Own Your Era

Hey, Bestie! This is a special episode on a topic about something that I have been so passionate about, being a childfree woman.

In this episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Vasvi Kumar, Mindset Coach, Licensed Therapist, Podcaster, and Author of SAY IT OUT LOUD.

Vasavi's book is the book of the month that we'll be reading together inside of Date Better Book Club.

Grab your AirPods as Vasavi openly shares her decision to be childfree, overcoming addiction, and the struggles of being an Indian woman choosing a different path.

Vasvai also shares being divorced and single as a woman in her 40's.

More from Vasavi:

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Download Vasavi's FREE Confidence Building Guide

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New for 2024: The Date Better Book Club. This is a 3-month book club to help you tap into your feminine energy and help you manifest the love and life you crave.

This isn't your Mom's book club - we will be building a community, sharing experiences, and growing together. LEARN MORE & JOIN HERE

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Hey, bestie! I recently shared some of the best dating advice I got after my long-term relationship ended. There were questions on Facebook, so I've got answers.

Join me in this live recording as I answer these two questions:

Question 1: How do I date after divorce in my 40's after a 21 year marriage?

Question 2: How do I keep my heart open after being cheated on in my situationship? You know I have A LOT to say about this one. HAHA. Anyway, go put your AiPords

Don't forget, Date Better Book Club starts Feb. 14th, I'd love to have you!

This is a 3-month book club to help you tap into your feminine energy and help you manifest the love and life you crave.

This isn't your Mom's book club - we will be building a community, sharing experiences, and growing together. LEARN MORE & JOIN HERE

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Get 100+ of my best dating tips, advice, and a little tough love, Download The Dating Playbook now!

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Hey, bestie! Today's episode is for the successful, single, and lonely AF women that have achieved great success in their careers and/or businesses but have love lives that are dumpster fires.

In this episode, I'll look at the 'work' that this woman may be missing in her life as she is chasing success and climbing ladders.

This episode may be a bit triggering and if it is, I suggest you ask yourself the question - why? What nerve may I be striking as you listen to this episode today?

This is all out of love - because you don't fix the inside by adjusting the outside.

ILYSM.

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New for 2024: The Date Better Book Club. This is a 3-month book club to help you tap into your feminine energy and help you manifest the love and life you crave.

This isn't your Mom's book club - we will be building a community, sharing experiences, and growing together. LEARN MORE & JOIN HERE

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Get 100+ of my best dating tips, advice, and a little tough love, Download The Dating Playbook now!

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Hang with me on Instagram!

https://www.theyolandarussell.com

Bestie, I'm calling you OUT and UP in this episode. Let's get yourself together and dive into why you're available for Mr. WYD and not Mr. Pick You Up at 8.

Today, we'll break d own WHY you keep responding to WYD...bestie, some of it is science.

This episode is all out of love and stupid stuff I used to do in my single girl era, so no judgment just here to help you date better.

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Mark your calendar: The Date Better Book Club kicks off this Valentine's Day! This is a 3-month book club to help you tap into your feminine energy and help you manifest the love and life you crave.

This isn't your Mom's book club - we will be building a community, sharing experiences, and growing together. LEARN MORE & JOIN HERE

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Get 100+ of my best dating tips, advice, and a little tough love, Download The Dating Playbook now!

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Hey, Bestie! We're going viral on IG again, plus I'm vibing off of a girl's night sleepover with 6 of my local besties!

A lot of the world still believes that after 35 you're an old hag and you can't get a man.

I call BS - which has inspired today's episode - lessons I'd give to my 20-something self. Warning - I cry a little bit on this one.

