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At age 70, Letty Cottin Pogrebin felt fit as a fiddle on the fateful day she walked three miles to her routine mammogram. A founding editor of Ms. (magazine) and women's rights activist, she had energy and to spare until she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Facing six weeks of radiation treatment, she was now obligated to join others in the waiting room of Memorial Sloan-Kettering in New York City. So, putting on her journalist hat, she began interviewing fellow patients. The result? How to Be a Friend to a Friend Who's Sick--an invaluable handbook about "The New Illness Etiquette" for both the sick and their friends.
00:10 Intro to Letty Cottin Pogrebin, book author and founding editor of Ms. (magazine)
01:15 The Flu and cold season begins
01:45 Pogrebin gets a routine mammogram at age 70
02:10 Breast cancer diagnosis comes without warning signs
04:00 Shares news of cancer and radiation with close friends via email
05:00 Searches in vain for a book about sickness and friendship
05:50 Interviews waiting-room patients for How to Be a Friend to a Friend Who’s Sick
06:31 Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center attracts people the world over
07:45 Discovers discrepancies between their the experiences and wishes of sick people
08:15 Unexpectedly learns about caregivers’ needs
09:30 Ripple effect of illness touches families and friends
09:50 Bottom line: people want to be honest—both the sick and their friends
10:40 What a friend should be able to ask a sick friend
11:10 What a sick person should be able to say to a friend
11:55 Truth-telling and "The New Illness Etiquette"
12:30 A friend reacts perfectly to Pogrebin's diagnosis
13:15 Asking “Do you want to talk about it?” gives a sick person control
13:25 Other lines that are both true and helpful
14:30 Sick people don’t want to hear or answer, “How are you?”
15:55 Their responses can overwhelm friends with TMI
16:15 Asking “What’s happening?” gives patient control over how much to disclose
17:30 Nobody wants to be labeled sick (such as “cancer girl”)
18:15 Saying, “You look great!” can give false reassurance and seem disingenuous
18:30 “Empathy translated into action equals kindness”
18:50 “Illness is friendship’s proving ground”
19:15 Guidelines for visiting sick friends – be considerate
20:40 Guidelines for giving gifts to sick friends – pay attention to diagnoses
21:00 Examples of inappropriate gifts and insensitive comments
22:30 Personalize a friend’s illness to the point you know what gifts to give
24:15 Humor and laughter depend entirely on how well you know the patient
24:50 Remembers laughing at Marlo Thomas’s funny jokes
26:00 Disparages fruit baskets and extols massages (and other sensitive gifts)
27:20 Why ice cream scoops adorn the book cover
28:50 Contrasts generous gifts with the gift she really wanted
29:15 Follow up “What would you like?” with “You know I’m bringing something”
30:25 Illustrates differences between sick men and sick women
30:50 25% of men interviewed hadn’t disclosed their illness
31:15 Tells a heartbreaking story of Orthodox Jewish man hiding his cancer diagnosis
33:45 Cultural and gender barriers prevent many men from sharing the truth
34:10 Women tend to feel comfortable confiding in close friends
35:30 The book includes many lists for how to be helpful & honest
36:00 First step: learn what to say to a friend who’s sick (“Do no harm.”)
36:20 Also, learn appropriate things to say to the bereaved
37:10 Recommendation – Ryan Hamilton: Happy Face (on Netflix)
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Dr. Sharon Saline, licensed clinical psychologist and top ADHD expert, draws on her 25 years of expertise to offer her insightful and practical book, What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life. After listening carefully to ADHD kids express emotions, successes, and motivations, Saline knows how to share proven models of strength-based parenting and attentive awareness. Full of useful exercise and easy-to-remember techniques, the book serves as a must-have handbook for anyone dealing with ADHD kids ages 6-18.
00:15 Intro to Dr. Sharon Saline, licensed clinical psychologist and ADHD expert
02:00 Why Saline chooses to give voice to ADHD kids
02:55 ADHD kids spend lots of time hearing what they’re doing wrong
03:05 Adults tend to give suggestions and interventions that don’t resonate
04:00 Saline’s goal in writing the book is to bridge the gap between adults and kids
04:30 ADHD = hyperactivity or impulsivity that interferes with executive brain functions
06:00 No. of kids vs. adults diagnosed with ADHD today
06:45 How adults deal with ADHD
07:15 ADHD kids today have parents with access to resources
07:45 Saline includes direct quotes from ADHD kids
08:30 Adults often don’t read tantrums well or correctly
09:30 Saline develops “The 5 Cs of ADHD Parenting”
10:00 5 Cs based in strength-based thinking and attentive awareness
10:30 How to develop the ability to connect more & argue less
10:50 1st C: Self-Control – parents needs to regulate/manage themselves first
11:30 Breathing techniques (belly, alternative nostril, etc.)
11:55 The “Bathroom Technique”
12:30 2nd C: Compassion – both for yourself and your child
13:10 3rd C: Collaboration – adult & child create plan based on real incentives
14:00 Only try to change one thing at a time
14:50 4th C: Consistency – mean what you say and follow through
15:30 “Efforting” vs. achieving – keep trying!
16:05 5th C: Celebration – notice efforts and progress (give praise)
17:00 Positivity ratio should be between 3-5 to 1
17:30 Countering negativity by verbally observing positive behavior
18:00 Combined, the 5Cs = “secret sauce for success”
18:15 The toughest “C” for parents
19:40 “Medicine can help, but pills don’t teach skills.”
20:00 Skills need to be taught directly; medicine can help prepare brain for learning
20:40 ADHD kids have frontal lobes that mature up to three years behind the norm
21:30 The brain’s executive functions may not be fully developed until age 28
22:35 Book’s hopeful message is that ADHD kids are trying hard to do well
23:25 One sad constant among ADHD kids: shame (feeling different)
23:55 Medication facilitates connection between neurons to make learning skills easier
25:25 ADHD exterior often masks interior feelings
26:50 “Accepting the ADHD Brain You Have”
27:15 Clients name their brains and what they really like about them
28:15 Parents and kids to work together to make positive things “bigger”
29:00 Debunking myth that everyone else has no challenges
30:00 ADHD kids want their parents to “be real”
30:15 How to form an alliance with ADHD kids
31:50 Addressing the homework hurdle
32:30 School usually hardest area of functioning for ADHD kids, especially writing
33:00 Timing medication is critical to having success with homework assignments
35:00 Developing a homework routine with your ADHD child
36:30 Using quick fixes vs. developing a big plan to “walk through the valley”
Recommendation: Hoopla Digital to access 8 free books/month (without a wait!)
BUY What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life
For more information about dealing with ADHD, go to Dr. Saline's website.
For 8 free e-downloads/month, check out Hoopla Digital.
Connect with Nonfiction4Life!
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Dr. Sharon Saline, licensed clinical psychologist and top ADHD expert, draws on her 25 years of expertise to offer her insightful and practical book, What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life. After listening carefully to ADHD kids express emotions, successes, and motivations, Saline knows how to share proven models of strength-based parenting and attentive awareness. Full of useful exercise and easy-to-remember techniques, the book serves as a must-have handbook for anyone dealing with ADHD kids ages 6-18.
00:15 Intro to Dr. Sharon Saline, licensed clinical psychologist and ADHD expert
02:00 Why Saline chooses to give voice to ADHD kids
02:55 ADHD kids spend lots of time hearing what they’re doing wrong
03:05 Adults tend to give suggestions and interventions that don’t resonate
04:00 Saline’s goal in writing the book is to bridge the gap between adults and kids
04:30 ADHD = hyperactivity or impulsivity that interferes with executive brain functions
06:00 No. of kids vs. adults diagnosed with ADHD today
06:45 How adults deal with ADHD
07:15 ADHD kids today have parents with access to resources
07:45 Saline includes direct quotes from ADHD kids
08:30 Adults often don’t read tantrums well or correctly
09:30 Saline develops “The 5 Cs of ADHD Parenting”
10:00 5 Cs based in strength-based thinking and attentive awareness
10:30 How to develop the ability to connect more & argue less
10:50 1st C: Self-Control – parents needs to regulate/manage themselves first
11:30 Breathing techniques (belly, alternative nostril, etc.)
