage

02:51 Details of The Presence Pledge

05:02 Challenges and Solutions for Digital Detox

13:00 Scientific and Biblical Foundations

18:35 Practical Tips for Implementing the Pledge

27:19 Encouragement and Final Thoughts

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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

Can intimacy grow again after betrayal, distance, or seasons of silence? In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how intimacy in marriage—emotional, spiritual, and physical—is not just a moment, but something that must be cultivated like a garden.

Drawing from the rich imagery of the Song of Solomon and personal stories, they invite couples to rethink intimacy as more than sex. It's about trust, pursuit, and the daily tending of your marriage soil. Whether your garden is blooming or buried under weeds, this episode will help you find hope, healing, and a fresh start.

Learn how:

• Intimacy begins with emotional connection and intentionality
• Seasons of marriage (like winter and spring) impact closeness
• Betrayal doesn’t have to be the end of your story
• The roles of cultivation (husband) and nurturing (wife) work together to create lasting love
• God uses the garden metaphor from Genesis to the Resurrection to show how relationships grow through care and time

00:00 Introduction: Upcoming Episode Highlights

00:03 Understanding True Intimacy

00:29 A Testimony of Faith and Marriage

01:22 Gardening as a Metaphor for Marriage

02:32 Series Overview: When Love Gets Tough

02:50 Building Back Intimacy After Betrayal

03:19 Personal Stories and Reflections

04:58 The Evolution of Love and Intimacy

07:04 The Role of Trust and Understanding

10:33 Rebuilding After Betrayal

19:58 Gardening and Marriage: A Deeper Connection

22:23 Maintaining Your Garden: Vigilance and Care

23:19 Life's Unpredictability and Faith

25:31 The Role of Men and Women in Marriage

26:33 Lessons from the Song of Solomon

27:40 Balancing Passion and Intentionality

30:48 The Importance of Planning and Mission in Marriage

33:44 Seeking Help and Community Support

39:17 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement

Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #ConflictResolution #MarriageAdvice #HowToFightFair #FaithBasedMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #healthycommunication 👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.#MarriageRestoration #InfidelityRecovery #RebuildingTrust #Boundaries #intimacy #intimacyadvice Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, we discuss one of the most difficult topics couples face—betrayal—and how to rebuild trust after it's been broken. Whether you're dealing with infidelity, financial mistrust, addiction, or emotional affairs, this episode offers hope and practical tools to help you navigate the road to restoration.

We unpack the crucial difference between disclosure and discovery, and why voluntary confession is a key factor in a couple’s ability to reconcile after betrayal. You'll learn why healthy boundaries aren't punishment but safeguards that protect your marriage, and how both partners must engage in personal healing to truly rebuild.

Is healing possible after betrayal?

Yes! Research shows that 60-75% of couples recover when they seek help, set clear boundaries, and commit to doing the hard work.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Why couples often wait too long to ask for help
• The difference between disclosure vs. discovery
• Setting boundaries & not viewing them as punishment
• How past trauma and rejection can impact your response to betrayal
• Practical steps for rebuilding trust and restoring intimacy
• Encouragement for both the betrayed and the betrayer

You're not alone—whether you're currently facing betrayal or walking alongside someone who is, this episode is filled with truth, tools, and hope to guide you forward.

00:00 Introduction: Boundaries, Betrayal, and Trust

00:26 Disclosure vs. Discovery in Infidelity

01:11 Setting Boundaries and Overcommunication

01:36 Real Repentance and Personal Reflection

02:33 Series Recap: When Love Gets Tough

03:37 The Importance of Early Counseling

05:02 Rebuilding Trust: Individual and Couple's Work

06:29 The Role of Pastors and Professional Help

08:31 Different Forms of Betrayal

11:00 Disclosure as a Sign of Willingness to Change

20:17 Forgiveness vs. Trust Restoration

21:35 Understanding Boundaries in Marriage

22:41 Personal Boundaries and Safeguards

25:36 Accountability Measures

30:11 The Role of Forgiveness and Healing

32:09 Impact of Past Relationships

39:25 Encouragement and Hope for Couples

41:14 Conclusion and Upcoming Topics

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Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.#MarriageRestoration #InfidelityRecovery #RebuildingTrust #Boundaries Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

Sometimes apologies feel empty—either because they’re not genuine or because the pain runs too deep to move on. But in marriage, forgiveness isn’t optional. So how do you heal, rebuild trust, and truly reconcile after hurt?

In this episode of Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole, we’re diving deep into:

• Why "I'm sorry" doesn’t always fix things & what a real apology looks like
• The difference between forgiveness & trust (they are NOT the same!)
• What Jesus really meant by forgiving 70x7—and why that doesn’t mean being a doormat
• What "love always trusts" actually means (hint: it’s not blind trust!)
• How unforgiveness poisons your heart & why forgiveness is more for YOU than them
• The path to true reconciliation (and what to do when trust is broken) Forgiveness frees you, but trust is rebuilt over time.

In this episode, we’ll help you navigate the journey of letting go of resentment, setting healthy boundaries, and rebuilding what was broken.

Key Scriptures:

Matthew 6:14-15 – If you don’t forgive, your Father won’t forgive you

Matthew 18:21-22 – What Jesus meant by forgiving 70x71 Corinthians 13:5-7 – Love keeps no record of wrongs & always trusts

James 5:16 – Confess your sins to one another and be healed

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:28 The Meaning of True Forgiveness

01:39 Series Recap and Personal Reflections

03:01 Understanding Apologies in Relationships

03:42 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned

10:50 The Importance of Genuine Apologies

22:32 Forgiveness and Its Spiritual Significance

28:31 Reconciliation and Moving Forward

35:57 Conclusion and Next Week's Preview

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Part 1 from the new series "When Love Gets Tough."

Do you and your spouse struggle with conflict? Do your arguments leave you feeling more distant instead of closer? In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the most important marriage skills—fighting fair. Conflict is inevitable, but how you handle it determines whether it strengthens or weakens your relationship.We’ll cover:- The 4 toxic fight patterns that destroy marriages (from Dr. John Gottman’s research)- 5 biblical principles for handling conflict with love, wisdom, and patience- Practical steps to resolve arguments without resentment- How to repair damage after a disagreement and grow closer as a couple- Scripture-based wisdom on communication, forgiveness, and conflictKey Scriptures:James 1:19 | Ephesians 4:26 | Proverbs 15:1 | Colossians 3:13Takeaway: Fighting isn’t the problem—it’s how you fight that makes or breaks your marriage. Let’s learn how to argue in a way that builds trust, connection, and love.00:00 Introduction: Fighting in Marriage00:16 The Inevitability of Conflict00:22 Internal Dialogues and Their Impact00:45 Predictors of Divorce01:34 Series Introduction: When Love Gets Tough01:55 Communication Struggles in Marriage02:24 How to Fight Fair03:09 Weekend Recap and Personal Stories04:57 Healthy Conflict Resolution10:00 Four Destructive Fight Patterns18:41 Five Rules for Healthy Conflict23:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement30:48 Upcoming Episodes and New PodcastSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever