Ever been blindsided by life's cruel surprises? Andrew sure has. A brain aneurysm hit him out of nowhere--at the airport! This episode takes you on a journey as we learn about Andrew's fight for survival, and his journey to redefine himself in the face of adversity.

From a successful teacher and soon-to-be author to a full-time caregiver for his mother diagnosed with ALS, Andrew's story is one of resilience and the unwavering human spirit. He paints a vivid picture of the terrifying trip to the hospital, the uncertainty of what lay ahead, and the disruption of his life. But, it's not all gloom and despair. Andrew's acceptance of his circumstances, his shift to present-mindedness, and his exploration of faith lend to lessons on how to find stability amid life's most unpredictable moments.

And, humor. Andy's tales are punctuated with bouts of laughter, lightening the heavy weight of his experiences. From his funny interactions with his mother to his light-hearted take on his predicaments, Andrew teaches us that laughter, indeed, is the best medicine. He is a testament to the power of humor in navigating life's toughest challenges. Tune in to hear Andy's inspiring story, and learn how he found laughter, love, and life amid adversity.

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Ever thought how our backgrounds and experiences shape the way we give and receive love? What if we could turn learning the language of love into a fun and interactive game? Join us as we engage in a captivating conversation with our guest, Paul, about the ground-breaking concept of the Five Love Languages. This episode promises to revolutionize the way you perceive and express love, while also enhancing your relationships.

Drawing on personal stories and experiences with the book, "The Five Love Languages," we discuss how we were inspired to enhance its concept and create a game based on it. This game not only aids in understanding the driving factors behind individuals but also stresses the importance of recognizing positive and negative influences passed down in families. We also journey into the power of shifting focus from annoyances to the positives in others.  

Finally, we examine the  role love languages play in caregiving. Paul shares real-life examples of how understanding love languages has positively influenced individuals and families. We also delve into the challenges and rewards of caregiving, emphasizing the significance of showing love and kindness. Whether you're a caregiver or someone keen on strengthening personal relationships, this episode is packed with great insights. So, tune in, and let's decode the languages of love together.

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Have you ever wondered how artistry intertwines with caregiving? Today, we're chatting with Donna Olivia, a knowledgeable author, retired teacher, and caregiver who's been looking after her mother for 7 years. Brimming with Donna's deep-seated passion for authentic care, this episode uncovers her transformative journey, the lessons she's learned, and how she's harnessed her own power to become a more compassionate caregiver. 

We discuss Donna's book 'Grateful for Grace: Reflections on Caring for Mom' and her unique approach to caregiving, blending the journey with artistic elements that bring comfort and connection. As she talks about her mother's love for music and how she used the cultural significance of hair as a medium of care, you'll realize there's more than meets the eye when it comes to caregiving. 

Lean in as she shares how nurturing her mother has altered the dynamics within her family, giving way to a supportive system that has made her a happier caregiver. By breaking the stereotypes and reclaiming her power, Donna has created a new narrative around caregiving. Not only does she give practical tips for fellow caregivers, but she also lets us into the more intimate aspects of her journey - one that's marked by love, strength, and resilience. Get ready to be inspired and perhaps find a new perspective on caregiving.
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On this episode,  J speaks with co-host of the Remember Me Podcast and resilient figure in the caregiving world Maria Kent Beers. Her journey began with a mother diagnosed with Frontal Temporal Dementia (FTD) and ALS, leading her to discover a strength she never knew she possessed. Navigating medical systems is a daunting task, but Maria's story is one of determination and advocacy, reminding us all of the importance of speaking up for our loved ones.

Imagine connecting with someone despite never meeting them in person. That's exactly what happened between Maria and Rachel, another caregiver who also had a parent with FTD. Their shared experience served as the foundation for their podcast, "Remember Me". They delve into the raw realities of grief and loss but also emphasize the importance of accepting the good, even in times of struggle. Their stories underscore the transformative power of grief, invoking a sense of resilience and grace that is often required in caregiving.

But this journey isn't just about caregiving. It's about discovering therapy through creativity, music, and faith. Maria shares how her mother's art impacted others, and how music became a therapeutic tool during their trips to the doctor's office or a local Starbucks. The strength of her mother's faith also painted a picture of hope amidst the chaos. J and Maria wrap up the episode by diving into the lessons learned from the challenging journey of caregiving, shining a spotlight on the mental health aspect that often gets overshadowed. 

Join J and Maria as they explore the world of caregiving, embrace the good in difficult times, and learn how to parent themselves when their parents can no longer provide the support they need. This is an episode that goes beyond caregiving, touching upon personal growth, resilience, and the power of acceptance.

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Often times caregiving comes with surprises. In this episode of the Parenting Up podcast, J talks about when she was having a productive wave, planning her Comedy tour, creating with her staff, and boom —she is notified that Zetty - who is supposed to be in bed- is on flat on the floor.

Join J as she navigates going from a large-scale meeting for her upcoming comedy tour to aiding Zetty - who just got out of the hospital - off the floor in a matter of minutes.

Snuggle Up with today’s takeaways and be encouraged. 

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Ever found yourself caught in the unexpected whirlwind of caregiving on what you thought was a typical day? Discover how I navigated through night-before-appointment anxiety and carried the weight of overwhelming responsibilities, learning to manage them using personal coping strategies -- humor and flexibility.

