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For years, I’ve watched good men settle into a life that looks “fine” on the outside—career, family, responsibilities handled—yet something’s missing. In this episode, I sit down with my friend David Dorman to talk about risk and reward for men, and why so many of us stop short of our full potential. We start with a simple question: what risks are actually worth taking in everyday life, not for ego, but for meaning?

We get into the real tension men live with: we’re great with instructions, systems, and “filling the squares,” but we struggle with the inner work—purpose, emotional honesty, and relational investment. We talk about distractions, complacency, and the gap so many couples feel: men asking “tell me what to do,” while the feminine side often feels “you should know.” And we go straight to the point—sometimes the riskiest thing isn’t climbing a skyscraper… it’s doing the right thing, getting accountable, and facing what you’ve been avoiding.

If you’re a man who feels stuck, drifting, or quietly unfulfilled, this conversation is for you. The goal isn’t just adding years to your life—it’s adding real life to your years. Take one step today: examine your life, invest where it matters, and stop waiting until everything is on the line to become the man you were made to be.

Chapters:
00:00 - Why “Crazy Risk” Isn’t Inspiring
04:05 - Men, Instructions, and Where We Go Rogue
06:05 - Distractions, Complacency, and the Drift
07:34 - “Filling the Squares” vs. Full Potential
10:50 - The 5 Pillars: Thought, Physical, Emotional, Relationships, Lies
15:10 - The Risk of Starting Before You “Figure It Out”
16:40 - Trauma, False Identity, and Why Men Stay Stuck
20:32 - Divorce, Rejection, and the Shortcut to Destruction
24:10 - The Negative Reward: A Long Life of Average and Unfulfilled

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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I’ve watched it happen in real time: I get online, I see everyone else’s “perfect life,” and if I’m not careful, comparison starts crushing me. In this episode of Next Third Best Third, Ezra Stanton and I expose what social media really is—a constant stream of highlight reels—and why it can quietly convince a good man that he’s failing. If you’ve ever thought, “Man… my life doesn’t look like that,” this conversation is for you.

We go deeper than the scroll. We talk about why men drift, how isolation kills a man, and why the strongest men I know still need brothers in their corner. We also unpack something huge for husbands and dads: there’s no real “training” for the two most important roles you’ll ever hold—marriage and fatherhood. That’s why we need intentional relationships, honest conversations, and accountability that calls us higher without shaming us.

If you’re tired of pretending, tired of carrying it alone, or tired of grinding with no real purpose—this is your reminder that you were made for more than hustle. Drop a comment if you want to stay posted on upcoming gatherings and resources. And if you’re ready to build real brotherhood, check out Ezra’s community at greaterthanthegrind.com/bestthird and get connected.

More from Ezra on his Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamezra/

Chapters:
00:00 Social Media’s Perfect World Is a Lie
01:10 The “Six-Year Storm” & Why Vulnerability Saved Me
02:00 No Playbook for Dad: Why Men Need Training
03:15 Respected Everywhere… Except at Home
04:12 Thermostat vs Thermometer: Setting the Culture
06:05 Iron Sharpens Iron: Getting Out of Your Own Head
08:10 Why Most Men Hide (And How Trust Gets Built)
11:30 Vision, Mission, and Accountability for 2026
13:20 Isolation by Stage: Busy Dads, Empty Nest, Retirement
33:05 Highlight Reels: The Dodger Clips That Exposed the Lie

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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There are seasons where life feels like quicksand—like you’re trying to move forward, but you can’t. In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I sit down with my friend Ezra Stanton to talk about what it actually looks like to get unstuck when you’ve done “all the right things” and still feel hopeless. Ezra shares the real story behind a nightmare stretch of pressure, loss, rejection, and the emotional fallout that followed—plus the moment he realized the fire in his life felt like it was going out.

What hit me most is how practical this conversation gets. We talk about taking back your thought life—because your mind is either being led or it’s being dominated. Ezra breaks down the tools that helped him climb out: capturing thoughts, daily declarations, practicing gratitude (especially in small moments), and learning how to encourage yourself instead of letting your inner voice become your enemy. If you’ve been rehearsing worst-case scenarios, negative self-talk, or “stinking thinking,” this episode gives you a way to interrupt that cycle.

