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Ever feel like you’re stuck in the waiting room of life? Whether you’re waiting for love, a family, the right job, or just clarity about what’s next, the void can feel like punishment. In this episode of Off-Limits with Ellen Roers, I share a personal story of generosity, unexpected kindness, and little moments that reminded me: the void isn’t empty, it’s preparation.

✨ You’ll hear about:

• Why waiting seasons aren’t wasted
• A Friday night full of small acts of generosity
• How men (and women) show up in everyday ways that matter
• Practical ways to choose joy in the in-between

🌟 Reflection Questions:

1. Where are you sitting in the void right now?
2. What small act of kindness reminded you of humanity this week?
3. How can you reframe waiting as preparation, not punishment?

Men, we see you and women love you. Void, we embrace you. And to you listening, remember, the best is yet to be.

Lots of love,

Ellen

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Are you making decisions based on where you're going... or based on what happened to you before?

In Episode 41 of Off-Limits, I start with something surprisingly simple: a dating profile that made me wonder whether we sometimes think we're communicating our standards when we're actually communicating our wounds.

But this episode isn't really about dating.

It's about how we're living.

Whether you're single, married, starting over, navigating a career change, rebuilding after disappointment, or simply trying to figure out your next chapter, we all carry pieces of our past into our present.

The question is:

Is your past teaching you... or is it quietly running the show?

I also get personal about the ending of a relationship with someone I genuinely cared about. There was no villain. No betrayal. No dramatic ending. Just two good people trying to determine whether the lives they were individually building could truly become one.

And it made me wonder:

Can a relationship still be successful even if it ends?

We talk about trusting your intuition versus overthinking, the power and occasional ache of singlehood, building your “empire” while still leaving room for someone else, and the difference between carrying baggage forward and carrying wisdom.

Because healing doesn't mean pretending something didn't hurt.

It means becoming conscious enough that what happened to you doesn't unconsciously decide what happens next.

And this isn't just about romantic relationships.

Where are old hurts influencing your marriage, friendships, career, opportunities, or the way you see yourself?

Are your standards rooted in self-worth... or have some become armor?

Are you staying because something is right for you... or because you're afraid of what happens if you let it go?

Are you responding to what's actually happening today... or to something that happened years ago?

And maybe the biggest question:

If the thing you've been asking for showed up tomorrow, are you actually ready to receive it... or are you still protecting yourself from what happened before?

Your past gets to teach you.

It doesn't get to drive you.

Take the lesson. Keep the wisdom. Leave the bitterness.

Date from hope.
 Love from hope.
 Build from hope.
 Lead from hope.
 And most importantly... live from hope.

Because nothing is off-limits when you're living on purpose.

Ellen Roers | EL&Co. Elevated Living
Host, Off-Limits Podcast
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Hello and welcome back to Off Limits! I 'm your host Ellen Roers and today I am coming in hot with something that has been living on my heart lately.

I'm in a rebuilding season.  New career, side hustles in the works, focusing on my health and my body and through all of it I keep coming back to this one vision. Building something so big, so abundant, that I can pour it into other people.  Not for the status.  Not for the stuff.  But for the freedom to give.

This episode is short, sweet and straight from the heart, because sometimes that's exactly what we need. Real talk about what it means to build your empire from the inside out.

If you're in a rebuilding season too, if you're hustling, dreaming, and figuring it out one day at a time - this one is for you.

Let's build. 🔥

Liked this episode? Share it with someone who needs it today. And don't forget to hit subscribe so you never miss a thing.  When you're living on purpose, nothing is off limits. 💖

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In this episode of Off-Limits, I sit down with Joey Atlas, creator of The Truth Atlas on YouTube, for a candid conversation about the midlife body and what actually works when it comes to strength, confidence, and feeling good in your skin again.

Joey is known for cutting through fitness noise, especially for men and women navigating midlife changes. Together, we talk honestly about why bodies respond differently after 40, how muscle and fascia play a major role in shaping and rejuvenation, and why strength is one of the most overlooked tools for confidence and beauty.

This conversation goes beyond workouts or aesthetics. We talk about cellulite without shame, sustainable movement without extremes, and learning to trust your body again instead of fighting it.

We also touch on authenticity, aging openly, content creation, and why simple, consistent approaches often outperform trendy fixes.

If you’ve felt frustrated by your body or confused by conflicting fitness advice, this episode is meant to bring clarity, relief, and encouragement.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why midlife bodies need a different approach
• The role of muscle and fascia in reshaping the body
• The truth about cellulite and body texture
• Strength as a pathway to confidence and beauty
• Sustainable movement without punishment or extremes

🎧 Thank you for being here, and if this episode resonates, I hope you’ll share it with someone who needs a healthier, kinder approach to strength and aging well.

