Out Loud & Laughing

Out Loud & Laughing

By Bryan Ruiz and Jon RuizSociety & Culture
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Out Loud & Laughing episodes

  • Venmo & Digital Etiquette

    In this episode, Bryan & Jon discuss various aspects of digital etiquette including the use of Venmo payments, handling group dinners, the rise of voice notes and voicemails, and the impact of digital interactions on personal relationships. They delve into the nuances of digital communications, such as texting manners, GIF usage, unfriending vs. muting on social media, and the etiquette of using phones in social settings. Tune in for a lively conversation on how modern technology influences our social interactions and the unspoken rules that govern them.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction and Venmo Etiquette

    01:49 Group Dinners and Splitting the Check

    05:06 Voice Notes and Texting Etiquette

    09:36 GIFs and Digital Communication

    15:35 Unfriending, Blocking, and Digital Boundaries

    19:19 Phone Usage in Social Settings

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    21 min
  • Tooth Fairy Glow-Up!

    In this episode, we dive into the exciting milestone of Kenzie losing her first tooth. The story unfolds with a detailed recount of Kenzie's tooth-wiggling antics leading to the triumphant moment of her pulling out her own tooth. We share humorous takes on the ever-evolving concept of the Tooth Fairy, from her traditional image to a potential modern glow-up into a drag queen or a feminist icon. The conversation also spans to whimsical musings on what the Tooth Fairy does with all the teeth, her potential side gigs, and how her operation could adapt to modern trends like Venmo transactions. Finally, the script wraps up with practical advice on handling the Tooth Fairy duties and the joy of seeing Kenzie excited with her first Tooth Fairy payout.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 The First Tooth Adventure

    01:59 The Tooth Fairy Dilemma

    03:41 Tooth Fairy Economics

    06:04 Modern Tooth Fairy Musings

    07:24 Tooth Fairy Glow Up

    09:20 Tooth Fairy Dad Jokes

    09:59 Modern Family Tooth Fairy Episode

    10:47 Tooth Fairy's Social Media Presence

    11:55 Tooth Fairy's OnlyFans and Stripper Name

    12:54 Tooth Fairy's Day Job Alternatives

    13:44 Tooth Fairy's Fashion Choices

    15:33 Tooth Fairy's Secret Life

    17:50 Tooth Fairy Parenting Tips

    19:04 Tooth Fairy Excuses and Strategies

    19:54 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    21 min
  • Erasing Rainbows From The Streets

    In this episode, we discuss the recent legislation in Florida targeting rainbow crosswalks under the guise of uniform traffic control measures and alleged safety concerns. The hosts dive deep into the political and social implications, particularly focusing on how this move disproportionately impacts the LGBTQ+ community. Covering examples from Florida cities like Orlando, Key West, and Miami, the conversation highlights the erasure of symbols significant to the LGBTQ+ community and memorials such as the Pulse nightclub shooting. The episode sheds light on the frustrations and hopes for better representation and empathy from the broader community. Join us as we unravel this troubling issue and discuss actions we can take to support and protect the rights of the LGBTQ+ community.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction and Apology for Being Late

    00:16 Discussion on Florida's Anti-Skittle Campaign

    01:16 Florida's Uniform Traffic Control Law

    01:42 Rainbow Crosswalks and Safety Concerns

    02:34 Pulse Shooting Memorial and Community Response

    04:05 Broader Implications and Political Context

    16:58 Call to Action and Community Support

    20:43 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    22 min
  • Drag Queen Names Based on Trauma

    Join Bryan and Jon as they dive into a hilarious and random conversation following a long day at jury duty. They discuss the latest seasonal treats from Trader Joe's, the drudgery of courtrooms, and come up with hysterical drag queen names inspired by personal traumas. Laugh along as they brainstorm names like Trigger Mortis, Betty No Friends, and Holly Hindsight, wrapping up with a humorous list that includes the outrageous Crystal Methy and Roe Funeral.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction and Technical Difficulties

    00:28 Trader Joe's Adventures

    01:09 Jury Duty Tales

    03:10 Drag Queen Names Based on Trauma

    04:59 Hilarious Drag Queen Concepts

    19:57 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

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    21 min
  • From LA Dreams to Texas Farms with Ben from 'It's Been a Week' Podcast

    In this lively episode, we welcome Ben from the 'It's Been a Week' podcast in our first cross-over to share his adventurous journey from Hollywood to Texas. Join us as we dive into Ben's transitions from glitzy West Hollywood to the Texas countryside, his experiences dealing with COVID-19, and adapting to a life far removed from LA's fast-paced lifestyle. Ben opens up about his huge array of farm animals, his take on monogamy, and his unique approach to living a balanced life with eco-friendly decisions. The episode is packed with humorous anecdotes, cultural observations, and an inspiring discussion about striving for dreams while navigating life’s unpredictable twists. Don't miss out as Ben, Brian, and John also delve into topics like reality TV, favorite podcasts, and the changing landscape of daily routines. Stay tuned until the end to hear how you can join them on the 'It's Been a Week' Podcast! Listen @ www.itsbenaweek.com/ !

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:52 Life in Texas vs. LA

    01:46 Grocery Store Rants

    02:54 Eco-Friendly Lifestyle

    05:01 Hollywood Dreams and Reality

    05:39 COVID-19 Impact and Moving to Texas

    06:59 Farm Life and Animal Tales

    08:37 Weight Loss Journey

    09:01 Buffet Preferences and Food Hygiene

    10:53 Taco Bell and Blue Hair

    11:56 Farm Life: A Menagerie of Pets

    12:44 From LA to Texas: A Cultural Shift

    22 min
  • Midlife Crisis or Just Another Rebrand?

