Welcome to the Pulling Curls podcast! In episode 212, Hilary discusses the parenting mindset. She shares three key points: lowering your expectations, reveling in positive experiences, and keeping yourself separate from your kids. Hilary also mentions a free parenting guide available on the Pulling Curls website. Stay tuned for more episodes on different mindsets related to pregnancy and parenting. Don't forget to review, share, and subscribe to help the podcast grow.

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Timestamps:

00:02:58 Library visits evoke the ideal parenting experience. 00:04:47 Pottery can wait, find yourself first. 00:06:48 Parenting mindset suggestions wanted. Share on Instagram.

Keypoints:

1. Lowering expectations is key in parenting.
2. Revel in the positive experiences and savor those moments.
3. Write down parenting wins to remind yourself of your successes.
4. Remember that you are not your kids and it's important to keep your own identity.
5. Maintain hobbies and interests, even if it means finding alternative ways to pursue them.
6. Seek support from parents or caregivers who can help out occasionally.
7. Keep yourself separate from your kids to maintain a sense of self.
8. Parents who suffer from infertility or have young kids may face unique challenges in maintaining their identity.
9. It's important to prioritize self-care and personal growth alongside parenting responsibilities.
10. Share your own recommendations for parenting mindset on the Pulling Curls Instagram page.

Producer: Drew Erickson