Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World

Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World

By Cheryl PankhurstParentingKids & Family
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Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World episodes

  • #63  Navigating Grief: Supporting Teens Through Loss with Maria Belanic

     In this heartfelt episode of Parenting Teens Advice Redefined, host Cheryl welcomes grief educator and coach Maria Belanic to discuss the complexities of grief in teenagers. As parents, understanding how to support our teens through the loss of a loved one—whether it be a grandparent, parent, or peer—can be challenging, especially during emotionally charged times like the holidays. Maria shares her personal journey through grief and offers insights on how families can create a safe space for open conversations about loss. Join us for an enlightening discussion that aims to normalize the grief conversation and empower families to navigate their healing together.

    41 min
  • #62 "Navigating the Heartbreak of Bullying: Empowering Parents to Support Their Teens" with Aime Hutton
    #ParentingTeens #BullyingAwareness #ResilienceMentor #CyberSafety #TeenSupport #LGBTQSupport #MentalHealth #YouthEmpowerment #ParentingAdvice #Podcast #TeenBullying #EmpowerParents #TeenGrowth #Sextortion #BullyingConsequences #SafeSpaces #CommunitySupport #InsightToImpact #MentalHealthAwareness #YouthAdvocacy #ParentingInTheDigitalAge

     

    In this episode of "Parenting Teens Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World," we tackle one of the most distressing issues facing teenagers today: bullying. Join host Cheryl and resilience mentor Amy Hutton as they explore the profound impact of bullying on teens and discuss actionable strategies for parents to support their children. With personal stories and professional insights, Amy shares her mission to empower teens and provide them with the tools to overcome adversity. Learn how to foster open communication, educate your teens about cyber safety, and encourage resilience in the face of bullying.

     

    57 min
  • #61 "Tips to Supporting Teens in Post-High School Planning: College, University or Careers" with Lisa Marker Robbins

    In this insightful episode of "Parenting Teen's Advice Redefined for Today's World," host Cheryl Pankhurst welcomes Master Certified Berkman Coach, Lisa, to discuss how parents can effectively support their teenagers during the crucial post-high school planning phase. Lisa shares her inspiring journey from high school teacher to entrepreneur and her passion for helping teens build self-awareness to make informed decisions about their futures.

    Listeners will learn actionable strategies for fostering healthy conversations about values, career choices, and the college application process. Discover how to balance parental involvement with encouraging independence, and why self-awareness is the key to guiding your teen toward a fulfilling future. Whether your teen is a 10th grader or a high school senior, this episode is packed with valuable insights for navigating the challenges of adolescence and beyond.

     

    36 min
  • #60 A "He Said, She Said: Your Masterclass to Rethink How to Divorce" Cheryl & Nigel

    In this compelling Masterclass  Cheryl Pankhurst sits down with author and life coach Nigel Smart to explore the challenges of co-parenting and divorce. They delve into navigating conflicting parenting styles, managing household rules, and building a supportive environment for your teens during times of transition.

    Together, they uncover how to:

    • Let go of what you can’t control in co-parenting dynamics.
    • Support teens while navigating different household rules.
    • Use mindfulness and journaling to stay grounded.
    • Prioritize self-care to show up as your best self for your family.
    • ✨ Ready for more? ✨ Check out the show notes for links to work with Nigel or Cheryl and access the FREE Resource Workbook that complements the Masterclass on thriving through co-parenting challenges. Start creating a stronger foundation for your family today!

      #CoParentingTips #NavigatingDivorce #ParentingTeens #CoParentingChallenges #CustodyConflicts #SelfCareForParents #MindfulParenting #TeenMindsRedefined #NigelSmart #FreeResourceWorkbook

      1 hr 47 min
    • # 59  "Strategies for Teens with Autism to Build Independence" Shea Belsky on Autism Advocacy"

      https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheabelsky/

      In this enlightening episode of "Parenting Teens Advice Redefined," we dive deep into the world of neurodiversity with Shea Belsky, an inspiring autistic self-advocate and senior software engineer. Shea shares his personal journey through the education system and into the workforce, highlighting the importance of understanding and patience for neurodivergent individuals. With a powerful mantra—"My autism is other people's problems, not mine"—Shea challenges societal perceptions and empowers parents to foster open conversations about autism. Whether you're a parent of a neurodivergent teen or simply looking to gain insight into the autistic experience, this episode is packed with valuable advice, heartfelt stories, and practical strategies for navigating the complexities of raising and supporting neurodivergent youth. Tune in to discover how to create a more inclusive and understanding environment for your child.

