Overthinking with the Overbys

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This week we get into part two of our division of labor discussion, where we break down how things work in our house and answer a ton of Instagram questions and comments from listeners!

(0:00) - The "Superman" story
(5:16) - Division of labor discussion / Q&A
- Feeling like everyone does everything
- Making the mental load equitable
- Division of labor with ADHD
- How to see what you aren’t doing
- What if your partner isn't home?
- Weaponized incompetence + second shift
- Kid’s involvement in division of labor
- And more!
(58:35) - Matt’s patent pending foolproof laundry routine
(1:01:00) - Greg’s Reads of the Week!
- Opinion: 'Don’t just sit there, do something.' The stock market is telling you to make some hard decisions with your money now. - MarketWatch
- A Millennial Who Just Bought a Home Regrets It. Did You? Tell Us. (businessinsider.com)
(1:04:00) - Voicemails: our unqualified financial advice and our work history

Links:
- Behavioral Scientist article referenced: Gendered Division of Labor Served a Purpose. To Make Progress, Don’t Erase It. Replace It. - Behavioral Scientist

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If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

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This week we start a deep dive into division of labor! We flip things around this week to give ourselves some runway to really get into the topic, but don't worry - we still manage to squeeze in a voicemail!

(0:00) - ADHD 

(3:00) - Episode breakdown 

(6:36) - Bubble bath side bar 

(9:10) - Greg’s Reads of the Week
- Watch this battery-powered Audi SUV concept turn into a pickup | CNN Business
- Warren Buffett Says the Ultimate Test of a Life Well-Lived Boils Down to 1 Simple Principle | Inc.com
- A Psychologist Teaches Us How To Fearlessly Step Outside Of Our Comfort Zone (forbes.com)
- How much money to save monthly to retire with $2 million (cnbc.com)

(18:36) - Word of the Week 

(23:10) - History of division of labor 

(30:00) - Working from home and early relationship division of labor 

(35:45) - Fair Play and how we structure division of labor  

(1:03:00) - Voicemail – going through a friendship breakup?

LINKS:
- The Yangs video referenced in the pod
- Behavioral Scientist article Matt references in the podcast: Gendered Division of Labor Served a Purpose. To Make Progress, Don’t Erase It. Replace It. - Behavioral Scientist

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

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We lighten things up this week when our main topic is our completely non-expert interior design thoughts. We kick things off like we usually do with a weekly recap, we update you on the status of our sick dog, and we wrap up the podcast with more great voicemails!

(0:00) - Cell phones, minutes, and high dollar texting
(3:26) - Life Updates and thought potpourri
(17:09) - Interior Design – This or That?  
(32:00) - Greg’s Reads of the Week!  
(40:26) - Word of the Week 
(42:15) - Voicemails: Where would we live, what is next, and thoughts on living and eating alone!

To submit your own Reads of the Week or just feel like emailing the podcast, email us at [email protected]!

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
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Changing things up a bit this week, so we're gonna drop some time stamps below this week.  We talk about what's been new the last week, dive deep into parenting and our disagreements in parenting, and get to answer a really thoughtful question from one of our listeners!

(10:22) Podcast business / discussion  

(11:36) Why did we decide to have a kid?  

(27:12) Disagreements about parenting and how we've handled them 

(39:35) Greg’s Reads of the Week 

(46:25) Word of the Week  

(48:09) Voicemails – Five questions to answer before you get married 

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
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This week we start with why we no longer need pants to record the podcast and how the New Year's date initiative has been going. Our big topic for the week is our journey into decluttering and how we are going all in on getting rid of our stuff in 2023! We get into Greg's reads of the week and answer a few voicemails from listeners like you! 

Episode Video - https://youtu.be/YyjUgwrm188

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
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The podcast returns with a facelift! This week we get into the disasters and successes of hosting both Thanksgiving and Christmas, what we're (hopefully) doing better in 2023, and how to coexist with two different mindsets on planning and resolutions.  We cover Greg's reads of the week (month?) and even get to a couple voicemails! 

We're still getting into the swing of things over here but we're excited to be back after taking December to regroup and spend with family!

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
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Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
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We discuss the impending holiday and how the hosting preparation is going.  Does keeping your house a perfect temperature keep you healthy? How do you keep your job and your identity separate? And Jo cries during this week's voicemails. 

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq

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The podcast is making some major changes!  We get into our vision for the future of the podcast and what we've been up to lately. And we answer another round of great voicemails where we discuss how to make an impossible decision and how to not repeat the past!  

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq

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We get into some expert fantasy football advice and how to survive a DIY project with your marriage intact. And how exactly do you budget for when you're self employed? 

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq

Send a message to the pod!

This week brings the return of a beloved segment, we learn a little about heating and cooling systems, and give a peek behind the curtain on some recent personal events. You all keep bringing it with the voicemails so we get to a handful of those too!

Support the show

If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below!

http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys

If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at [email protected]!

And if you want to support the podcast and gain access to all episodes, check out https://www.patreon.com/oversharing!

CONNECT:
TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby
Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/
Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq