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In this episode 17, we have invited Addys Castillo, MS, Executive Director of the Citywide Youth Coalition, Inc., who discusses this hot topic give our current political climate, Undoing Racism. Addys will explain how racism affects everyone by dehumanizing the beneficiaries of Institutional Racism and placing other races in a second or third category. However, there is light at the end of the tunnel that comes with a commitment from all of us regarding working together to end our eroded set of beliefs that only contribute to the segregation of one another.

The following points are covered in this recording:

Institutional Racism

Racism= Racial Prejudice + Social Power

Racism affects everyone including the beneficiaries of Institutional Racism.

How to undo racism

If you've been a victim of racism, felt segregated, oppressed or just have questions about it, this episode is for you. Feel free to share with friends and acquaintances and don't forget to give us your opinion which is key to the growth of this show.

Resources:

People Against Police Brutality: https://www.facebook.com/nhvcrb/

Showing Up for Social Justice: http://www.surjnewhaven.org/

Undoing Racism Bridgeport: https://www.facebook.com/urinbridgeport/

 

 

Addys Castillo, MS is a juvenile/criminal justice practitioner with over 20 years of comprehensive experience as a public administrator working for vulnerable populations. She has worked with numerous State agencies and non-profits.  Addys is most passionate about working towards creating sustainable systems that improve outcomes for children and build community trust. As the Executive Director of the Citywide Youth Coalition, Inc. in New Haven, CT, she organizes and convenes youth, community members, and youth-serving organizations towards building a youth-led grassroots activism that will result in systems reform as it impacts young people’s ability to succeed.  Addys is a trainer in training with the People’s Institute for Survival and Beyond, and is an anti-racist organizer in the city of New Haven. Addys a National Urban Fellow and holds a Bachelor’s of Arts in Sociology from Central Connecticut State University; a Masters of Science in Criminal Justice and Professional Certificate in Forensic Psychology from the University of New Haven; along with a Masters of Public Administration from the City of New York Baruch College’s School of Public Affairs.

Los Beneficios de la Terapia Emocional Enfocada para Parejas y Matrimonios.

En este episodio, le hablare de los beneficios de la Terapia Emocional Enfocada (EFT) por sus siglas en Ingles. Los estudios demuestran que las parejas que optan por esta forma de tratamiento mejoran en un 90%, 70-73% producen un cambio de un estado disfuncional a un estado funcional incluso después de haber terminado tratamiento, los resultados también indican que el 60% de parejas mantienen lo que han ganado u obtenido en terapia o simplemente siguen en sus relaciones hacia delante.

Entre los puntos más importantes son los siguientes:

Accesibilidad y sensibilidad son los cimientos de un lazo seguro emocional.

Al tratar de conectarse el uno con el otro, las parejas caen en ciclos negativos de interacciones donde las emociones secundarias salen a florecer en vez de las primarias.

Parejas se mantienen estancadas en necesidades y deseos insatisfechos.

Si quieres aprender más, escucha este episodio, danos tu opinión y compártela. Esperamos que esta información sea beneficiosa para ti, y si tu estas teniendo dificultades con tu pareja, no dudes en buscar ayuda. Estaremos publicando más episodios en cuanto a este tema y los desafíos que parejas enfrentan hoy en día. No te olvides de darnos tu opinión y sugerencias ya que son cruciales para el crecimiento de este show.

 

In this episode, we invited Aviva Rizel, LMFT who speaks to us about the benefits of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in treating and helping couples. EFT was developed primarily by Dr. Susan Johnson back in the 80s. Its primary roots come from experiential, person-centered, systemic and attachment theory.

Research outcomes demonstrate that couples that undergo this form of treatment have 90% of significant improvement, 70-73% rate of shifting from distress to recovery, even after treatment has concluded, results show that 60% maintain gains or simply continue to move.

Here are some EFT main points:

Accessibility and Responsiveness are the building blocks of a secure attachment bond.

In trying to connect, distressed couples get caught in negative repetitive sequences of interaction expressing secondary emotions rather than primary emotions.

Partners are not sick, they’re stuck in having unmet needs and desires.

You want to learn more, listen to this podcast episode, give us your opinion, and shared it. We hope that the information you find here is beneficial to you, and if you’re struggling with your relationship, don’t hesitate to seek help. We’ll be publishing more episodes on couples and the challenges they face nowadays.  Our gratitude to Aviva Rizel, LMFT for taking the time to educating us on this sensitive topic.

 

 

Aviva Rizel, MA, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice in Cedarhurst, NY where she specializes in couples work. She is certified as an Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy Supervisor and has taught EFT in multiple states in America as well as internationally.