      Shea Belsky is an autistic self-advocate and changemaker. He is a Senior Software Engineer II at HubSpot, and the former Chief Technology Officer of Mentra, an inclusive hiring platform connecting neurodivergent jobseekers with gainful employment opportunities. Shea brings several unique perspectives to the discussion on neurodiversity: He is the manager of neurodivergent & neurotypical employees, has reported to neurodivergent & neurotypical managers, and has advocated for the needs and wellbeing of all who seek to be heard and understood in the workplace. Shea has championed neurodiversity for organizations like Novartis, the Organization for Autism Research, Confluent, Northeastern University, among many others. He's excited to share his perspectives on neurodiversity and how to be a meaningful ally and advocate

      36 min
    • Bonus Release "Teen Parenting in the Midst of Divorce & Strategies for Successful Co-Parenting" with Rachel King
      Where to find Cheryl!
      I am so grateful for you taking the time to listen and I would love your input, feedback and suggestions for topics. We are in this together.

       

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      • Key Points
      • The podcast "Teen Minds Redefined" discusses the impact of divorce on teenagers and offers support to parents.
      • The host, Cheryl Pankhurst, interviews divorce lawyer Rachel King, who shares her personal experience of being a child of divorce and how it influenced her career in family law.
      • Rachel emphasizes the importance of therapy for individuals going through divorce to handle the emotional rollercoaster and to avoid projecting negative feelings onto their children.
      • She also advises clients to have realistic expectations about the divorce process and to understand that their feelings towards their ex-spouse are not the same as their children's feelings towards the other parent.
        • The speaker discusses the challenges of divorce and co-parenting
        • They emphasize the importance of financial independence and communication in the process
        • They address common misconceptions about the legal process of divorce
        • Overall, the speaker encourages self-awareness and understanding in navigating divorce and co-parenting.
          • The cost of living is increasing, leading to more families needing dual incomes
          • Both parents often believe they are the better parent, but it's important for children to have a relationship with both parents
          • Even if a parent is a "deadbeat" or has mental health issues, children still need to have some kind of relationship with them
          • It's not the role of one parent to teach their children about the faults of the other parent
          • Mediation can be helpful for custody and visitation agreements, but both parties need to be willing to cooperate
            • It is advised to reach an agreement with the other parent, even if it's not ideal, rather than letting a judge make the decision, as it can cause hostility and conflict in co-parenting.
            • The role of a child's attorney is to be the voice of the child in court, but their involvement varies by jurisdiction and is typically not required in family law cases.
            • When it comes to parenting teenagers, it's important to remember that they are still children and may not want to be involved in their parents' divorce.
            • Encouraging extracurricular activities for teenagers should be a conversation between the child and the other parent, not the custodial parent.
              • When going through a divorce, it is important to protect your assets and financial interests by gathering all financial records and documents.
              • When hiring a lawyer, it is important to trust them and ensure they are honest about the potential outcomes of the case.
              • It is recommended to have a therapist, emotional support system, and legal advice during a divorce.
              • It is advised not to start dating too soon during a divorce, as it can lead to emotional complications.
              • The divorce process should not be unnecessarily prolonged and steps should be taken to move towards a resolution, including preparing for trial if necessary.
                • The speaker discusses the selfish tendencies that arise during divorce and how it can bring out controlling and self-serving behavior in people
                • They suggest that forcing a trial can make the other party settle, leading to a quicker end to the divorce case
                • The speaker emphasizes the cost and time-saving benefits of going to trial early on in the divorce process
                • They also promote their podcast "Gables Down, Voices Up" and their remote legal services available in California, Kentucky, Arizona, and Texas

                •  

                  Rachel King. Lawyer. Veteran. Entrepreneur. Wife. Mother. Triathlete. Ultra Marathoner. Yogi. In no particular order. 

                  Rachel King practices law in California, Arizona, Kentucky, and Texas. Her primary location is in Wildomar, California; however, she represents clients nationwide and internationally. 

                  She opened her law firm in 2014 after owning multiple companies and achieving success by taking one to million dollar status. To date Rachel’s firm has helped thousands of people and earns in excess of 7 figures annually. 

                  Rachel is a fierce legal advocate. She has spent years building a reputation as a fighter for clients’ rights in the eyes of the law and giving them a VOICE in the courtroom. Since opening her law firm, King Law Firm Attorneys at Law, Inc., in 2014, Ms. King has been unequivocally dedicated to working with her clients in a way that allows them to understand the legal system, the laws, and the process- to reach their GOAL in court. 

                  Rachel now works primarily as a strategic litigator in Elder Abuse (financial and physical) and undue Influence, Family Law, Conservatorships, Guardianships, and Will and trust Contests. She is a participating member of the Financial Abuse Specialist Team in Orange County and works with Laura’s House to provide assistance to those in Domestic Violence situations. 

                  Rachel regularly speaks on related legal issues. She was a guest on CBS more than once and was featured in LA Weekly as a Top 10 Industry Expert. Rachel has also been highlighted by San Diego Woman Magazine, US Insider, SD Voyager, CANVAS REBEL, and more.  She intends to continue to speak publicly to inform and educate in these highly emotional areas of law. 

                  1 hr 1 min
                • #42B Bonus Release "Mastering Co-Parenting: From Conflict to Cooperation" with JP Marsh


                   

                  Where to find Cheryl!
                  I am so grateful for you taking the time to listen and I would love your input, feedback and suggestions for topics. We are in this together.

                   

                  Click the link for your Personal Invite

                  https://www.cherylpankhurst.com/he-said-she-said-they-said-divorce-dinner-party-masterclass


                   

                   

                  Website  cherylpankhurst.com

                   

                  linkedin.com/in/cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855

                  https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst

                   

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                  • Episode 48% Divorce Stat in North America Guest: JP Marsh, Single Father and Co-Parenting Expert Topics: Navigating single parenthood, co-parenting collaboration, mindfulness training, overcoming conflict, impact on children, social media usage Connect with JP Marsh on Instagram for advice and support Tune in to Teen Minds Redefined with Cheryl Pankhurst every Wednesday for more insightful discussions on parenting and teen issues.
                  • JP's Bio

                    41 year old Single Girl Dad to a 9 year old. Have gone from conflict to collaboration in co-parenting. Live a peaceful simple life with little chaos and drama. Help others get to the same place.

                    How to connect with JP

                    https://www.instagram.com/jpmrsh?igsh=Ym1lbmZzMGJvNXk1

                     
                    49 min
                  • #36B BONUS "The Unexpected Path to Happiness: A Journey Through Divorce and Parenting Teens" with Christy Holt

                    LINK TO YOUR INVITATION TO "HE SAID, SHE SAID, THEY SAID" THE VIRTUAL DIVORCE DINNER PARTY

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                    #TeenMindsRedefinedPodcast #CherylPankhurst #ChristyHolt #HappinessHussy #Podcast #ParentingTeens #DivorceRate #Relationships #SelfCare #Mentorship #SpreadHappiness #LifeLessons #Expectations #HealthyAdults #SocialMedia #CommunitySupport #TeenYears #SafePlace #MomFriends #Independence #Joy #Fulfillment #AdventureGuide #InternationalBestsellingAuthor

                     Bio*

                    Christy Holt is a self-proclaimed Happiness Hussy, adventure guide, podcast host (Create Your Happy, inspiration for conscious women, available wherever you listen to podcasts) and international best-selling author (Unstuck For Women, Run For Your Life and others available on Amazon) on a mission to spread happiness around the planet.  Christy is a mentor for whole-ass humans — using her signature CREATE method, she adventures along side of her heart led clients to support and love them as they discover and unlearn. Christy’s mentorship helps her clients to create a life they love full of loving and healthy relationships that make them truly f*cking happy!

                    Key Takeaways

                    • Guest Christy Holt shares her mission to spread happiness and joy, focusing on finding happiness during divorce and the challenges of parenting teenagers
                    • Christy emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and taking back personal power to create a fulfilling life, believing that everyone is already whole and has the power to create the life of their dreams
                    • She shares her experience of running away from her marriage, realizing the importance of setting healthy boundaries and using her voice
                    • Emphasizes the importance of self-love and creating happiness from within, regulating the nervous system, and being present to make conscious choices and communicate effectively
                    • Focus on guiding children to become independent, healthy, and happy adults, operating with love and compassion to maneuver challenges with grace and avoid conflict
                    • Self-discovery is ongoing and ever-evolving, encouraging exploration, curiosity, and connecting with others for support and community. More resources available at coachchristyholt.com.
                    • Where to find Cheryl!
                      I am so grateful for you taking the time to listen and I would love your input, feedback and suggestions for topics. We are in this together.