11:55 The “Bathroom Technique”
12:30 2nd C: Compassion – both for yourself and your child
13:10 3rd C: Collaboration – adult & child create plan based on real incentives
14:00 Only try to change one thing at a time
14:50 4th C: Consistency – mean what you say and follow through
15:30 “Efforting” vs. achieving – keep trying!
16:05 5th C: Celebration – notice efforts and progress (give praise)
17:00 Positivity ratio should be between 3-5 to 1
17:30 Countering negativity by verbally observing positive behavior
18:00 Combined, the 5Cs = “secret sauce for success”
18:15 The toughest “C” for parents
19:40 “Medicine can help, but pills don’t teach skills.”
20:00 Skills need to be taught directly; medicine can help prepare brain for learning
20:40 ADHD kids have frontal lobes that mature up to three years behind the norm
21:30 The brain’s executive functions may not be fully developed until age 28
22:35 Book’s hopeful message is that ADHD kids are trying hard to do well
23:25 One sad constant among ADHD kids: shame (feeling different)
23:55 Medication facilitates connection between neurons to make learning skills easier
25:25 ADHD exterior often masks interior feelings
26:50 “Accepting the ADHD Brain You Have”
27:15 Clients name their brains and what they really like about them
28:15 Parents and kids to work together to make positive things “bigger”
29:00 Debunking myth that everyone else has no challenges
30:00 ADHD kids want their parents to “be real”
30:15 How to form an alliance with ADHD kids
31:50 Addressing the homework hurdle
32:30 School usually hardest area of functioning for ADHD kids, especially writing
33:00 Timing medication is critical to having success with homework assignments
35:00 Developing a homework routine with your ADHD child
36:30 Using quick fixes vs. developing a big plan to “walk through the valley”
Recommendation: Hoopla Digital to access 8 free books/month (without a wait!)
BUY What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life
For more information about dealing with ADHD, go to Dr. Saline's website.
For 8 free e-downloads/month, check out Hoopla Digital.
Connect with Nonfiction4Life!
Special thanks…
Janet shares Just 3 books in the "Personal Development" category to help improve yourself and your life. She also announces "Recommendations," a brand-new feature on Nonfiction4Life podcasts.
00:20 Another episode of “Editor’s Picks” from the “Personal Development” category
00:25 Two other EP episodes (#20-Home & Family; #47-Biographies & Memoirs)
00:40 N4L adding “Recommendations” to the podcast; stay tuned to the end!
01:10 Just 3 Personal Development books
01:40 1st book: How Will You Measure Your Life by Clayton Christensen, James Allworth, and Karen Dillon
01:50 Impressive resume includes being named “the world’s most influential thinker
02:50 Health fails; he’s a Harvard Business School professor, but he can’t write or speak
03:20 Relearning is demanding, slow, and discouraging
03:35 Arrives at a “fork in the road” where he decides his true purpose in life
03:50 1. Encourages his students to use time at school to figure out their lives’ direction
04:30 2. Gives smart people permission to make family and home life top priority
06:00 HBS class reunions full of extremely successful, very unhappy people
06:55 3. Helps students use theories to predict the trajectory of their lives
07:30 Bottom line: he helps people choose happiness and joy over everything else
07:50 2nd book: Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans
08:10 Authors teach popular design course at Stanford University
08:15 Apply design principles and processes to help people design their own lives
08:45 1. Visual dashboards: how you’re spending time; “Odyssey Planning 101” (5-year plans)
09:30 2. Emphasizes the positive (look back at “peak experiences"; focus on offers, not jobs)
10:00 3. Being, Doing, and Becoming cycle emphasizes growth
10:55 3rd book: Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth
11:05 Good news for non-geniuses working hard: grit can be learned!
11:15 Duckworth supports ideas with research
11:25 1. Found grittiest adults in their late 6os, and the least gritty in their 20s
12:15 2. Finding your true passion takes time, sometimes years
12:40 3. How to grow grit from the inside out
12:50 “Grit Grid” charts commitment to outside activities and attached recognition
13:45 Follow-through & commitment to extra-curricular requires selection and cultivation
14:35 Discover your own level of grit using Duckworth's 10-Question Grit Scale.
