*As a warning, there’s a quick mention of Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny that is not intended for little ears. It’s really short, but we wanted to let you know.

In this episode, Alice and Allison explore the Proust Questionnaire, asking each other questions from the famous list of questions favored by Marcel Proust. They discuss themes of authenticity, fear, communication, happiness, and connection, and reflect on personal growth, resilience, and adaptability, sharing insights from their journeys in sobriety and creativity.

We hope you enjoy this conversation!

Now it’s your turn: What are your answers to the Proust Questionnaire? Or share your experience of asking these questions to someone you care about. Send us an email at [email protected], on Substack, or on Instagram. You can also leave us a comment, or a voice note. We can’t wait to hear from you, and include your stories in the next email episode to celebrate Now That We Think About It 25th episode!

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A&A

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Julie Buxbaum

The Proust Questionnaire

Chop Wood, Carry Water by Jess Craven

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In this engaging conversation, Alice and Allison welcome actress Tessa Ferrer to explore the world of podcasts, sharing their personal favorites and the impact these audio stories have on their lives. They discuss the importance of storytelling, the role of female voices in the podcasting space, and how podcasts can foster community and personal growth. The conversation highlights the diverse genres available and the unique formats that make podcasts a compelling medium for both entertainment and education. In this engaging conversation, the hosts explore the multifaceted world of podcasts, discussing everything from the unique flavors of cardamom-infused coffee to the profound impact of re-listening to favorite episodes. They delve into the importance of finding meaningful content that resonates personally, the balance between entertainment and education, and the role of podcasts in fostering compassion and understanding in a divided world. The discussion highlights the accessibility of knowledge through podcasts and the evolving nature of this medium, emphasizing its power to connect people through shared experiences and curiosity.

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The podcasts that Alice, Allison & Tessa mentions are, in order of mention:

Struggle Care:

ADHD for Smart Ass Women:

Script Notes:

WTF with Marc Maron:

Heavyweight:

The Rumble Strip:

Busy Philipps is Doing Her Best:

Tara Brach:

The Flightless Bird:

Armchair Expert:

This American Life:

Radio Lab:

The C Word:

Savage Lovecast:

Sam Jones:

Coffee with Alice: https://alicecarbone.com/projects/coffee-with-alice/

Wiser Than Me:

Mike Birbiglia’s Working it Out:

You Made It Weird:

Table Manners:

Good Hang:

Dish:

Memory Palace:

99% Invisible:

Reclaiming with Monica Lewinski:

Learning Lots:

Harder to Breath:

All There Is:

QAA:

Citations needed:

The Intercept:

You Are a Lot:

More Than You See:

Home of the Brave:

Now it’s your turn: what are your favorite podcasts? Send us an email at [email protected] , or one here on Substack, or on Instagram. You can also leave us a comment, or a voice note. We can’t wait to hear from you, and include your stories in the next email episode to celebrate Now That We Think About It 25th episode!

Enjoy,

A&A

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In this episode, Alice Carbone Tench and Allison Larkin explore the use of tarot decks as a means of introspection. Pulling cards for each other leads to sharing personal anecdotes and a thoughtful discussion around the importance of awe in our daily lives, navigating the choices and chances we face, and the ways we can learn to listen to our intuition. The conversation touches on the challenges of creative work, the significance of finding a sense of belonging, and the power of making choices that align with our true selves.

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Links:

Alice’s Tarot Deck:

Elemental Power Tarot by Melinda Lee Holm*

Melinda Lee Holm’s website

Allison’s Tarot Deck:

Everyday Witch Tarot by Deborah Blake, Illustrated by Elisabeth Alba*

Deborah Blake’s website

Elisabeth Alba’s website

Also mentioned:

Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl Strayed*

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To welcome Autumn, this conversation explores the emotional and sensory experiences associated with the changing of seasons, particularly the transition into fall. Allison and Alice reflect on their childhood memories, culinary traditions, and the impact of climate change on seasonal experiences. They discuss the importance of rituals, music, and the beauty found in everyday moments, emphasizing the significance of being present and connected to nature. The dialogue highlights the bittersweet nature of change and the joy that can be found in life's transitions.

Mentions:

What the Living Do, by Marie Howe

Hollywood Forever Cemetery

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In this episode, Alice and Allie explore the psychology of consumerism, discussing how advertising influences our desires and the emotional journey of purchasing. They share personal stories about items that promised to change their lives but didn't, and those that truly made a difference. The conversation touches on societal pressures, the allure of sales, and the internal conflicts of wants versus needs. 