                      Website  cherylpankhurst.com

                       

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                      48 min
                    • # 55 "How to Support Your Teen: Effective Strategies for Parents" with Kevin Baker

                      Introduction to Kevin Baker and his mission as a teen life coach

                      The importance of trusted adults in a teenager's life Healthy boundaries around screen time:

                      Strategies for parents How to identify and shift limiting beliefs in teens

                      The role of communication in fostering healthy relationships with your teen

                      Tips for setting screen time limits and maintaining boundaries Resources for parents seeking additional support for their teens

                      How to connect with Kevin Baker for personalized coaching

                       

                      • ⁠Website
                      • Instagram
                      • ⁠LinkedIn
                      • Facebook
                      • Call to Action: If you found value in this episode, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review! Share this podcast with fellow parents who may be struggling to connect with their teens. For more resources and personalized support, visit Kevin Baker’s website at LifeCoachKevin.com and follow him on Instagram at @LifeCoachKevin. Together, let’s redefine the parenting journey! #TeenMindsRedefined #TeenLifeCoach #ParentingTeens #CorporateMoms #ScreenTimeBoundaries #EmpowerYourTeen #LimitingBeliefs #ParentingStrategies #TeenSupport #BusyMoms #MentalHealthAwareness #EmotionalGrowth #LifeCoach #TeenConfidence #FamilyCommunication

                         

                        Where to find Cheryl!
                        I am so grateful for you taking the time to listen and I would love your input, feedback and suggestions for topics. We are in this together.

                        cherylpankhurst.com

                         

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                        0 min
                      • #54  "Navigating Gaming with Teens: A New Perspective" with Velma Gentzsch

                         

                        In this enlightening episode of Teen Minds Redefined, we dive deep into the complex relationship between teenagers and video gaming. Host Cheryl is joined byVelma Gentzsch, a certified hand-in-hand parenting instructor and former executive director for hand-in-hand parenting. Together, they explore the potential of gaming as a tool for connection and learning, rather than just a source of conflict. Velma shares her personal journey of engaging with her son through video games and discusses valuable lessons learned about resilience, growth mindset, and the importance of fostering a strong parent-teen relationship.

                        Bio

                         Velma Gentzsch, a certified Hand in Hand Parenting Instructor and former Executive Director of Hand in Hand Parenting. Velma’s journey into the world of gaming began when she first picked up a controller alongside her 8-year-old son. What started as a simple attempt to connect with her child transformed into a powerful tool for building cooperation and trust. Velma learned that video games, often seen as a source of conflict, could actually bring families closer together. Now, she's on a mission to help parents like you find the joy in gaming and create a more peaceful, cooperative home environment.

                        Key Takeaways:

                        • Understanding the addictive nature of video games and social media.
                        • How gaming can serve as a platform for connection and communication between parents and teens.
                        • The significance of adopting a growth mindset and embracing the learning process.
                        • Practical tips for parents on managing gaming time and fostering healthy habits.
                        • Resources for parents to navigate gaming challenges, including online classes and community support.
                        • Guest Information:

                          • Velma Gentzsch, Certified Hand-in-Hand Parenting Instructor
                          • Website: https://www.mamamavel.com/
                          • Follow Velma on her Twitch stream and YouTube channel for live gaming sessions with her son.
                          • Call to Action: If you found this episode valuable, please subscribe to Teen Minds Redefined on your favorite podcast platform. Share this episode with fellow parents who may be struggling with gaming-related issues. For more insights and resources, visit Velma's website and sign up for her email list for weekly tips and anecdotes. Let’s transform the conversation around gaming and strengthen our relationships with our teens!

                            Hashtags: #TeenMindsRedefined #ParentingTips #VideoGaming #GamingWithTeens #GrowthMindset #Resilience #ParentingPodcast #HandInHandParenting #FamilyConnection #HealthyGaming #TeenDevelopment #DigitalParenting #GamingCommunity #ParentingAdvice 

                             

                            Where to find Cheryl!
                            I am so grateful for you taking the time to listen and I would love your input, feedback and suggestions for topics. We are in this together.

                             

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                            44 min

                          About Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World

                          From the publisher's feed

                          "Discover ''Parenting Teens : Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World" with Special Education Specialist / Educator Cheryl, as we dive into real and raw conversations about sex, drugs, screens, social media, LGBTQ+ issues, mental health, and more. This podcast is your guide to reimagining better relationships with teens by doing the essential inner work. Join us for engaging, vibrant, and empathetic discussions that foster trust and understanding in today's complex parenting landscape.  Embrace the change,we just can’t parent the way our parents did”