    In this engaging episode, Bryan and Jon delve into the concept of midlife crises and how they are dealing with their own transitions in their 40s. They discuss a range of topics from personal anecdotes about family, gardening, and birdwatching, to more profound reflections on maturing and personal growth. The conversation takes a humorous and insightful look at the stereotypical midlife crisis and reframes it as a period of self-discovery and reinvention. Tune in for a mix of laughter, wisdom, and candid moments that are sure to resonate with anyone navigating their own journey of aging and self-improvement.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Welcome and Birthday Celebrations

    01:27 Gardening and Midlife Crisis

    03:41 Reflecting on Our Fathers' Midlife Crises

    06:12 Embracing Midlife Changes

    09:55 Redefining Midlife Crisis

    17:52 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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    20 min
  • Jim Verraros: From American Idol to 'Explicit' and Beyond

    Join hosts Jon and Bryan for a powerful conversation with original American Idol heartthrob, Jim Verraros. Jim gets candid about his groundbreaking journey, from being a top finalist on the show's first season to releasing his latest six-track EP, "Explicit."

    You'll hear the real story behind his experience as an openly gay artist in the early 2000s, his successful transition into acting with the "Eating Out" film series, and his inspiring return to music after a career hiatus.

    Jim also opens up about his personal life, including what it was like growing up with deaf parents, navigating personal challenges, and finding his way back to his passion. This is an inspiring, insightful, and often hilarious chat that covers everything from Jim's hit dance songs like "Take My Bow" and "Pyramid" to his reflections on his multifaceted career.

    Official Website: https://www.jimverrarosmusic.com

    Listen to “Take My Bow” on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/4QW5w0gdSeN2OUH5ugAYXm?go=1&sp_cid=ff8f560ea0aa3337cfb9ed59de66ce6d&utm_source=embed_player_p&utm_medium=desktop&nd=1&dlsi=9eb5647c66564713

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction and Excitement for the Day

    00:15 Welcoming Jim Ferraros

    00:54 Jim's Musical Journey and Influences

    02:29 American Idol Experience

    06:42 Coming Out and Public Life

    08:21 Reflection and Personal Growth

    10:08 Breaking into the Bridal Industry

    11:03 Navigating Divorce and New Beginnings

    11:32 Finding Love Again

    11:57 Rekindling a Passion for Music

    13:43 Growing Up with Deaf Parents

    16:53 Returning to the Music Scene

    18:34 Reflecting on Queer Cinema

    19:54 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

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    21 min
  • Living as a Gay Man in 2025

    In this episode, Bryan and Jon dive into various aspects of their lives in 2025, starting with updates on personal matters like Jon’s thriving garden and Bryan’s French Bulldog Piper's hopeful medical prognosis. They then explore the broader topic of what it's like to be gay in 2025, discussing societal progress and setbacks, personal fears, and the unique experiences they face. The conversation also touches on topics like stigmas, acceptance, and the challenges posed by extreme political views. Despite the negativity, they find joy in their close-knit community, fun times during Pride Month, and advances in healthcare such as the availability of PrEP. Join them for an enlightening and heartfelt conversation.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

    01:02 Piper's Health Update

    03:18 Being Gay in 2025: Personal Reflections

    04:39 Fears and Challenges in 2025

    07:36 Conversations with Extremists

    09:52 Positive Aspects of Being Gay in 2025

    30:26 Reflecting on Pride Month and Safe Spaces

    31:03 College Memories and Early Exploration

    32:20 Creating and Wearing Custom Shirts

    33:24 Chosen Family and Community Support

    34:19 Inclusive Communities and Parenting

    35:47 Challenges and Misconceptions in 2025

    39:11 HIV and Sexual Health Advances

    04:36 Personal Fears and Societal Issues

    09:52 Concluding Thoughts and Future Hopes

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    21 min
  • Understanding Gay Math

    In this lively and humorous discussion, Jon and Bryan dive into the concept of 'gay math,' exploring how it affects various aspects of their lives. From getting ready and arriving fashionably late to brunch, to the unique ways they measure time and social interactions, the hosts share personal anecdotes and funny insights. They also touch on weight perceptions, gym routines, and the often complicated task of splitting bills. This episode is a fun and relatable look at the cultural quirks within the gay community.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:38 Coke Zero and Flavors

    01:20 Exploring Gay Math

    02:05 Gay Math in Social Scenarios

    04:43 Gay Math in Daily Life

    08:19 Gay Math and Weight

    12:38 Gay Math and Social Events

    16:05 Gay Math and Health

    19:04 Concluding Thoughts on Gay Math

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    21 min
  • A Gay Dad's Journey with David, CEO of Gaddies (HeyGaddies.com)

    Join hosts Jon and Bryan as they welcome their close friend David to discuss their shared history, from meeting in a gay softball league to navigating life as gay dads. David shares insights into his life in Portland, Oregon with his husband Rafael and their 4-year-old son Simon. The conversation highlights the unique experiences of gay parenthood, including the unexpected challenges and joys. David also introduces his new venture, Gaddies (HeyGaddies.com), aimed at creating visibility and community for gay dads. From humorous personal anecdotes to discussions about representation and starting a business, this episode is a heartfelt and enlightening exploration of modern fatherhood in the gay community.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction and Welcoming David

    00:18 Reminiscing About New York and Gay Softball

    02:33 Fatherhood and Family Life

    06:00 Challenges and Surprises of Parenting

    08:16 Balancing Gay Identity and Parenthood

    11:17 Launching Hey Gadi: Inspiration and Journey

    13:41 Community and Representation

    19:10 Fun and Spicy Moments

    23:50 Conclusion and Farewell

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    25 min

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