We also go straight at the thing most men avoid: vulnerability. We talk about why isolation is deadly, why courage often looks like opening up to a few trusted guys, and how real brotherhood becomes a turning point—not a nice add-on. Ezra also shares what he’s building through “Greater Than the Grind,” and why being present matters more than just providing. If you’re stuck, exhausted, or quietly carrying more than you’re admitting—this one is for you.

More from Ezra on his Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamezra/

Chapters:
00:00 — When Life Feels Like Quicksand
01:14 — The Season That Broke Me: Pressure, Conflict, and Burnout
03:12 — Tragedy Piled Up: Grief, Loss, and Rejection
04:22 — The Dark Place After the Pandemic
05:49 — “I Felt Hopeless”: When Nothing Works
06:38 — The Firewood Moment: “Lord, This Is My Life”
07:28 — Take Back Your Mind: Capturing Every Thought
10:01 — Declarations + Gratitude: The Practices That Shifted Everything
16:44 — Vulnerability Is a Superpower (And Isolation Will Kill a Man)
22:01 — Greater Than the Grind: The Message Men Need Now

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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Are you walking into 2026 with a real plan—or just hoping things work out? In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I’m challenging you to stop drifting and start leading your life with intention. Because the truth is simple: if you don’t have a strategy, the year can end up running you instead of you running it.

I’m going to show you how to build a personal vision and mission statement that isn’t rooted in your past—shame, regret, disappointment, or even “the good old days.” This isn’t about perfection. It’s about direction. We start with core values (your non-negotiables), because your identity and purpose are formed there. From that foundation, you create a vision (your target / true north) and a mission (the standard you live by—especially when no one’s watching).

We’ll talk about what legacy really is (hint: it’s not just money), why small decisions matter more than motivation, and how men get stuck—not because they’re weak, but because they slowly lose focus. If you’re ready to become the architect of your next third and build a legacy that outlives you, this is your next step. Subscribe, share this with a man you care about, and let me know what your core values are as you start writing your vision and mission.

Chapters:
00:03 — Entering 2026 With a Real Plan
01:01 — Build the Next 20 Years (Your Next Third)
01:53 — Vision Isn’t About Your Past
02:50 — “First Day of the Rest of Your Life”
04:59 — Legacy vs Inheritance (Impact That Spreads)
07:29 — The Eulogy Test: What Will Be Said?
12:41 — Vision vs Mission: Target + Standard
13:26 — Identity, Purpose, and Core Values
19:28 — Small Decisions Shape Your Future
21:13 — Men Drift: Busy, Capable, Disconnected

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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There was a moment in my early 60s when my world cracked open. My wife told me she was done, and I honestly never saw it coming. Overnight, my future looked unrecognizable, and I found myself raising my youngest daughter while carrying grief that most people never saw. In this episode, I share the real story behind why I started Next Third Best Third—because I know what it feels like to look at your life and ask, “Now what?”

What changed me wasn’t pretending I was fine. It was learning to be honest, vulnerable, and willing to do the hard work. I had men in my life who refused to let me isolate, who normalized grief, and who challenged me to get healthy. That support helped me see something I couldn’t see at first: nothing would be the same… but it could be better. That’s where the mantra was born—make the next third of your life the best third of your life—and it became my “true north” while everything else was spinning.

I also break down what I believe are five areas of decay that can quietly shrink a man’s life: cognitive (mental), physical, emotional, relationships, and spiritual. Aging is inevitable—and worth celebrating—but decay doesn’t have to be. If you’ve felt isolated, stuck, ashamed, or like your best days are behind you, I made this for you. Join the tribe and grab the free resources at nextthirdbestthird.com—and if this hits home, please like, subscribe, and share it with a man who needs hope.

Chapters:
00:00 The Next Third Can Be Your Best Third
00:18 Why Next Third Best Third Exists
00:45 My Story: 65 Years Old, 6 Kids, Life Turns
02:19 The Divorce I Never Saw Coming
03:00 Single Dad Season and Silent Grief
04:20 The Men Who Carried Me Through Grief
05:37 “Nothing Will Be the Same… But It Could Be Better”
07:34 The Danger of Male Isolation and Absentee Fathers
09:44 The Missing Rite of Passage Into Manhood
14:12 The 5 Areas of Decay Men Must Fight

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Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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Connect with Tyson and Jules: https://www.wedintowar.com/

In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I’m back in the studio with Jules and Tyson Morlet from Wed Into War to talk about conflict, communication, and what to do when the same issues keep resurfacing year after year. We go past theory and into real frameworks that help couples stop letting one unresolved area poison the entire home.