14:50 Intro to N4L’s first-ever Recommendation
14:55 Janet’s mother, Mrs. Tanner, just turned 98 years old and has dementia
15:10 Story of her forgetting how many children she has
15:30 Janet chooses to laugh; takes comfort knowing part of her brain works really well
15:45 Mom knows all the lyrics to hundreds of songs
16:10 Other older people suffering from memory loss can also be amazing, but changed
16:20 Teddy from the UK got Alzheimer’s and became aggressive and ill-tempered
16:30 His son Simon wanted to remember his father’s better side and his strong tenor voice
16:45 Simon takes Teddy for drives, plays music familiar to his father
16:50 Simon records father-son duets of Teddy’s signature songs; posts on YouTube
17:00 Teddy named “The Songaminute Man”
17:10 Videos go viral
17:15 Janet recommends "The Songaminute Man" YouTube video "Cuando, Cuando, Cuando"
17:25 Simon crowdsources to fund professional recordings; proceeds help Alzheimer’s research
BUY How Will You Measure Your Life?
BUY Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life
BUY Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
Connect with Nonfiction4Life:
Special thanks…
Janet shares Just 3 books in the "Personal Development" category to help improve yourself and your life. She also announces "Recommendations," a brand-new feature on Nonfiction4Life podcasts.
00:20 Another episode of “Editor’s Picks” from the “Personal Development” category
00:25 Two other EP episodes (#20-Home & Family; #47-Biographies & Memoirs)
00:40 N4L adding “Recommendations” to the podcast; stay tuned to the end!
01:10 Just 3 Personal Development books
01:40 1st book: How Will You Measure Your Life by Clayton Christensen, James Allworth, and Karen Dillon
01:50 Impressive resume includes being named “the world’s most influential thinker
02:50 Health fails; he’s a Harvard Business School professor, but he can’t write or speak
03:20 Relearning is demanding, slow, and discouraging
03:35 Arrives at a “fork in the road” where he decides his true purpose in life
03:50 1. Encourages his students to use time at school to figure out their lives’ direction
04:30 2. Gives smart people permission to make family and home life top priority
06:00 HBS class reunions full of extremely successful, very unhappy people
06:55 3. Helps students use theories to predict the trajectory of their lives
07:30 Bottom line: he helps people choose happiness and joy over everything else
07:50 2nd book: Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans
08:10 Authors teach popular design course at Stanford University
08:15 Apply design principles and processes to help people design their own lives
08:45 1. Visual dashboards: how you’re spending time; “Odyssey Planning 101” (5-year plans)
09:30 2. Emphasizes the positive (look back at “peak experiences"; focus on offers, not jobs)
10:00 3. Being, Doing, and Becoming cycle emphasizes growth
10:55 3rd book: Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth
11:05 Good news for non-geniuses working hard: grit can be learned!
11:15 Duckworth supports ideas with research
11:25 1. Found grittiest adults in their late 6os, and the least gritty in their 20s
12:15 2. Finding your true passion takes time, sometimes years
12:40 3. How to grow grit from the inside out
12:50 “Grit Grid” charts commitment to outside activities and attached recognition
13:45 Follow-through & commitment to extra-curricular requires selection and cultivation
14:35 Discover your own level of grit using Duckworth's 10-Question Grit Scale.
14:50 Intro to N4L’s first-ever Recommendation
14:55 Janet’s mother, Mrs. Tanner, just turned 98 years old and has dementia
15:10 Story of her forgetting how many children she has
15:30 Janet chooses to laugh; takes comfort knowing part of her brain works really well
15:45 Mom knows all the lyrics to hundreds of songs
16:10 Other older people suffering from memory loss can also be amazing, but changed
16:20 Teddy from the UK got Alzheimer’s and became aggressive and ill-tempered
16:30 His son Simon wanted to remember his father’s better side and his strong tenor voice
16:45 Simon takes Teddy for drives, plays music familiar to his father
16:50 Simon records father-son duets of Teddy’s signature songs; posts on YouTube
17:00 Teddy named “The Songaminute Man”
17:10 Videos go viral
17:15 Janet recommends "The Songaminute Man" YouTube video "Cuando, Cuando, Cuando"
17:25 Simon crowdsources to fund professional recordings; proceeds help Alzheimer’s research
BUY How Will You Measure Your Life?