Lots of Love,

Ellen Roers

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In this episode of Off-Limits, I share 20 questions I now ask myself quietly and internally before letting someone into my life.  These are not first-date questions, and they’re not meant to interrogate anyone.  They’re meant to help you stay aligned with yourself.

While I share these reflections through the lens of dating and singlehood, these questions truly apply to everyone. Whether you’re single, dating, married, partnered, divorced, or simply in relationship with yourself, alignment matters.

I’ve grouped the questions into themes including intention, boundaries, emotional availability, identity, growth, and solitude. Together, they offer a grounded framework for reflecting on how you show up in relationships and whether you’re choosing from peace or pressure.

I also share why I value singlehood as a season of alignment rather than avoidance, and how clarity can often be kinder than chemistry.

A downloadable version of all 20 questions is available in the show notes for reflection or journaling.  You can revisit them monthly or quarterly as a personal check-in.

I also give a preview of the next episode, where I’ll be interviewing fitness expert Joey Atlas about body confidence, strength, and navigating physical changes in your 40s and beyond.

This episode is an invitation to slow down, reflect honestly, and choose alignment over rushing.

Find the reflective ?'s here:  https://ellenroers.com/f/aligned-or-misaligned-in-love-20-questions-to-ask-yourself

Lots of Love,

Ellen Roers

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What really matters in love - the checklist or the connection? 💭

In this Wisdom Wednesday episode of Off-Limits, Ellen dives into the new film Materialists (Dakota Johnson, Pedro Pascal, Chris Evans) and The Fall Guy (Ryan Gosling, Emily Blunt) to explore how modern dating often feels like a spreadsheet of “must-haves.” She shares personal stories from her younger checklist days, her Box Theory on true love, and the lessons learned when chemistry and connection outweigh paper-perfect resumés.

✨ Takeaways:

• Why connection beats checklists every time.
• The role of self-love and worthiness in finding (and keeping) love.
• Questions to ask yourself if you’re single, dating, or in a relationship.

Because at the end of the day, love isn’t about the restaurants, the résumés, or the paychecks. It’s about who you’d still choose in the box.

Lots of love,
Ellen

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Why are women so exhausted, and why do men seem so lost? In this episode of Off-Limits, I dive into the broken polarity between masculine and feminine energy, in dating, work, and everyday life. From ghosted job interviews to flaky dates, to wake up calls and the role nutrition plays in our hormones, I share real stories from my week and why it’s harder than ever for men and women to connect.

*We’ll talk about:

The deeper truth of masculine as giver and feminine as receiver

Why women can’t soften if men won’t lead and why men can’t lead if women won’t let go

What I’ve learned from being rejected (in jobs and dating) and how it shapes our energy

Why role models like Mike Radoor (thank you for the quote) Mike R. Holland and Revival Coach Bryan inspire me with their grounded masculine presence.

This isn’t about controlling or conforming. It’s about restoring harmony so we can find real connection again.

Lots of love,
Ellen

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Ever feel like your life is one big waiting room? You’re not alone. In this episode of Off-Limits with Ellen Roers, I share what it feels like to juggle consulting, real estate, and the job search while sitting in the “in-between.”

The waiting room can be uncomfortable.  Whether you’re waiting for a job callback, navigating divorce, in between homes, or just unsure of what’s next. But here’s the truth: waiting isn’t punishment. It’s preparation.

Join me as we talk about:
 ✨ Why being multi-passionate is not a weakness but a strength
 ✨ Masculine hustle vs. feminine trust in the waiting season
 ✨ Simple practices to find peace (movement, breath, nature, community, stillness)
 ✨ How to reframe “waiting” as becoming

And yes, I even share why I recorded this one in my Vikings jersey 😉

If you’re in the waiting room too, this episode will remind you: you’re not behind, you’re becoming.

Lots of love,

Ellen 

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Some people watch every move you make but never clap. No likes, no comments, no shares. They’re the silent watchers and if you play it right, they can be your greatest fuel.

In this episode of Off-Limits we’re talking about how to:

·       Understand the psychology of silent watchers (and why they’re not always the enemy)

·       Turn doubt into drive without getting petty

·       Recognize the times we’ve been silent watchers ourselves

·       Keep building your life and success on your terms, not their applause

If you’ve ever felt unseen, underestimated, or quietly judged… this one’s for you.

Reflection Questions:

1.     Who’s been a silent watcher in your life and how do you feel about it now?

2.     Have you ever been a silent watcher for someone else? Why?

3.     What’s one way you can celebrate someone’s win this week?

4.     How do you measure your success when no one’s clapping?

Lots of love,

Ellen

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In this raw and soulful episode of Off-Limits, I blend the fairytale metaphor of Rapunzel with the deep spiritual truth that sometimes, God has to break you to bring you back to life. If you've been hiding, healing, or wondering how to begin again, this episode will meet you there. You're not behind. You're becoming. This is your sign to let the light in and rise.

💌 Find Me Here & Let’s Connect✨

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