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In this engaging conversation, Allison and Alice invite author (and friend) Renee Swindle. Together, they explore the multifaceted nature of friendship, particularly through the lens of literature and through Renee new novel, Francine’s Spectacular Crash & Burn. They discuss the profound impact of personal connections, the complexities of female friendships, and the role of self-discovery in nurturing these relationships. The dialogue highlights how literature reflects the dynamics of friendship, as well as the importance of authentic connections in personal growth and creative expression.

Mentions:

Francine Spectacular Crash and Burn

Eating Again (The Recipes that Healed Me)

The People We Keep

Home of the American Circus

Tara Brach’s podcast

You can follow Renee Swindle on Instagram or through her website

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In this conversation, Allison and Alice explore the themes of sobriety, acceptance, and personal growth. They discuss the transformative power of acceptance in navigating life's challenges, the impact of social media on self-worth, and the importance of perspective in personal development. Through their shared experiences, they emphasize the journey of self-discovery and the freedom that comes from letting go of control and embracing the unknown.

Allison mentions the sunk-cost fallacy:

* Sunk-cost fallacy: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_cost

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In this conversation, Allison and Alice explore the multifaceted concept of self-care, discussing personal experiences, societal influences, and the importance of self-acceptance. They delve into the challenges of navigating relationships, cultural expectations, and the impact of chronic illness on their self-care practices. The dialogue emphasizes the need for authenticity, the joy found in everyday tasks, and the balance between self-care and reality. Ultimately, they highlight the significance of being true to oneself and accommodating personal needs as essential components of self-care.

We hope you enjoy this conversation!

Tell us what YOU think about the topics we discuss!

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In this episode, hosts Alice and Allison dive into the comforting world of TV shows and movies that bring joy and connection. From nostalgic classics like "The Princess Bride" to modern gems like "The White Lotus," they explore how storytelling on screen offers a refuge from the chaos of the world. Join them as they share personal favorites, discuss the evolution of TV storytelling, and invite listeners to reflect on their own cherished shows. Tune in for a delightful conversation that celebrates the art of television and its power to connect us all.

We hope you enjoy this conversation!

Mentioned in this episode:

Book:

Francine's Spectacular Crash and Burn by Renee Swindle*

Movies:

E.T.

The Neverending Story

The Princess Bride

Doc Hollywood

The Ghost and Mrs. Muir

American Fiction

TV Shows:

The Four Seasons

Sirens

Maid

Breaking Bad

House

Gilmore Girls

The Sopranos

Big Love

Weeds

Dexter

Prison Break

And Just Like That

Glow

True Blood

Teenage Bounty Hunters

Ginny and Georgia

The Santa Clarita Diet

Murder, She Wrote

Spencer for Hire

Perry Mason

Kevin Can F**k Himself

Schitt's Creek

Brooklyn Nine-Nine

New Girl

The Twilight Zone

Succession

White Lotus

The Perfect Couple

Your Friends and Neighbors

Loot

Platonic

The Good Place

The Residence

Somebody Feed Phil

Long Way Round

Long Way Down

Long Way Up

Long Way Home

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In this conversation, Alice and Allison explore the profound impact of nature on mental health, childhood development, and overall well-being. They discuss personal experiences with outdoor activities, the importance of modeling outdoor behavior for children, and practical tips for incorporating nature into daily life. The conversation emphasizes the need for accessible green spaces and the role of community in fostering a connection with nature. They also address the challenges posed by technology and societal norms that may hinder outdoor engagement, ultimately encouraging listeners to prioritize time spent in nature for their mental and physical health.

Sources:

* https://childmind.org/article/why-kids-need-to-spend-time-in-nature/

* https://e360.yale.edu/features/ecopsychology-how-immersion-in-nature-benefits-your-health

* https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8125471/

Tell us what YOU think about the topics we discuss!

To be part of future episodes email Allison and Alice at [email protected] (or send a voice note, or comment or DM on Substack or Instagram) with stories about libraries (Did your library have a summer reading program? What is your favorite library memory? How do you use the library now? Do you have a tribute to a favorite librarian? Are you a librarian?), your favorite comfort rituals, what do you do to respect the environment (stories, anecdotes, suggestions on recycling, buying pre-loved, etc.), your relationship with nature, recommendations of recent films and TV shows you’ve enjoyed, and with stories of hope that helped you get through a hard time in your life.

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