BUY Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life
BUY Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
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Special thanks…
On his own from age 13, Chris Singleton had to fight to survive. Channeling all his youthful grit, determination, and perseverance into becoming a nationally recognized top salesman, he captures lessons learned in his bestselling book, All Is Fair in Love and Sales: Six Steps to Sales Success. Listen to his personal story of overcoming difficult challenges and how he lives to help others succeed.
00:15 Invitation to add to Janet’s 56th Birthday List
01:15 Intro to Chris Singleton
01:35 Singleton’s sales credentials
02:00 Begins sales career selling Kirby vacuum cleaners and Cutco knives
02:40 Lives by the mantra that life’s meaning comes from our impact on others
03:20 Young Singleton learns supply and demand in “free lunch” line
05:15 Rough times with poverty, homelessness, incarceration helps him learn to hustle
05:45 Explains why sales book is valuable to everyone
06:25 Selling is as universal as love
07:00 Communication part of everyone’s life
07:25 The #1 Rule of Sales
07:40 “Sell me this pen” test
08:45 The most common mistake salespeople make
09:40 How subconscious projection gets in the way
10:35 Singleton lists his most important mentors
12:15 Making an effective introduction
12:45 What makes a good first impression
13:00 Explains confirmation bias
14:15 Maximizing first impression opportunities
14:30 One of the biggest first-impression mistakes
15:15 How facial hair affects impressions
17:00 Effective presentations likened to doctor knowing symptoms
19:00 How to close the deal by knowing five personality types
19:30 Easiest personality to deal with is “The Entertainer”
20:20 Most difficult personality to deal with is “The Fighter”
22:00 What everyone needs to know about body language
24:00 Why "silence is golden" in salesmanship
25:00 Not allowing a customer adequate time to respond perceived as pressure
26:30 Networking: who you know vs. how you know
28:50 Getting referrals without asking for one
29:15 Using “golden nugget” as a bridge between you and the new client
31:00 The importance of following up
31:15 Joe Girard, sets the record for most automobile sales in one year
32:00 Kept in touch with every customer, remembering names & key dates and writing personalized notes
32:15 Stats on how well people remember the name of their realtor and car salesperson
34:20 Advice for aspiring authors or entrepreneurs
34:30 Don’t give up on your dreams
34:50 Invest in yourself by getting a coach
BUY All Is Fair in Love and Sales: Six Steps to Sales Success
Connect with us!
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On his own from age 13, Chris Singleton had to fight to survive. Channeling all his youthful grit, determination, and perseverance into becoming a nationally recognized top salesman, he captures lessons learned in his bestselling book, All Is Fair in Love and Sales: Six Steps to Sales Success. Listen to his personal story of overcoming difficult challenges and how he lives to help others succeed.
