What happens when you AND everyone around you believes you are chronically un-helpable? What does it mean to be support-able - by a coach, or by a friend? What's the difference between help that helps versus help that doesn't? What's the little, black hole-ish nucleus of our self-conversations that keep us from getting help that actually helps? Also: men and women unintentionally speaking past each other, Judgmental Whats, self-healing through our animal body, powerful "felt" sense of connection... and, of course... what does Dumbledore have to do with Laura's self-esteem and self-approval? HOW DELUMINATING!