Out With the Old, In With the YOU!

Out With the Old, In With the YOU!

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Out With the Old, In With the YOU! episodes

  • “Why Should We Keep Playing?” #83 - a playful conversation with my 11-year-old

    Today my youngest daughter joins me to talk about how she uses her imagination in her daily life to help bring fun to boring or challenging tasks. 

    We also discuss the recent “Revel”ution Campfire” event that we hosted and how I am starting a new movement that refuses to live stressed and unhappy by choosing playfulness over productivity. :)

    We wrap this episode up with an impromptu game to tell each other an audiobook. We take turns and make up the story as we go and it involves lots of silliness and laughter - two of the things that we ALL could use a whole lot more of. ;)

    Check out the book that I mention called “Play” by Dr. Stuart Brown!

    48 min
  • “Just Do It” - an Interview with Eden Holt-Ball #82

    Oh my goodness. Today I was honored to have a very meaningful conversation with my dear friend, Eden Holt. She joined me in my corral to share her life story and how her experiences have shaped where she is today. 

    Eden doesn’t have an easy story. She shares with us how she grew up in the foster care system and the difficult challenges it created for her as an adult. Her healing journey is not complete, (none of us will be until we die), but it’s evident that Eden has done the work and she continues to do the work to keep walking towards deeper healing. 

    Eden has learned to embrace herself, rewrite her story, and build a life where she feels fulfilled. As a life coach with her own business now, she helps others achieve their goals by first digging in deep to help them work their way to healing, then they can begin to set goals and achieve their dreams.

    The honesty and vulnerability that Eden so graciously embodies immediately gives space for listeners to “just be human”. This conversation even helped me rewire areas I felt stuck in my brain which allowed me to see things in a new light. It was incredibly refreshing and enlightening! 

    This woman is amazing, full of life and light, and she has beautiful, compassionate, wisdom that each of us can benefit from. 

    Go learn more about her and follow her at:

    Website:

    www.connectioneffect.com (this website is currently under construction for an update)

    FaceBook: 

    @theconnectioneffect

    Instagram:

    @connection_effect

    Contact Eden Holt-Ball:

    417-597-3581

    1 hr 16 min
  • -The 5 Magic Questions- #81


    Today is a FFT - “fucking first time” to do a podcast episode while it’s snowing. ❄️ 😊

    Amidst a heavy snowfall and in between Zelle’s frequent interruptions, I share my blog entry from this week. I have recently been listening to Martha Beck and it is challenging me to look at how I go through my life. This blog talks about my thoughts and ponderings about humans and happiness and how I can not be so stressed out. 🤪

    You can visit biketotype.com to read it for yourself if you would like!

    I have been trying to learn how to live “IN” my life instead of “through” my life. 

    There are 5 questions you can ask yourself at any moment that help ground you and also remind you that feeling good doesn’t have to cost us a lot of money. Listen and participate in the 5 questions I ask today!

    Gifting ourselves with things that make us happy doesn’t have to be complicated. Stay to the end of the episode to hear my campfire story!

    Favorite podcast links that I am listening to right now:

    Good Life Project - with Jonathan Fields and Leo Babautahttps://open.spotify.com/episode/0SalM45FtOQbnp1eHqYLcO?si=DM6OvCbZR4aTTlZvwnDrLA

    BEWILDERED - With Martha Beck and Rowan Mangan

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/0NYWmSA2Zdl7urbcD3Mlr2?si=MGh5ur50Qx6dXG04GGw30g

    34 min
  • “Healing is Complicated”... and why it feels frustrating. #80


    Today I share my recent experience of how being interviewed on TV helped me see some progress in my healing journey.

    Then I read an article on how our physical bodies heal. 

    https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/treatment-tests-and-therapies/how-wounds-heal

    I share how learning these facts enlightened me to have compassion for my own healing journey. 

    These are my takeaways:

    • You must have all the right components to start the process (enough blood)

    • It takes a very specific balance of all the different factors for us to heal correctly (not too much or too little oxygen)

    • It doesn’t look pretty (scabby, oozing fluids, inflammation, etc.)

    • Trauma doesn’t heal and disappear (scars)

    • It can be fucking uncomfortable (stretching, itching, puckering of the wound…)

    • It takes a long time (story of my hand injury -torn ligament)

    • Other life issues/experiences/things out of our control can interrupt the healing process

    • If we are in circumstances that compromise our well-being, it can feel impossible to heal because our bodies are already in survival mode (chronic wounds). 

    • It’s important to reach out when things do not seem to be getting better. Sometimes we can care for our own wounds but there are times that it’s really important to get professional help.


    • Each step, every day is a success worth celebrating. 

      Healing doesn’t feel very healing but I promise you it’s worth it. 

