Episode Summary

Grief and pleasure often seem like opposites, but in this powerful episode, Natasha Riley and special guest Robin Denise explore how the two can coexist. 

Together, they discuss how embracing moments of joy and pleasure during grief is not only possible but necessary for healing. 

Robin shares her personal experiences with grief, practical tips for finding joy amidst sorrow, and actionable advice for prioritizing self-care even during life’s hardest moments.

Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation that will leave you feeling seen, heard, and empowered to reclaim your joy in the face of loss.

• How grief and pleasure can coexist.
• Why it’s important to allow yourself to experience moments of joy during the grieving process.
• Practical ways to prioritize pleasure and self-care while mourning.
• Robin Denise’s unique approach to helping others navigate grief.

Robin Denise is a grief and pleasure coach who specializes in helping individuals navigate the complexities of grief. With her compassionate approach and wealth of experience, she empowers her clients to find light even in the darkest times.

Connect with Robin Denise

• Website: https://www.robindenise.com/
• Instagram: @robin_denise_
• Tiktok: @robin.denise 
• Youtube: @robin_denise_

Want to dive deeper into the topic? Check out the accompanying blog post for this episode: [Pleasure and Grief: Embracing Coexistence in Times of Loss]. Read it here.

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Episode Summary:

In this episode, we dive into why I choose words of the year instead of resolutions or goals and how they align with my journey toward intentional living. I share the inspiration behind my 2025 words: expand and repurpose. 

These words represent my desire to deepen relationships, simplify life, and embrace the growth I've already achieved. Tune in for actionable tips on choosing your own words of the year and expanding on the foundation you’ve already built.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The Power of Words Over Resolutions: How choosing words instead of goals has helped me avoid feelings of failure and focus on alignment and growth.
• Introducing My 2025 Words: Expand: Growing intentionally in personal life, business, and self-care without adding stress. Repurpose: Leveraging existing work and habits to create a more focused, impactful life.
• Actionable Takeaways for You: Reflect on areas in your life where you're ready to expand. Ask yourself: What does expansion feel like in this area? Choose one or two areas to focus on—don't overwhelm yourself. Remember, healing isn’t constant work; at some point, you need to live and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Resources Mentioned:

• Reflecting on 2023 and Words for 2024
• 2024 Words To Live By

Want to dive deeper into the topic? Check out the accompanying blog post for this episode: [How Choosing Words of the Year Transforms Your Life]. Read it here.

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Next Steps:

Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone ready to embrace intention in the new year! Let’s make 2025 a year of expansion and repurposing.

Welcome to the first episode of 2025! In this solo episode, I share a powerful message to set the tone for your year with ease, pleasure, and self-care. Black women are often taught to prioritize productivity over their own well-being, but this year, we're flipping the script. Let's unlearn those harmful patterns together and embrace a life filled with alignment and joy.

I’ll walk you through three actionable steps to help you reclaim your energy, prioritize yourself, and infuse your days with fun and rest. If you’ve been feeling burnt out or stuck, this episode is exactly what you need to shift into a more pleasurable, intentional year.

1. Why minding your business is the ultimate form of self-care and how to set boundaries with energy-draining people and situations.
2. The importance of scheduling time for yourself and actionable ideas to make fun and rest a priority.
3. How to reconnect with your desires and create a life that feels aligned and fulfilling.

• Mind Your Business: Protect your mental energy by limiting your involvement in gossip, drama, and other people’s problems. Set clear boundaries and turn inward to focus on your growth and healing.
• Schedule Time for Yourself: Don’t leave your downtime to chance. Block out non-negotiable rest days, spa visits, solo dates, and more on your calendar now.
• Reclaim Your Desires: Spend time exploring what brings you joy, makes you laugh, and fills your cup. This is how you thrive, not just survive.

Before you dive into your day, take 10 minutes to pull out your calendar and schedule something fun just for you. Whether it’s a spa day, a long bath, or a solo adventure, make yourself a priority.

Want to dive deeper into the topic? Check out the accompanying blog post for this episode: [Start Your New Year Prioritizing Pleasure, Self-Care, and Rest]. Read it here.

Prefer to watch instead of listen? Head over to our YouTube channel to catch the full episode: Owning Pleasure with Natasha Chentille. Watch it here.

Ready to get inspired? Hit play to discover how you can maintain your pleasure all 2025!

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We just want to wish you a Happy Holidays, from the Owning Pleasure As A Black Woman team.

Don't forget to show up for yourself as much as you show up for everyone else during this season. We will see you on the other side!

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Episode Summary: 

In this episode, we dive into the concept of "having it all" and challenge the societal expectations that often dictate what success and fulfillment should look like—especially for Black women. 

I share my journey of redefining what it means to truly "have it all," exploring how our desires, beliefs, and personal definitions shape our paths to joy and pleasure.  

Whether you're a high-achieving, Type-A perfectionist or someone just beginning to question what fulfillment means for you, this episode will help you start rethinking and reclaiming your own narrative.  

Stay tuned until the end for a special sneak peek of *Owning Pleasure as a Black Woman XXX*!  

Key Takeaways:

1. Question the “Can’t Have It All” Myth: Natasha challenges listeners to ask why they’ve accepted limits placed by others and to take back control of defining their desires.  

2. Shift the Focus to You: "Having it all" isn’t about material success for everyone. Natasha shares how her priorities shifted from external markers of success to internal peace, balance, and connection.  

3. Uncover What You Truly Want: Through practices like journaling, meditation, and dance, Natasha found clarity on her desires and shares how you can, too.  

4. It’s Okay for Desires to Evolve: Your vision of “having it all” can—and should—change as you grow. Stay curious and flexible as you uncover new aspirations.  

