Out Loud & Laughing

By Bryan Ruiz and Jon RuizSociety & Culture

Out Loud & Laughing episodes

June 24, 2025 Letters to Our 12-Year-Old Selves
In this episode, Bryan and Jon reflect on their childhood selves in 1996, a pivotal year symbolizing both simplicity and struggle. They read heartfelt letters addressed to their 12-year-old selves, offering wisdom, comfort, and hope from their future perspectives. Both letters highlight their unique journeys through LGBTQ+ identity, cultural challenges, personal growth, and the importance of love and friendship. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn as they discuss the significance of Pride Month, the importance of self-acceptance, and the ongoing struggle for equality. Join them for a touching and reflective dialogue aimed at providing solace and inspiration to anyone who has ever felt unseen or misunderstood.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction to the Episode
00:38 A Letter from John to His 12-Year-Old Self
01:48 John's Journey of Self-Discovery
03:57 Finding Love and Sobriety
08:01 Brian's Letter to His 12-Year-Old Self
14:29 Reflections and Shared Experiences
17:19 The Importance of Pride Month
20:00 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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21 min
June 19, 2025 The One Word Gay Icon Guessing Game
Wrapping up Season 1, join Bryan and Jon, two gay cousins, as they host a hilarious new game show segment called 'The One Word Gay Icon Guessing Game.' Watch as they try to identify legendary gay icons with only a single word as a clue, leading to unexpected answers and plenty of laughs. Celebrate Pride Month with big talks, bigger laughs, and a healthy dose of LGBTQ+ history and culture. Don't miss out on this fun and enlightening final episode of Season 1!
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Welcome to Out Loud and Laughing
00:49 Introducing the One Word Gay Icon Guessing Game
01:11 Meet the Contestants
01:24 Game On: First Round of Gay Icon Guesses
02:46 Hilarious Misunderstandings and Second Guesses
04:38 Rapid Fire Round and Final Scores
10:58 Honorable Mentions and Final Thoughts
12:26 Closing Remarks and Pride Month Celebration
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13 min
June 17, 2025 Celebrating Pride and Reflecting on Our Journeys
In this heartfelt and profound season one finale of 'Out Loud and Laughing,' hosts Jon and Bryan celebrate Pride Month while diving deep into their personal experiences of coming out and living as gay men. They reflect on the challenges they faced growing up during a time when being gay was not as widely accepted as it is today. From childhood feelings to high school struggles and finally finding their community in college, Jon and Bryan share their stories with honesty and humor. They emphasize the importance of Pride Month as a time to embrace their identities, support their community, and remember the hardships they have overcome. Join them as they wrap up their first season and look forward to continuing the journey in season two. Happy Pride!
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction and Pride Celebration
00:30 Kicking Off the Episode
01:06 Personal Reflections on Being Gay
02:40 Early Experiences and Realizations
04:34 Navigating School Life
06:45 Coming Out Stories
15:22 College Years and Community
16:07 The Importance of Pride
17:59 The Importance of Pride Month
18:51 Reflecting on Personal Experiences
19:39 Celebrating Community and Support
20:35 Season One Highlights and Future Plans
22:11 Concluding Thoughts and Season Two Teasers
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24 min
June 14, 2025 Hobbies We Picked Up and Immediately Quit (Yes, Knitting!)
In this episode of Out Loud and Laughing, Brian and John discuss the complexities and hilarities of dad hobbies. From one-night camping trips and bringing an entire bedroom's worth of bedding, to the childhood memories of their dads' extravagant model helicopter and puppet-making projects. They delve into their own fleeting hobbies like sugar cookie baking, knitting, running, and musical endeavors. Tune in for a mix of laughter, nostalgia, and the realization that some habits are inherited. Subscribe for more funny episodes!
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Welcome and Introductions
01:14 Camping Adventures and Parenting
03:41 Hobbies: Picking Up and Dropping Off
05:37 Childhood Memories and Hobbies
12:18 The Piano Lessons
18:06 Our Dads' Hobbies
22:15 Conclusion and Reflections
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24 min
June 10, 2025 Empowering LGBTQ+ Families: Brian Rosenberg's Journey with Gays With Kids & GWK Academy
Join Jon and Bryan in an inspiring conversation with Brian Rosenberg, founder of Gays With Kids and GWK Academy. In this episode, Brian shares his journey of becoming a parent through adoption and surrogacy, while living with HIV, and discusses the challenges and triumphs of LGBTQ+ family building. Brian sheds light on the valuable resources offered by GWK Academy, aimed at guiding and supporting LGBTQ+ individuals and couples on their path to parenthood. From navigating the complex landscape of legal barriers to addressing the high costs of surrogacy and adoption, Brian's dedication to helping others shines through. Tune in to learn about the transformative impact of GWK Academy, the ongoing fight for equal opportunities in family building, and how we can all contribute to creating a more inclusive future for LGBTQ+ families.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
01:26 Meet Brian Rosenberg
02:02 Brian's Family Journey
03:03 Challenges and Resources
04:46 Founding Gays with Kids
06:07 GWK Academy and Its Impact
13:03 Personal Reflections and Legacy