00:15 Invitation to add to Janet’s 56th Birthday List
01:15 Intro to Chris Singleton
01:35 Singleton’s sales credentials
02:00 Begins sales career selling Kirby vacuum cleaners and Cutco knives
02:40 Lives by the mantra that life’s meaning comes from our impact on others
03:20 Young Singleton learns supply and demand in “free lunch” line
05:15 Rough times with poverty, homelessness, incarceration helps him learn to hustle
05:45 Explains why sales book is valuable to everyone
06:25 Selling is as universal as love
07:00 Communication part of everyone’s life
07:25 The #1 Rule of Sales
07:40 “Sell me this pen” test
08:45 The most common mistake salespeople make
09:40 How subconscious projection gets in the way
10:35 Singleton lists his most important mentors
12:15 Making an effective introduction
12:45 What makes a good first impression
13:00 Explains confirmation bias
14:15 Maximizing first impression opportunities
14:30 One of the biggest first-impression mistakes
15:15 How facial hair affects impressions
17:00 Effective presentations likened to doctor knowing symptoms
19:00 How to close the deal by knowing five personality types
19:30 Easiest personality to deal with is “The Entertainer”
20:20 Most difficult personality to deal with is “The Fighter”
22:00 What everyone needs to know about body language
24:00 Why "silence is golden" in salesmanship
25:00 Not allowing a customer adequate time to respond perceived as pressure
26:30 Networking: who you know vs. how you know
28:50 Getting referrals without asking for one
29:15 Using “golden nugget” as a bridge between you and the new client
31:00 The importance of following up
31:15 Joe Girard, sets the record for most automobile sales in one year
32:00 Kept in touch with every customer, remembering names & key dates and writing personalized notes
32:15 Stats on how well people remember the name of their realtor and car salesperson
34:20 Advice for aspiring authors or entrepreneurs
34:30 Don’t give up on your dreams
34:50 Invest in yourself by getting a coach
BUY All Is Fair in Love and Sales: Six Steps to Sales Success
Connect with us!
Special thanks…
Nonfiction4Life Host & Founder Janet Perry celebrates her 56th birthday along with the posting of the 56th episode. She shares her story of falling in love...with learning! Connecting words to books and books to ideas, she takes listeners along her journey and explains how she chose to become a podcaster of nonfiction books.
She also invites all to subscribe to the email list so she can share a gift with them--"Janet's List of 56 Things"--that includes book lists, apps, movies, and other things that shaped her and her love of learning.
00:15 Taking a departure from standard author interviews
00:25 Today is Janet Perry's 56th birthday and N4L’s 56th podcast episode
00:35 She’s celebrating by sharing her own story
01:25 Welcome to those just discovering N4L
01:50 Two moments that illustrate Janet’s love for learning
02:30 The story of how Janet fell in love…with words, books, and ideas
02:55 She can’t remember not knowing how to read
03:20 Instead of collecting dolls, Janet collected words (homonyms)
03:45 Her mom was a natural grammarian who loved words
04:15 Parents’ teachings made Janet’s Modern American Usage college course a breeze
04:25 Pronunciation of words also important
05:00 Janet fell in love with the world of books in Tanner Manor, her childhood home
05:45 The Tanner Manor library was filled with solid-oak bookshelves and ceiling beams
06:20 One of her favorite assignments was dusting the library
07:00 A nondescript downstairs closet was filled with paperbacks of classics and new releases
07:50 South Pasadena Public Library was funded by Andrew Carnegie
08:15 Library built in same Classic/Mediterranean Revival style as Tanner Manor
08:30 Boasted columns on separate entrances for adult library and children’s library
09:05 Tanner family culture included frequenting the public library
09:40 Library located across the street from El Centro, Janet’s elementary school
09:50 Lost a library book and panicked she’d have to pay for overdue fines
10:30 Spent Wednesdays after school listening to children’s librarian read aloud
11:15 Loved sneaking up inside staircase to the adult section
12:00 Books led her to the world of ideas
12:15 Feared turning into “an economic zero” by becoming an English major
12:45 Found people discussing books and ideas – the “white noise” of Tanner Manor
13:10 Collected and memorized quotes of great thinkers
13:45 Book groups and podcasts sparked her love of great ideas
14:00 Gave herself permission to read books, even when busy and sick
14:30 Podcasts helped her satisfy the itch to learn
14:45 How she narrowed the scope of Nonfiction4Life
15:30 Summary of Janet (from About page on Nonfiction4Life website)
15:45 “So many books, so little time!”
16:20 To celebrate her 56th birthday, she offers a gift to all email subscribers
16:50 All subscribers will receive “Janet’s List of 56 Things”
17:20 Janet invites all listeners to stay on the journey to discover and discuss great nonfiction books
Subscribe here to the Nonfiction4Life email list.
For more stories about Tanner Manor, go to Janet’s personal blog.
For pictures mentioned in the podcast, go to the Nonfiction4Life Website.
