Good morning.
Before we begin, I want to share something with you.
This podcast was supposed to be released last night. But after a full day, I realized I was exhausted and didn’t have the energy to give this message the care it deserved.
So I took my own advice.
I stepped back, took a breath, got some rest, and came back this morning with a
refreshed spirit.
And honestly, that feels like the perfect place to begin today’s conversation.
Welcome to The Healing Light Studio. I’m JoAnn, and I’m so glad you’re here.
As we continue The Summer Refresh Series, I’ve been thinking about how easy it is to move through our days carrying so much noise, so many responsibilities, and so many outside voices that we forget to pause and ask what is actually nourishing us. Sometimes the refresh we need does not begin with doing more. Sometimes it begins with paying closer attention to what we have been allowing into our minds, our hearts, and our spirits.
Today, I want to begin with a simple question.
What is feeding your spirit right now?
Not your calendar.
Not your responsibilities.
Not your to-do list.
Your spirit.
That question may seem simple, but I think it is one of the most important questions we can ask ourselves. Whether we realize it or not, we are feeding our spirits something every single day. The conversations we have, the thoughts we think, the things we watch and listen to, the people we spend time with, and the words we speak to ourselves all feed something within us.
Some things leave us feeling drained, distracted, discouraged, and exhausted.
Other things leave us feeling encouraged, hopeful, peaceful, and renewed.
And part of healing is learning to recognize the difference.
I think so many of us pay close attention to what we put into our bodies. We think about the foods we eat, the water we drink, and the habits we practice because we understand that those choices affect how we feel. But we do not always stop to think about what we are feeding our spirits. And yet our spirits are consuming something all day long.
Every conversation.
Every headline.
Every worry.
Every social media post.
Every opinion.
Every expectation.
Little by little, these things shape our inner world.
That is why this question matters.
What is feeding your spirit right now?
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately because I’ve realized how important it is to be intentional about how I begin my day. Every morning, before I check social media, before I start responding to messages or hear about everything happening in the world, and before I get caught up in the demands of my day, I spend a little time in scripture.
Then I move my body.
I journal.
I take a few moments to think about what matters most before the day begins to pull me in a dozen different directions.
And the reason I do that is simple.
If I do not intentionally decide what will feed my spirit, something else will decide for me.
The world is constantly competing for our attention. There is always another headline to read, another notification to check, another opinion to consider, and another demand on our time and energy. If we’re not careful, we can spend an entire day consuming things that leave us feeling anxious, overwhelmed, frustrated, or discouraged.
Instead of nourishing our spirits, we allow ourselves to be depleted by things that were never meant to sustain us.
I think many of us know what it feels like to reach the end of the day completely exhausted and wonder why. Sometimes it isn’t because we’ve done too much.
Sometimes it’s because we’ve been carrying too much.
We’ve been giving our attention to things we cannot control.
We’ve been responding to every noise.
We’ve been absorbing every worry.
We’ve been allowing outside influences to shape our inner world.
And after a while, that takes a toll on the spirit.
That is why I believe it is so important to pay attention to what is feeding our spirits.
Pay attention to what leaves you feeling depleted.
Pay attention to what leaves you feeling encouraged.
Pay attention to the conversations that leave you feeling heavy long after they are over.
Pay attention to the people who inspire you to become a better version of yourself.
Pay attention to the habits that leave you feeling disconnected from yourself.
Pay attention to the habits that bring you peace.
Because these things matter. They shape how we move through our days. They shape what grows within us. And over time, they shape the condition of our spirit.
That is why I believe one of the most important questions we ask ourselves is not:
What is demanding my attention?
The better question is:
What is worthy of my attention?
Because not everything that demands your attention deserves your energy.
Some things deserve your energy because they help you grow. Some things deserve your energy because they strengthen your faith. Some things deserve your energy because they bring peace, wisdom, joy, healing, and life.
But other things simply create noise.
And not every noise deserves a response.
I think sometimes we assume that feeding our spirit means adding something new. A new habit. A new routine. A new practice.
And sometimes it does.
But I think there are seasons when feeding our spirit is less about adding and more about releasing.
Releasing unnecessary worry.
Releasing constant comparison.
Releasing the pressure to fix everything.
Releasing expectations that were never ours to carry.
Releasing the belief that we have to respond to every request, every opinion, every criticism, or every demand that comes our way.
Because every time we release something that is draining us, we create space for something that can nourish us.
More peace.
More joy.
More gratitude.
More rest.
More presence.
More room for God to do what only God can do.
I think that is one of the reasons so many of us feel exhausted. Not because we lack strength, but because we have filled our lives with so much noise that we can no longer hear what our spirits need.
And sometimes the most healing thing we can do is step back and ask ourselves:
What can I release?
What no longer serves me?
What is taking more from me than it is giving?
Because every yes we give to something is also a no to something else. And maybe part of feeding your spirit is learning to say yes to what brings life and no to what continually drains it.
As I thought about this message, I realized that feeding our spirit does not have to be complicated. Sometimes it is found in the simplest things.
A few quiet moments with God before the day begins.
A walk outside.
A conversation with someone who genuinely encourages us.
A good book.
A moment of laughter.
A prayer whispered in the middle of a busy day.
A deep breath when life feels overwhelming.
A reminder that we do not have to carry everything on our own.
These things may seem small, but they matter.
Because little by little, they strengthen us.
Little by little, they restore us.
Little by little, they remind us who we are and whose we are.
I think that is what it means to feed your spirit. Not chasing perfection. Not adding more pressure to your life. Not creating another impossible standard to live up to. But intentionally making room for the things that bring life back to your soul.
So this week, I want to leave you with a little Soul Work.
Not another task to complete.
Not another item to add to your to-do list.
Just a gentle invitation to pay attention.
Take a few quiet moments sometime this week and ask yourself:
What is feeding my spirit right now?
What is draining my spirit?
What no longer serves me?
What do I need more of?
Then pay attention to what comes to mind.
Notice what leaves you feeling drained.
Notice what leaves you feeling peaceful.
Notice what pulls you away from yourself.
Notice what brings you closer to God.
Notice the people, places, habits, and thoughts that leave you feeling encouraged, strengthened, and renewed.
And then, as best you can, make a little more room for those things this week.
Because what feeds your spirit grows.
If this message spoke to you today and someone came to mind while you were listening, consider sharing it with them. Sometimes the greatest gift we can give one another is a gentle reminder. A reminder to slow down. A reminder to protect our peace. A reminder to pay attention to what is feeding our spirit.
May this week bring you clarity about what is feeding your spirit and what is draining it. May God help you guard your heart with wisdom and protect your peace with grace. May you have the courage to release what no longer serves you and the wisdom to hold close what helps you grow.
May you make room for more of what strengthens your faith, renews your hope, and nourishes your soul. And may you be reminded that not everything that demands your attention deserves your energy. May your spirit be nourished, your heart be encouraged, and your soul be refreshed.
As you move through this week, be intentional about what you allow into your heart, your mind, and your spirit.
Choose what brings peace.
Choose what strengthens your faith.
Choose what nourishes your soul.
Remember, what you give your attention to grows.
So choose with care.
Make room for what encourages you.
Make room for what restores you.
Make room for what helps your spirit flourish.
One breath, one step, one day at a time.
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