      55 min
    • “A Life of Adventure!” #79 -Stories from hiking extraordinaire Allison Short-

      This week I finally got to talk with my new, amazing friend, Allison Short! It was an absolute delight chatting with her and hearing about some of the things she has learned through her many adventures. Allison shares with us:

      • The details of her accomplishments in obtaining the Triple Crown of Hiking

      • Some of the important lessons hiking has taught her

      • How dangerous situations have taught her a deeper gratitude for life

      • How her creative/explorative childhood sparked a love for adventure

      • The next adventure she is planning to embark on this summer

      • How there is no “one way” to hike or how to live your life

      • Her advice to “Not let time slip by”

      • You will love this episode. I promise. This woman is creative, positive, fun-loving, and full of adventurous spirit!! 

        Want to see what next adventure Allison is up to?

        Follow Allison on Instagram @ayfosho

        1 hr 28 min
      • “You Can’t Escape The Zoo Overnight” - Podcast #78


        Today was my record for the coldest podcast yet! 

        It was 2 degrees outside with a wind chill of -10. 😱

        Good thing I love extreme challenges!

        Join me in my barn, in front of my little propane heater while I discuss some of the recent struggles that I am working on. 

        • Why is it so HARD for me to tell people to call me my name?

          • One of my biggest annoyances is not understanding my feelings

            • One of the regular practices of the cult to help people “work things out” which traumatized me

              • Struggling to be my own person and not feel guilty for having different needs than my partners

                • Why and what I will be “escaping” the rest of my life

                  • My heroes on nature documentaries and how they inspire me

                    • Why freedom is worth pursuing

                    • 43 min
                    • The letter Elizabeth Gilbert inspired me to write - #77
                      *Vulnerable Episode*
                      Today I read a letter that I wrote to myself. I was inspired by Glennon Doyle’s “We Can Do Hard Things” recent interview with Elizabeth Gilbert. I highly recommend listening to that interview before listening to my podcast today. It will help it all make more sense, plus, I’m hoping you feel empowered to try it yourself!
                      Click on the links below to listen!
                      Here is the first part of the interview:
                      https://open.spotify.com/episode/47ZDTvAG9dGK1CMmL5Nekc?si=Q3l2kkLGQ4qvFSK5XWmRpw
                      Here is the second part of the interview:
                      https://open.spotify.com/episode/3bVpFZ7i76evvh13CsUuQj?si=3KGUovsRRDOgfC-jbupAVQ
                      After I read the letter, I discussed some of my struggles with guilt. It’s fucking hard to watch your kids grow up and struggle. It’s hard to forgive ourselves. It’s just all hard sometimes with no easy answers and no quick way to ease the pain.
                      Today was emotional for me, but I am committed to my healing - and I am committed to sharing my journey with all of you.
                      I hope you feel seen, empowered, and loved.
                      Here is the song that has been running through my mind these past couple of weeks.
                      https://open.spotify.com/track/2J0TPWSux57fI7SnmroGxT?si=922bb893b2f74ee8
                      43 min
                    • “What Is The Meaning of Life?” - a recap and a deep dive :) #76


                      Happy New Year! Today I summarize my 2023 and share how I am reframing my perspective. It’s easy to see how many goals I didn’t reach and forget to acknowledge all the other things that I did accomplish. 

                      We can plan for our year but we can never plan for all the shit that we don’t know is coming. It’s important that we recognize all the challenges we faced last year and the obstacles we overcame so we can celebrate our successes instead of just seeing what we failed to do.

                      • “What is the meaning of life?” is the question my son wrote on my whiteboard over Christmas break.

                        • What is the meaning of change?

                          • Is the pursuit of happiness too much pressure?

                            • How can we enjoy the moments of beauty between the struggles?

                            • Listen to this episode to hear my thoughts on these questions!!

                              42 min
                            • “You Might Be Forgetting to Write the Most Important List” #75


                              Today I discuss my recent epiphany about a new kind of list that I am implementing into my life. We are usually pretty good at writing “To Do” lists but are we forgetting to write our “To Grow” lists?

                              • Join me as I share the things on my “To Grow” list and why I believe it’s so important that we are intentionally seeking growth.

                              •  “If we don’t grow, we get left behind.”

                              • For the second half of this episode, I pose the question, “How many summers do you have left?” and then we dive into the vital topic of not wasting our lives pleasing others. 

                                • Dare to rewrite your holiday story

                                • Choose to say no to something this season that doesn’t feel good to you

                                • Create an “Honor Plan” and have it in place for those family get-togethers

                                • I hope you all find moments of peace in the middle of this often chaotic, sometimes painful season. I love ya. I got ya.

                                  49 min
                                • part two "Nothing Is Wrong With You" a conversation with Michelle Steverson (Part 2 of 2) #74


                                  This episode is Part 2 of my conversation with Michelle Steverson. She shares the second half of her life story when she struggled for many years in search of connection.

                                  Life is messy but Michelle's candor and openness bring a lighter note to what sometimes feels unbearable. Her shit honesty is refreshing and often comical. ;)

                                  Michelle leaves us with the important reminder that "Nothing is wrong with us." Her tenacity to heal and continue sharing her story so that she can empower others is truly stunning. 

                                  1 hr 5 min

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