14:00 Expanding Support to the LGBTQ+ Community
14:53 Foster Care and Adoption
16:38 Navigating DEI Challenges in the Current Climate
17:24 Impact of Policy Rollbacks on LGBTQ+ Families
20:51 Legal Barriers and Discrimination in Family Building
23:26 Financial Hurdles in Surrogacy and Adoption
24:59 Support Systems and Grants for LGBTQ+ Families
28:17 Preparing for Parenthood: Resources and Guidance
30:58 Community Support and Future Plans
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35 min
June 05, 2025 Out Loud and Laughing: Gay or Straight? Cleaning Products Edition
Join Jon and Bryan, two gay cousins, in this hilarious episode of Out Loud and Laughing as they explore the sexual orientation of various household cleaning products. From Fabuloso to Lysol, and beyond, the duo dive into a flamboyant and fun analysis of cleaning aisle favorites. Don't miss their witty banter, laugh-out-loud moments, and unique gay perspectives on the hidden lives of everyday items. Tune in, laugh out loud, and discover if your favorite cleaners are gay or straight!
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Welcome to Out Loud and Laughing
01:08 Adulting Struggles
01:49 Is It Gay? Cleaning Products Edition
03:44 Mr. Clean vs. Brony Guy
06:07 Scrub Daddy and Pine-Sol
09:44 Lysol: The Party Killer
11:30 The Quirky World of Cleaning Products
11:36 Method's Grapefruit Obsession
13:25 Swiffer: The Queen of Cleaning
14:59 The Battle of Bleach and Windex
16:57 Fabric Air Effects: Gay or Straight?
19:22 Wrapping Up with Scented Candles
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22 min
June 03, 2025 Creating the Ultimate Animal Pride Parade!
In this fun and lively episode of 'Out Loud and Laughing,' join Bryan and Jon, two gay cousins, for a conversation full of big talks and even bigger laughs. The duo discusses an imaginative and inclusive animal-themed Pride Parade. Tune in to hear their hilarious ideas for parade floats, featuring bears, flamingos, lions, toucans, bison, and otters, as well as their choices for the Grand Marshals. Celebrate Pride with creativity and humor, and don't miss the witty banter that makes this episode truly special!
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Welcome to Out Loud and Laughing
00:30 Meet Brian and John
01:10 Baby Photos and Family Resemblance
01:58 Parent-Child Dance Rehearsals
03:11 Choreography Challenges
04:34 Pride Parade Ideas
05:45 Stuffed Animal Adventures
07:13 Imagining a Pride Parade for Animals
09:29 Bear Float and Flamingo Float
11:15 Flamingos and Bears: The Party Starters
11:38 Introducing the Lesbian Lionesses
14:07 Trans Toucans: Visibility and Pride
16:00 Bison and Otters: Bi and Beyond
17:04 Grand Marshals: Ursula and King Julian
20:24 The Ultimate Furry Feathery Pride Parade
21:55 Pride Planning and Farewell
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23 min
May 29, 2025 The Great Grocery Store Showdown
Welcome to another episode of Out Loud and Laughing with Brian and his cousin/best friend! In this episode, they dive into the 'Great Grocery Store Showdown,' discussing regional grocery stores, their experiences, and memories linked to different stores like Publix, Winn-Dixie, and Whole Foods. They rank these stores based on quality, price, and overall experience. Listen in for a trip down memory lane, hilarious grocery store anecdotes, some dad jokes, and a bit of controversial talk about modern grocery shopping challenges. Tune in and join the laughter!
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction and Banter
01:08 Grocery Store Adventures
02:05 Regional Grocery Store Differences
11:07 Grocery Store Rankings
15:10 Dad Jokes and Fun Memories
19:17 Conclusion and Farewell
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20 min
May 27, 2025 Cuban Cuisine & Childhood Memories
In this episode of 'Out Loud and Laughing,' Bryan and Jon bring on the laughs as they reminisce about their Cuban upbringing, sharing hilarious and touching stories from their childhood. Bryan talks about preparing for his daughter's dance recital, while John recalls family traditions and the culinary delights of their Cuban roots. From cooking mishaps to cherished family recipes, they delve into how food has shaped their memories—highlighting dishes like flan, picadillo, and dulce de leche. Join them for a hearty dose of nostalgia, laughter, and a love for all things Cuban cuisine.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Welcome to Out Loud and Laughing
01:16 Feeling 40: Midlife Musings
01:39 Dance Recital Dad Duties
03:54 Cuban Roots and Family Tree
04:35 Cuban Cuisine: A Culinary Journey
06:24 Favorite Cuban Dishes and Memories
10:10 Cuban Desserts: Sweet Treats
16:08 Final Thoughts and Farewell
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17 min
May 22, 2025 Is this Gay? Weather Edition!
Join Bryan and Jon, two hilarious gay cousins, for another episode of 'Out Loud and Laughing' where they discuss everything from John’s recent trip to Charlotte to the terrors of modern flying. In this comedic episode, they introduce a fun new segment called 'Is This Gay? – Weather Edition,' where they hilariously categorize different weather phenomena as gay or straight. Expect big laughs as they explore the quirks of fog, rain, heat waves, and even tornadoes! Tune in for a delightful mix of personal anecdotes, quick wit, and playful banter.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction and Banter
00:49 Elevator Fantasy
01:51 John's Trip to Charlotte
04:11 Flying Fears and Weather Talk
06:43 Is This Gay? Weather Edition
11:35 Thrifting and Hail: A Gay Perspective
13:38 Fog: The Theatrical Weather
16:25 Heat Waves and Sunny Days
20:40 Tornadoes: The Original Makeover
21:54 Conclusion: Embracing Weather
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23 min