Connect with Nonfiction4Life on social media:
Special thanks…
Nonfiction4Life Host & Founder Janet Perry celebrates her 56th birthday along with the posting of the 56th episode. She shares her story of falling in love...with learning! Connecting words to books and books to ideas, she takes listeners along her journey and explains how she chose to become a podcaster of nonfiction books.
She also invites all to subscribe to the email list so she can share a gift with them--"Janet's List of 56 Things"--that includes book lists, apps, movies, and other things that shaped her and her love of learning.
00:15 Taking a departure from standard author interviews
00:25 Today is Janet Perry's 56th birthday and N4L’s 56th podcast episode
00:35 She’s celebrating by sharing her own story
01:25 Welcome to those just discovering N4L
01:50 Two moments that illustrate Janet’s love for learning
02:30 The story of how Janet fell in love…with words, books, and ideas
02:55 She can’t remember not knowing how to read
03:20 Instead of collecting dolls, Janet collected words (homonyms)
03:45 Her mom was a natural grammarian who loved words
04:15 Parents’ teachings made Janet’s Modern American Usage college course a breeze
04:25 Pronunciation of words also important
05:00 Janet fell in love with the world of books in Tanner Manor, her childhood home
05:45 The Tanner Manor library was filled with solid-oak bookshelves and ceiling beams
06:20 One of her favorite assignments was dusting the library
07:00 A nondescript downstairs closet was filled with paperbacks of classics and new releases
07:50 South Pasadena Public Library was funded by Andrew Carnegie
08:15 Library built in same Classic/Mediterranean Revival style as Tanner Manor
08:30 Boasted columns on separate entrances for adult library and children’s library
09:05 Tanner family culture included frequenting the public library
09:40 Library located across the street from El Centro, Janet’s elementary school
09:50 Lost a library book and panicked she’d have to pay for overdue fines
10:30 Spent Wednesdays after school listening to children’s librarian read aloud
11:15 Loved sneaking up inside staircase to the adult section
12:00 Books led her to the world of ideas
12:15 Feared turning into “an economic zero” by becoming an English major
12:45 Found people discussing books and ideas – the “white noise” of Tanner Manor
13:10 Collected and memorized quotes of great thinkers
13:45 Book groups and podcasts sparked her love of great ideas
14:00 Gave herself permission to read books, even when busy and sick
14:30 Podcasts helped her satisfy the itch to learn
14:45 How she narrowed the scope of Nonfiction4Life
15:30 Summary of Janet (from About page on Nonfiction4Life website)
15:45 “So many books, so little time!”
16:20 To celebrate her 56th birthday, she offers a gift to all email subscribers
16:50 All subscribers will receive “Janet’s List of 56 Things”
17:20 Janet invites all listeners to stay on the journey to discover and discuss great nonfiction books
Subscribe here to the Nonfiction4Life email list.
For more stories about Tanner Manor, go to Janet’s personal blog.
For pictures mentioned in the podcast, go to the Nonfiction4Life Website.
Connect with Nonfiction4Life on social media:
Special thanks…
Your Fantastic Elastic Brain: Stretch It, Shape It by Dr. JoAnn Deak unveils exciting truths about our brains: we can stretch and shape them as long as we continue to learn. According to educational consultant and psychologist Deak, if we take advantage of 0pen "windows" in the brain, we'll keep our minds "plastic." Complete with colored illustrations and diagrams, this children's nonfiction book targets children ages 3-9, but middle schoolers and adults as well are reading it, too.
Deak's simple language coupled with Sarah Ackerley's engaging illustrations belie the complex subject matter of Your Fantastic Elastic Brain. Although the human brain is, indeed, multifaceted, Deak does not shrink from introducing high-level vocabulary to youngsters. This includes learning anatomical parts of the brain such as the hippocampus, prefrontal cortex, and amygdala.
Best of all, Deak alleviates kids' fear of failure by assuring them making mistakes is one of the best ways to stretch "your fantastic elastic brain." Now, children the world over are taking courage and trying new things without giving up! And, because of Deak, they understand every interaction they have influences the adults they will become.
BUY Your Fantastic Elastic Brain: Stretch It, Shape It
BUY The Owner's Manual for Driving Your Adolescent Brain
BUY how girls THRIVE
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