Feel free to reach Aviva at (347) 292 8482, Facebook by clicking here and her Youtube channel by following this link: https://goo.gl/w6rdvr

In this episode we bring you the 6 Benefits of Psychotherapy: indeed, the benefits could be multiple, but we’ll number the most important:

The therapeutic alliance between the therapist and the client which enables a safe and nurturing environment free from judgments.

Setting goals and objectives based on clients’ needs which provide a clear map to follow.

The importance of taking responsibility even from the professional when something goes undesired.

The continued use of therapeutic evidenced approaches designed to treat conditions or problems giving a broader range of success.

Unconditional acceptance which promotes more chances for success.

The utilization of empathy by the psychotherapist which promotes vulnerability on the client’s side leading to a deeper analysis of the emotions in conflict.

Thanks for tuning in and if you'd like to learn more about this topic, visit our blog here. Also feel free to leave us your comments which are crucial for the growth of this show.

Los 6 Beneficios de la Psicoterapia: los beneficios en realidad son muchos, sin embargo, aquí enumeramos los más importantes.

La alianza terapéutica entre el terapista y el individuo la cual permite un ambiente seguro y libre de juicio.

El trazo de metas y objetivos que permiten tener un mapa claro del camino a seguir.

La importancia de tomar responsabilidad incluso por parte del profesional cuando las metas deseadas no se ven realizadas.

El continuo uso de métodos empíricos diseñados para tratar condiciones o problemas que provean un mayor rango de éxito.

La capacidad de proveer aceptación incondicionalmente provee mayores chances de éxito.

El uso de empatía por parte del psicoterapeuta la cual invita a la apertura de la vulnerabilidad por parte del cliente permitiendo así un análisis mas profundo de las emociones en conflicto.

Esperamos que este episodio les haya ayudado a entender los beneficios de la psicoterapia, si gustan saber más acerca de este tema, visita nuestro blog siguiendo este enlace aqui. No se olviden de suscribirse y dar su opinión acerca de los temas publicados o acerca de temas que les gustaría que grabemos. Saludos…

 

Queremos disculparnos con nuestra audiencia por la calidad de sonido de este episodio. Sin embargo, el contenido de esta entrevista es tan invaluable ya que invitamos a la abogada en inmigración, Tess Reagan, del Centro Esperanza de leyes y abogacía. Ella nos habla de este tema tan controversial dado el clima político en este país y su impacto en nuestras comunidades. Los puntos cubiertos fueron los siguientes:

Definición de Estato legal

DACA

Expectativas para personas recipientes de DACA y la simpatía para con el público.

Ejercitando los derechos constitucionales y el modo operandi de ICE

Intrusión del Gobierno en medios sociales

Esperamos que este episodio responda a sus inquietudes. Queremos agradecer a la abogada, Reagan por dedicarnos su tiempo y compartir su conocimiento y experiencia en el tema de inmigración.  También queremos enfatizar en cuanto a las recomendaciones entregadas en este episodio: 1) infórmate de tus derechos, 2) busca ayuda legal, y ejercita tus derechos constitucionales.

 

 

Tess Reagan, Esq. es un abogada con licencia para ejercer en Massachusetts, tiene una práctica limitada exclusivamente a la ley federal de inmigración, trabaja para el Centro de Derecho y Defensa de Esperanza Law Center. Ella se graduó con un titulo en Negocios y Administración de la Universidad de Colorado en Boulder y luego estudio su doctorado en la Escuela de Leyes, New England, en Boston. Durante su vida académica, ella fue recipiente de una beca al merito y se graduó con altos honores. Su experiencia incluye la representación legal de víctimas de violencia doméstica, tráfico humano, abandono infantil, abuso y negligencia de niños, casos consulares e inmigratorios. Tess trabaja apasionadamente en la defensa de los derechos de los inmigrantes.

First of all, we'd like to apologize to our audience for the sound quality which we strive for providing the best audio experience but unfortunately, the setting where this episode was recorded was not ideal.

Nonetheless, the content of this interview is so invaluable as we invited immigration attorney, Tess Reagan, from the Esperanza Center for Law and Advocacy, who educate us about immigration law, a controversial topic, given the current political climate in the country and more importantly in our communities. The topics that were briefly covered are the following:

General definition on lawful status

Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA)

Posible expectations for DACA recipients and its sympathy among the public.

Exercising one's Constitutional Rights and ICE modus operandi

Social Media Intrusion by Government

We hope this episode answered some of your questions, we'd like thank attorney Reagan from the Esperanza Center for Law and Advocacy for taking the time to share her knowledge on immigration. We also want to emphasize on the recommendations given on this episode: 1) Get information about your rights, 2) Seek legal advice as needed, and 3) Exercise your  Constitutional Rights.

