Do you ever expect great and romantic things to happen on Valentine's Day and wind up feeling disappointed?

Danielle Bean and Lisa Hendey talk abut special days, like Valentine's Day , birthdays, and anniversaries, and the sometimes complicated relationship we women have with them. They discuss a realistic approach to these kinds of holidays, including open communication with your husband, understanding your temperament and personality, and knowing that it is perfectly OK to ask for what you want.

How about you? Do you ever struggle in this way? What helps you enjoy these special days and make sure a celebration of love doesn't turn bitter?