Ever had an encounter with an obstinate loved one refusing to get in a car? Hear about my hilarious adventure of getting Zetty into the vehicle and to her appointment on time. You'll learn how patience, empathy, and a light touch can turn even the most frustrating situations into opportunities for connection. There's no caregiver manual, but with creativity in problem-solving, we can ensure our Loved Ones feel secure and loved.

Stick around as I delve into the mental coping strategies I’ve developed through my caregiving journey. I’ll recount the tale of convincing Zetty to get into a 2nd car and arriving at her appointment on time, despite numerous obstacles. You’ll find that perseverance and humor are lifesavers when caring for a LO. Finally, I wrap-up with 3 signature SNUGGLE UPs  reminding us all that it’s okay when things don’t go as planned. Subscribe on your platform of choice, share with a caregiver who needs a hug, and review on iTunes to keep walking this caregiving path with me.

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Amrit's personal journey from  being a weed-head to discovering yoga and meditation offers a compelling exploration of self-discovery and the transformative power of coaching. Imagine waking up just 30 minutes earlier than usual, embracing the quiet of the early morning to connect with yourself and the world. Sounds peaceful, doesn't it? In J Smiles' conversation with life coach and yoga teacher, Amrit Singh, we learned the immense value of such small moments of self-care, especially for those on the demanding journey of caregiving for a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer's. Amrit's unique blend of yoga, meditation, and coaching serves as a powerful stress-management tool, equipping caregivers to face their daily challenges head-on.

He emphasizes the importance of asking the right questions and reconnecting with one's true identity.

 As the world's best athletes and performers understand, you can't reach your peak without a little help. 

So join J, as we journey together in the pursuit of balance, personal growth, and the art of caring, with wisdom and insights from Amrit Singh.

Catch J's signature SNUGGLE UP ending for 3 provocative take aways.

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Has the thought of becoming an unexpected caregiver for a LOVED ONE ever crossed your mind? Imagine the journey of a man thrown into this role, tasked with caring for his charismatic and beloved father after his mom dies. Join J Smiles as she welcomes Jeff Ton, whose heartfelt story ushers us into the emotional rollercoaster that is Frontal Temporal Dementia (FTD) caregiving. 

Against the backdrop of the shared love and respect for his father, a revered doctor and bishop, Jeff navigates us through the intense, sometimes baffling journey of a dementia with memory attached. He opens up about the struggle to get the correct diagnosis for his father and the unique strategies they adopted to keep up with his father's changing reality. His father's insistence on maintaining a sharp appearance, even as his condition worsened, is a testament to the human spirit and the complexities of FTD.

There is a wealth of insight in Jeff's story. He underscores the importance of self-care your way, the need for strong advocacy, and the tough decisions in telling your LO no. 

J and Jeff giggle throughout over the humorous antics of his father. 

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J Smiles is joined by  Jen Hardy, an experienced caregiver, and Alzheimer's awareness advocate, who shares the triumphs and struggles of her unique caregiving experiences. Who knew that saying "no" could be such a powerful tool in creating a better future for those in need? From her aunt and grandma battling cancer, her father's depression and renal failure, to her husband's illness, Jen's resilience and commitment are truly inspiring.

What if you were told you wouldn't live past a year? How would you respond? For Jen, it was a call to action. She channeled her purpose and determination to beat the odds and inspire those around her -- podcasts and books. Her books, The Sick Moms Guide to Having Fun Again and her five-year journal, are tools that can help navigate tough times and emphasize the importance of finding joy in challenging circumstances.

Jen also shares how she navigated her way through various medical challenges and how she managed to take control of her life by changing her mindset. We discuss the importance of self-care for caregivers and share some practical tips and advice for those on a similar journey. In the world of caregiving, simple gestures can have a profound impact, and Jen's wisdom on how to keep our promises to our loved ones and rely on our support networks when needed, is invaluable. Get ready to be enlightened and empowered with this in-depth conversation.

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Get ready to be amazed and inspired by the incredible Janice Goldmintz, a "super caregiver" who has navigated the unknowns of caregiving for both her parents and her child. Listen in as Janice tells her powerful story of raising a daughter with trisomy 13, a genetic disorder with a life expectancy less than 1 year . With strength, resilience, humor, and a thirst for knowledge, Janice made difficult decisions and advocated for her daughter's care, extending her time on earth.

J Smiles' conversation takes a poignant turn as they discuss the challenges of dementia caregiving for Janice's parents, both diagnosed with Alzheimer's. Janice's journey through her mother's paranoia and her father's decline during COVID highlights the benefits of being hands-on with a LOs medical affairs. As Janice shares the heartwarming and heart-wrenching moments, we also hear the perseverance and humor that have guided her through her caregiving experiences.

Join us as we absorb Janice's valuable advice on navigating challenging events, understanding facility offerings, and pushing back against doctors. Her wisdom and unique perspective on caregiving will leave you feeling hopeful and empowered. So, lend your ears, open your hearts, and be inspired by the power of caregiving as told by the extraordinary Janice Goldmintz. Oh yeah, her sister-in-law required caregiver tenderness too -- wait until you hear where the stamina comes originates!

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