 

 

Tess Reagan, Esq. is a Staff Attorney, Licensed to Practice in Massachusetts, Practice Limited Solely to Federal Immigration Law, at Esperanza Center for Law and Advocacy. Tess received her Bachelor of Science in Business Administration from the University of Colorado in Boulder and her Juris Doctor from New England Law, Boston. While in law school, Tess was the recipient of the Sandra Day O’Connor Merit Scholarship and graduated magna cum laude.

Tess’ past practice has included work with the United Nations High Commission for Refugees, the Executive Office for Immigration Review and Catholic Charities of Boston. She has focused on the representation of victims of domestic violence, human trafficking and child abandonment, abuse, and neglect, as well as family-based adjustment of status and foreign consular processing. Tess is passionate about the protection and advancement of immigrant rights and is looking forward to serving the Connecticut immigrant community.

To find out more about Tess Reagan and the Esperanza Center for Law and Advocacy, follow this link: http://www.esperanzalaw.org/

In this episode, Mayra and I introduced you to the Ramos’ family who shared with us their story of pain due to being threatened with a deportation order involving Mr. Ramos.

Native from Ecuador, Mr. and Mrs. Ramos, parents to their children, Jason and Eric, United States Citizens, fight a battle to stay in this country where they’ve lived for over 20 years, have raised their children here, and have contributed to their community by being responsible members.

Here in this episode, we’ll give you the Ramos children's version and the impact caused by the persecution of immigration authorities towards vulnerable families such as the Ramos despite having no criminal records.  Integrated Bilingual Counseling thanks this family for sharing their story, allow themselves be vulnerable in public with the only intention to create awareness in our communities and provide support to other families that are struggling with the nightmare of deportations.

En este episodio, Mayra y yo, hemos invitado a la Familia Ramos quienes nos comparten su historia de dolor al verse amenazados con una orden de deportación dirigida al Sr. Ramos.

Oriundos de Ecuador, el Sr. y la Sra. Ramos, padres de dos hijos, Jason and Eric, ciudadanos Estado Unidenses, liberan una batalla para quedarse en este país donde han vivido por más de 20 años, han criado a sus hijos, y han contribuido y siguen contribuyendo a nuestra comunidad.

En este episodio les presentamos la versión de los padres de esta familia y el impacto emocional que ha causado la persecución por parte de las autoridades inmigratorias a pesar de que esta familia no ha causado ningún daño a sus semejantes. Consejería Bilingüe Integral agradece a esta familia por compartir su historia, permitirse ser vulnerable ante publico con la intención de crear conciencia en la comunidad y con otras familias que también están viviendo la pesadilla de la deportación.

In this episode recorded in Spanish only, Mayra and I invited Dr. Michelle Silva, Psy.D., who is the Associate Director of the Connecticut Latino Behavioral Health System and has worked extensively with the Latino population in CT. She enlightened us about the POST SOCIO-EMOTIONAL EFFECTS OF IMMIGRATION here in the USA. To name some:

Loss of natural supports: immigrants, leave behind their families in the pursuit of better days.

Loss of identity: once arrived, the cultural shock and the questioning of one’s role in the foreign country.

Loss of social status: most of the time, a modus vivendi in a country of origin, is sacrificed once arrived in the USA.

Uncertainty: starting from zero in a foreign country, and leaving everything behind, creates a lot of uncertainty and when homeostasis is not reached, conditions such as depression and anxiety are among the most common.

PTSD: for many immigrants, leaving their country of origin is the only alternative given their circumstances of violence that include gangs, organized crime, drug cartels, human trafficking, etc. For some experiencing PTSD symptoms is part of their baggage and is exacerbated during the process of immigrating to a foreign country due to the experience of walking for days or nights with limited support and risking their lives or even worse by being victims of further violence during their journey.

We hope this episode brings light to our audience and helps develop empathy towards those who have immigrated to the USA for various reasons.  Feel free to provide your opinion and subscribe for unique access to our gallery of episodes. We want to thank Dr. Silva for taking our invitation and for helping us comprehend beyond the stigma of immigration.

 

 

Michelle Sylva, Psy.D. has a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the University of Hartford, is currently the Associate Director of the Connecticut Latino Behavioral Health System and an Assistant Professor at Yale University School of Medicine, Department of Psychiatry. Dr. Silva has an extensive career with a heap of honors, recognitions, grants, national and international oral presentations, etc. It was an honor for us to have Dr. Silva as our guest, we thanked her for taking the time to share her knowledge with us and wish her the best of luck in her current and future endeavors.