5. Life Isn’t Either-Or: Why settle for just one flavor of ice cream when you can try them all? Natasha encourages embracing abundance in all its forms.  

Listen Now:

Ready to redefine your version of “having it all”? Start by journaling about what makes you feel alive, peaceful, and fulfilled. Share your thoughts and takeaways with Natasha on social media or leave a review to let her know how this episode resonated with you.

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Episode Summary:  

In this episode, we delve into the powerful and often challenging process of releasing old narratives and stories that no longer serve us. 

For Black women, especially those with perfectionist tendencies, there's often a cycle of overthinking and repeating the same concerns without moving forward. 

I break down how these stagnant stories can block us from fully embracing pleasure and reclaiming our mental and emotional energy. 

Listen in as I reflect on my personal journey of letting go and offer practical advice on choosing action over repetitive thought. 

If you’ve ever felt stuck or caught in a loop, this episode will empower you to make a conscious decision, freeing up your energy for what truly matters. 

Key Takeaways:

- The Weight of Unresolved Issues: Natasha discusses how dwelling on the same issues keeps us stuck in cycles of indecision and frustration, limiting our pleasure and peace.

- Recognizing When You’re Just “Talking About It”: Learn how to identify when you’re merely venting rather than moving toward resolution, and why it’s essential to let go or take actionable steps.

- Steps to Release Mental Clutter: Discover practical steps Natasha uses to release mental “gray clouds,” allowing for a clearer, more intentional path forward.

- The Power of Making a Decision: Natasha shares the freedom that comes from deciding to act or letting go, and how this shift can help you show up more fully in all areas of life.

Listen Now:

Curious about how freeing your mind from repetitive, unresolved issues could open up new possibilities for pleasure and satisfaction in your life? Hit play to learn how a decision, big or small, can make a world of difference in releasing stagnant energy and creating space for joy.

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Episode Summary:

In today’s episode, I dive into what it means to create space in your life for new experiences, pleasure, and peace. 

Have you ever felt so overloaded with responsibilities, tasks, and lingering emotions that you can't fully receive what you want and need? 

Just like a computer that needs space to function, our minds and lives require room for us to welcome joy and ease. I share my own recent experience with a “full” computer as a metaphor for our internal and emotional lives, exploring how we can make space for what truly serves us.

Key Takeaways:

1. Understand Why You’re Full: Acknowledge the mental, emotional, and physical "files" you've accumulated and ask if they still serve you.

2. Identify Signs of Overload: Notice when you’re feeling overwhelmed or when productivity feels forced rather than fulfilling.

3. Clear Out What You Don’t Need: Whether it’s obligations, emotions, or objects, start removing what's no longer aligned with who you are.

4. Embrace New Space with Courage: Step into your next chapter with courage and trust that, despite the discomfort, you’re creating room for something better.

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Listen Now:

Notice that you’re always feeling “full” and too exhausted for the things that make you feel good inside? Hit play and get your action plan to offload all that mental clutter.

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Episode Summary:  

In this episode, we dive deep into the societal pressure of constant productivity, especially for Black women. 

We unpack how generational trauma and ancestral survival needs have led to a false narrative that our worth is tied to how much we can produce. 

Listen in as I reflect on my personal journey and offer guidance on how to embrace rest without guilt. 

Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or simply curious about shifting your mindset on productivity, this episode is for you.

Key Takeaways:

- Breaking the Cycle of Overwork: Natasha discusses how productivity has been glorified, especially for Black women, and how it is often tied to feelings of self-worth. This mindset stems from generations of survival-oriented behavior that still impacts us today.

- The Hidden Costs of Constant Productivity: Learn about the mental and physical toll overwork can take, and how burnout manifests in your life—whether it’s losing creativity, struggling to find hobbies, or feeling exhausted all the time.

- Rest as a Tool for Productivity: Discover why rest is not just a luxury but a necessity. Natasha shares how incorporating intentional rest improves creativity, well-being, and overall productivity.

- Identifying the Root of Guilt: Natasha encourages listeners to explore the origins of their guilt around rest. Who's the voice telling you that you're lazy when you rest, and how can you challenge that narrative?

Listen Now:  

Ready to get inspired?

Hit play to discover how the constant need to be productive might be holding you back, and why creating pockets of intentional rest can make all the difference in how you show up for yourself and others!

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In this episode, we explore how prioritizing pleasure and self-care can help Black women break free from survival-mode thinking rooted in generational trauma. 

Tune in to learn how self-intimacy creates healing and how choosing rest and pleasure can positively impact not only yourself but your entire community. 

If you're ready to reclaim your joy, this episode is for you!

Key Takeaways:

- The Link Between Generational Trauma and Pleasure: Natasha explains how survival mentalities still affect Black women and the role of pleasure in breaking these patterns.

- Self-Intimacy as a Tool for Healing: Learn how focusing on self-care deepens your connection with yourself.

- The Ripple Effect of Self-Care: Discover how your personal commitment to rest can influence others and spark change.

Listen Now:

Ready to break the cycle of survival and embrace a life filled with joy, pleasure, and ease? Hit play to discover how you can transform yourself—and those around you—by prioritizing self-care!

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We made it!!! Thank you so much for rocking with me through another season. Check out some of my favorite episodes from this season.

P.S.-I said 5 in the episode, but it was clearly 6 lol.

#1: Special Chats w/ Mom

#2: Dating As A Black Woman w/ Anwar

#3: Living Your Life Through Your 5 Senses

#4: Let's Head to the Closet w/ Brandi

#5: Lifestyle Changes w/ Shanique

#6: 2024 Words to Live By

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