We unpack the “Compost Pile” concept—how to intentionally contain big, long-term conflicts like betrayal, addiction, trauma, and deep trust wounds so they don’t leak into every conversation, holiday, date night, and moment of intimacy. Some issues are ten-year issues, and trying to solve them everywhere all the time is exactly why couples stay stuck.

We also talk about the “third way” when it feels like your only options are staying miserable or getting divorced. If you’re listening without your spouse, we address what you can do to start change anyway. This episode is about ownership, language, tools, and building a marriage that actually transforms over time.

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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Connect with Tyson and Jules: https://www.wedintowar.com/

Marriage can feel like it should be the finish line, but in this episode I sit down with Tyson and his wife Jules Morlet to tell the truth: for most couples, marriage is the beginning of the real work. We talk about the misconceptions that set people up for disappointment, why “happily ever after” collapses under pressure, and how conflict isn’t proof your marriage is failing — it’s often the invitation to become one. If you’ve ever thought, Why is this so hard if we’re meant to be together? you’re going to feel seen here.

We go deep on shame — what it does to a husband, what it does to a wife, and how it quietly turns two people into strangers behind a false image. Tyson and Jules share how their “origin story” framework helped them understand the fight for oneness, and how healing isn’t just about behavior modification — it’s about breaking fear, control, and generational patterns so your kids don’t inherit what you never confronted. We also get practical with one of the most helpful tools I’ve heard for communication: Sanctuary — a scheduled, agreed-upon hour each week to bring issues into the light so conflict doesn’t bleed into daily life.

If you want a better marriage, a healthier home, and a legacy that doesn’t repeat the same story, this conversation is for you. Get the tools, get the help, and don’t wait until it’s too late to be real. Tyson and Jules mention their work and resources (including Wed Into War and more) — and if this episode hits home, subscribe, like, and share, and drop a comment with the part that challenged you most. Let’s do the work so the next third of your life can be your best third.

Chapters:
00:00 Meet Tyson & Jules: Marriage, Kids, and Why This Matters
02:13 “We Finally Have Something to Say” After 16 Years
03:36 The Origin Story: Oneness, Genesis, and the Real Fight
05:18 The “Happily Ever After” Myth and Why It Breaks Couples
07:14 Trauma Meets Trauma: Legacy, Lineages, and Perspective
10:29 Naked Without Shame: The Problem Beneath the Problem
12:27 “We Never Fought” — Why Avoiding Conflict Is Dangerous
14:30 Conflict Can Be Necessary (But Not Constant)
16:55 Sanctuary: One Hour a Week to Fight on Purpose
23:07 Grace, Therapy, and Taking the Fig Leaves Off

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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Connect with Ben:
Website: https://www.lovingonpurpose.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/benserpell/?hl=en

In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I’m joined by my good friend Ben Serpell to dive into the ever-changing role of fathers. From the moment you become a dad, you’re thrust into the role of a “cop”—setting rules and boundaries to ensure peace. But as your kids grow, so must your approach. Ben shares his own journey from the cop stage to becoming a coach for his teens and, eventually, a consultant to his young adult children. This evolution not only reflects the growth of your kids but the deepening of your relationship with them. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it.

We discuss how the challenges of fatherhood shift as your children grow, the importance of setting healthy boundaries early on, and the power of choosing connection over control. Ben opens up about the emotional journey of letting go, especially when your kids reach the point where they no longer need your advice but still value your input. As fathers, we can sometimes feel like failures, but we must remember that our humility and willingness to evolve play a crucial role in building trust and keeping those vital connections alive.

Whether you're parenting toddlers or navigating the tricky teen years, or even guiding adult children, this conversation offers insight into how you can continuously adapt to become the father your kids need at every stage of their lives. Join us as we explore fatherhood in all its complexities, offering practical advice and heartening stories to inspire fathers everywhere.

Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction: Fatherhood Journey
00:32 - Cop Stage: Setting Boundaries Early On
01:43 - Transitioning to the Coach Role: Guiding Teens
04:41 - The Consultant Stage: Giving Advice Only When Asked
07:06 - The Power of Offering Choices to Empower Kids
10:12 - The Importance of Emotional Connection and Trust
12:50 - Moving from Control to Collaboration: Letting Kids Lead
15:22 - How Fear Influences Parenting and How to Overcome It
18:45 - Fatherhood and Rejection: Handling Disconnection with Daughters
23:57 - Parenting with Humility: The Key to Building Strong Relationships

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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Connect with Ben:
Website: https://www.lovingonpurpose.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/benserpell/?hl=en

In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I sit down with my friend, minister, and husband and father, Ben Serpell from Sacramento, California. We unpack a struggle that so many men face but rarely name out loud: moving from being passive and disengaged to becoming powerful, present, and emotionally safe for the people we love most. Ben shares candidly about early marriage, kids, and how “checking out” at home felt easier than facing hard conversations with his wife and children.

Together, we talk about where passivity starts, why fear and self-protection masquerade as humility, and how anger is often just fear in disguise. We hit on fatherhood, marriage, emotional intelligence, and what it really means to provide — not just financially, but by creating safety, connection, and room for mistakes in our homes. We also dive into personality wiring, self-awareness tools like StrengthsFinder, and why learning to truly listen can change your marriage, your relationship with your kids, and your friendships.

We finish by talking about brotherhood, covenant friendships, and investing in your own health so that your life doesn’t stall out in the middle. Ben shares from his Dragon Slayers men’s group, I share from my own story of divorce, bankruptcy, and rebuilding, and we frame what it means to be a powerful, honorable man who brings wealth (not neediness) into every relationship. If you’re a man in your “next third” of life who’s tired of passivity, fear, and isolation, this conversation will challenge you to step into wholeness so your next third really can become your best third. If this resonates, hit like, drop a comment, subscribe, and share it with a man who needs this.

Chapters:
00:00 - Welcome to Next Third Best Third & introducing Ben
01:20 - Early marriage, young kids & how passivity sneaks in
03:24 - Bull rider story: brave in the arena, terrified at home
06:15 - Self-awareness, wiring & why our differences feel threatening
10:52 - When anger is actually fear (and how men shut down)
12:49 - Redefining “provider” as emotional safety, not just money
19:02 - Fear, failure, bankruptcy & trying to stay in control
20:01 - Becoming the best listener in the room (not the fixer)
26:03 - Dragon Slayers, brotherhood & covenant-minded men
34:32 - Investing in yourself so your next third is your best third

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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Connect with Richie: http://globalawakening.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/richieseltzer/?hl=en

In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I sit down again with my friend Richie Seltzer—evangelist, pastor, author, husband and dad—to talk about the kind of transformation that reaches all the way down into identity and family. Richie shares how he went from 18 felonies by age 16 and a broken home to a radical encounter with Jesus that completely reoriented his life, his sense of purpose, and eventually how he shows up as a father. If you’ve ever wrestled with father wounds, addiction, shame, or just the nagging feeling that you’re “too far gone,” this conversation is for you.

We dive into what it means to truly know God as Father, not just as a distant idea. Richie tells the story of singing worship over his unborn daughter, watching her recognize his voice the moment she was born, and how that became a living picture of how God looks at us: loved, chosen, and worth dying for before we can “do” anything for Him. We talk about living from love instead of fear, why so many of us grew up responding to religion instead of relationship, and what it does to a man when he realizes he starts every day with an A+ in God’s eyes.

Toward the end, Richie shares the gospel in a clear, compelling way and invites listeners to say “yes” to Jesus—right where they are. If you find yourself thinking, “I can’t do this on my own. I need help,” I’d love to hear from you. 

Email me at [email protected] or drop a comment below so we can follow up and walk with you. If this episode impacts you, please like, comment, subscribe, and share it with a friend who needs hope. This is how we make our next third truly our best third—by knowing we’re loved and walking it out together.

Chapters:

00:00 – Welcome Back to Next Third Best Third
00:48 – Richie’s Broken Childhood, Father Wounds & 18 Felonies
02:27 – Paint Crew Encounters & Meeting Radically Saved Coworkers
04:36 – Bridge Moment: Surrendering to Jesus & Finding Purpose
05:40 – Marriage, YWAM & the Shock of Surprise Pregnancy
07:10 – Singing Over the Womb & Inviting God’s Presence into Family
08:30 – Birth Story & A Father’s First Revelation of God’s Love
10:11 – Living from Love, Not Fear: You Start Every Day with an A+
14:39 – The Gospel Invitation: How to Be Born Again Today
18:46 – Motel Balcony Story: The Addicted Dad & the Father Who Redeems

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!