Our Love Sphere

By Janis and Carly SpindelSociety & Culture Relationships

Our Love Sphere episodes

March 07, 2023 Situationships: What they are and how to navigate them
Modern dating comes with complexities. In this episode, we will dive into the topic of "situationships," a term used to describe a type of undefined and casual relationship that falls somewhere between a traditional relationship and a one-night stand. We'll discuss what makes a situationship unique, the pros and cons of being in one, and how to navigate the confusing waters of this type of relationship. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.
Highlights:
(1:11) What is a situationship and how do you know if you're in one?
(1:58) Why would someone want to be in a situationship?
(3:48) How does someone get into a situationship?
(5:26) If you're in a situationship, should you treat it like a relationship?
(6:18) What are the challenges of being in a situationship?
(8:09) How do you move on from someone you weren't dating in the first place?
(8:38) How do you avoid being in a situationship?
Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
Connect on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok: @janisandcarlyspindel
Books
- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year
- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker
Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography
11 min
February 28, 2023 First Date Prep: How to look and feel your best
On this episode, Janis and Carly will teach you how to prep for a first date so that you look and feel your best. Learn how to stand out, get him to ask you out, the perfect outfit, makeup, location, and more. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.
Highlights:
(01:12) - How to get a man to ask you out when you've been texting for awhile.
(02:35) - The perfect first date: coffee, drinks, or dinner?
(04:30) - Who should plan the first date? A man with a plan.
(05:02) - What if he schedules the first date somewhere inconvenient?
(06:53) - Should you be available on a weekend for a first date?
(07:49) - How to put yourself in the best mindset before the first date.
(09:50) - Look your best: the perfect first date outfit for you.
(12:00) - Makeup: less is more.
Website
Connect:
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Books:
Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year
How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker
Title card photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography
14 min
February 21, 2023 The Hello Challenge: How to meet men
Men are everywhere! From the gym to coffee shops, this episode will teach you how to put yourself out there, where to meet a man, and how to approach him so he thinks he picked you up. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.

Highlights:
(00:55) - Are dating apps a good place to meet men?
(01:37) - Where to meet men in real life.
(03:58) - Take up new hobbies.
(05:07) - The hello challenge.
(07:16) - Tips for putting yourself out there.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
Connect on social media: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books
- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year
- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Title card photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography
9 min
February 14, 2023 New Year, New You! How to become your best self
As we ring in the new year, it's a great time to reflect on the past year. In this episode we will talk about how to start your new year off right and become the best version of yourself. Think of it as a fresh start. What do you want to do differently in the new year? Where do you want to be in your life? How can you make this the best year yet? Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.

Highlights:
(1:24) - Set goals: personal or professional
(1:44) - Get organized: declutter your clothing, friends, and more. Get rid of anything that adds negativity
(2:23) - Self-care and mental health: exercise, meditation, grooming
(5:03) - Sleep: make a date with yourself to be well rested
(6:35) - Dating: Want a boyfriend? Join apps and make dating your priority
(7:22) - Spice up your wardrobe: Do your clothes make you feel fabulous? If not, donate/sell them
(8:19) - Hobbies: Do more of what brings you joy. Make your life as full and rich as it can be.
(9:22) - Learn something new: podcasts, languages, cooking, cooking, books, and more!
(12:16) - Social plans: Schedule a girls night, host friends, start a book club. More fun means you’re a happier person.
(13:45) - Culture: Museums, art exhibits, concerts, plays, and more!

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on social media: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books
- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year
- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Title card photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography
15 min
February 14, 2023 The Four Bs: What men want
Men want the total package, they want someone who excites them, a woman who has it all. On this episode, Janis and Carly will discuss what men want. You will learn about the Four B's (beauty, brains, body, and balance) and how to become the best version of yourself. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.

Highlights
(00:46) - What it means to have it all.
(01:03) - Beauty: how to make yourself more beautiful on the inside and out.
(02:35) - Brains: book vs street smarts and how to make yourself even smarter.
(04:12) - Body: lead a healthy lifestyle and dressing for your body type.
(06:23) - Balance: having a full life and how to make yourself happier and more interesting.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Social Media: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books
- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year
- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Title card photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography
9 min
February 14, 2023 Meet the Matchmakers
Meet America's top Matchmakers. Learn how they got into the business, hear their craziest stories, how the pandemic changed the matchmaking industry, and why they love what they do. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.

Highlights:
(00:38) - What is a Matchmaker?
(01:03) - Roles in the mother/daughter company.
(02:19) - How they got into matchmaking.
(05:05) - How the pandemic impacted business.
(08:58) - What they love most about their job.
(10:24) - Craziest professional experience.
Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Social Media: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books
- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year
- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Title card photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography
13 min

About Our Love Sphere

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Janis and Carly Spindel are an all-star mother-daughter matchmaking team who devote their lives to bringing love to the world. This podcast will bring you inside the minds of men and teach you how to land (and keep) the relationship of your dreams.

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