(1:11): Leave a review

(1:55): Join DDBC --> LINK

(2:55): Going viral and men being so triggered by women over 35

(4:46): Crossing paths with your person

My top 10 lessons:

1. Therpay is your bestie (5:28)
2. Your timeline, your rules (8:05)
3. Say 'bye, Felicia' to sh-tty men (I'll share a story about this time a man cheated on me when we were long distance and I found out when I was visiting him...and I didn't go home, phew, bestie, ughhhh (8:36)
4. Don't want kids? Freeze your eggs anyway (13:02)...this is where I cry, bestie
5. Change your mind whenever you want (13:45)
6. Stop people pleasing and doing things because you think it will make a man like you man. I also talk about my new gratitude journal - here's the Amazon link (I do earn commissions from this, just FYI) (18:32)
7. Red flags are for sports, and sports only (22:22)
8. Learn the truth behind manifestation and how to manage your energy (27:04)
9. Believe it to see it (31:04)
10. Keep your heart open (35:40)

I hope you enjoy this one, ILYSM.

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New for 2024: The Date Better Book Club. This is a 3-month book club to help you tap into your feminine energy and help you manifest the love and life you crave.

This isn't your Mom's book club - we will be building a community, sharing experiences, and growing together.

LEARN MORE & JOIN HERE

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Get 100+ of my best dating tips, advice, and a little tough love, Download The Dating Playbook now!

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Hang with me on Instagram!

https://www.theyolandarussell.com

Hey, Bestie! Allie Hall (@_thedebtfreenurse) is back! She was a guest on the show when it was The Unfiltered Nurse, back in 2020.

A lot has changed in Allie's life over the last three years - including getting divorced from her partner of 6 years.

In this episode, we chat about people pleasing in relationships, love bombing, healing post breakup, finding an aligned partner, and the importance never settling in creating the life that you desire. Allie is 35 years old from California and living in NC. She currently work as a pediatric nurse, and specializes in guilt free money management, teaching women their core values and how to change their mindset and relationship around money.

Allie's mission is to help women own the hell out of their finances so they can say YES to things they love and no to the things they don't. Allie and her Mom who is also a nurse are launching the Nice Girls Wear Scrubs Podcast soon - if you are a nurse, you'll definitely want to add it to your list of binge worthy podcasts.

More from Allie:

Allie's IG

Allie's TT

http://www.savingwithoutsacrifice.com/

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New for 2024: The Date Better Book Club. This is a 3-month book club to help you tap into your feminine energy and help you manifest the love and life you crave.

This isn't your Mom's book club - we will be building a community, sharing experiences, and growing together. LEARN MORE & JOIN HERE

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Get 100+ of my best dating tips, advice, and a little tough love, Download The Dating Playbook now!

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Hang with me on Instagram!

https://www.theyolandarussell.com

Hey, Bestie! Happy New Year! Today we are hopping on the 'in and out' trend of 2024. Let's dive into this episode (originally recorded live on IG) and get your life together this year.

I'm also super excited to share The Date Better Book Club. This is a 3-month book club to help you tap into your feminine energy and help you manifest the love and life you crave.

This isn't your Mom's book club - we will be building a community, sharing experiences, and growing together. LEARN MORE & JOIN HERE

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Get 100+ of my best dating tips, advice, and a little tough love, Download The Dating Playbook now!

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Hang with me on Instagram!

https://www.theyolandarussell.com

Bestie, it's the last episode of 2023. Today, let's chat about setting your dating goals in the new year using SMART goals. I'll see you in 2024, it's your year to date better and find your man!

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Bestie, short, sweet (like me), but this may be the very episode that helps you get the man you want.

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---- Are you ready to become empowered AF and create the life and relationships you want in your life? BOOK HERE

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Bestie! We are a few days late-- but, we are here! This may be my most vulnerable episode to date...I may be a little wine drunk, but I've got a huge life update that I never saw coming...and maybe you didn't either.

HOWEVER...my freaking WITCH, knew within a MONTH of my boyfriend and I dating. WILD - this is a true bestie chat - I hope you find inspiration in this and understand when you detach and trust, The Universe will move mountains for you! ILYSM!

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Get 100+ of my best dating tips, advice, and a little tough love delivered to you for free! Download The Dating Playbook now!

---- Are you ready to become empowered AF and create the life and relationships you want in your life? BOOK HERE

Hang with me on Instagram!

https://www.theyolandarussell.com