Pause Purpose Play

By Michaela ThomasBusiness Entrepreneurship Health & Fitness Mental Health Education Self-Improvement

Pause Purpose Play episodes

May 17, 2023 Trailer
Welcome to the Pause Purpose Play podcast.
This podcast is for you if you're a high-striving, ambitious working woman.
If you want to burn bright without the stress of juggling work with life.
It’s about stepping out of overthinking and embracing imperfection for more fun and freedom.

So, join me to hear my tips on navigating this tricky life using pause, purpose and play.

Here are the highlights:
(00:28) Burning bright
(00:49) Pause Purpose Play
(1:00) What to expect
(1:20) Taking the leap

Find out more about my book, The Lasting Connection at www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/thelastingconnection

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2 min
May 10, 2023 The Stories In Your Mind Holding You Back
What gets in your way when it comes to implementing change?

How does your inner critical voice stop you from improving your life and being kinder to yourself?

Today, we're exploring the stories that show up in our minds.

Here are the highlights:

(02:35) All-or-nothing patterns.
(03:27) These stories can be rewritten.
(04:17) Compassion
(05:31) Action taking!
(09:25) Long lasting change

11 min
May 03, 2023 Setting Boundaries - with Louisa Clarke
Today we're talking about difficult conversations in the workplace.
Lots of us have people-pleasing tendencies, and we may not like conflict.
This can make it difficult to set boundaries or say no to things.
Our nervous system can kick in and freak us out.
So today, I'm talking to Louisa Clarke.
She’s guiding us in setting boundaries whilst acting in line with our values.

Here are the highlights:
(2:50) Meet Louisa
(5:08) Power dynamics
(12:38) How to say no
(17:19) Not a people pleaser?
(23:25) Trapped in resentment
(29:52) Giving permission

You can find out more about Louisa via her website HERE.

You can connect with Louisa on LinkedIn HERE.

34 min
April 05, 2023 From overthinking to taking action
Why is that you overthink your every decision? You consider every angle, so you end up not taking action? Or you take action only when you have to, to meet a deadline? Maybe you want to dot all the i's and cross all the t's, until it's perfect?

What is overthinking costing you, in terms of energy levels and productivity? Could you be spending that time more wisely?
Last episode, I mentioned that I will be talking about procrastination today. And this is such a big topic, that I decided to make it a series. Overthinking is definitely part of procrastination, so let’s start there.

In this short episode, you’ll learn:

- a way of noticing that you are stuck in overthinking
- a simple tool to interrupt overthinking and indecisiveness
- an easy step to take to get you started on an action

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14 min
March 30, 2023 Being kind, caring and compassionate to others
Do you know anyone in your life that you think could do with being a bit kinder to themselves? Someone who could do with slowing down a bit or maybe not working so hard?

Responding to others with compassion can not only help them to feel better, but it also helps us feels better - as doing good, feels good. It can also help us to be more compassionate to ourselves.

In this short solo episode, I look at what treating others with kindness, care and compassion does to our brains, and I invite you to try it too.

Find out more about my book, The Lasting Connection at www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/thelastingconnection

Find me at www.thethomasconnection.co.uk
Instagram: www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection
Facebook: www.facebook.com/thethomasconnection
10 min
March 23, 2023 Changing habits by embracing failure with grace
Change is hard. Have you decided to change any of your habits this year? Want to be healthier in some way, or shave off some of your annoying sides?

Well, my friend: If nothing changes, nothing changes.
In this solo episode, I look at how we can change our habits by embracing failure, so make sure you have a pen and paper handy, because I have six tips for changing habits for you at the end.

To watch my free masterclass for ambitious female entrepreneurs, How to Burn Bright Without Burning Out, go to: https://thethomasconnection.lpages.co/burnbright
Find me at www.thethomasconnection.co.uk
Instagram: www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection
9 min
March 16, 2023The Power of Pausing, with Chris Johnson
Can a little pause really make a big difference? What does pausing add to our lives - and why don’t you want to do it? I’ll be discussing this and more with my guest today, Chris Johnson.
Chris Johnson, PsyD., is the founder of Q4 Consulting, Inc. and the Core Presence Institute™. Her passion is cultivating exemplary leaders, collaborative teams, healthy workplaces, and thriving communities.
In this episode we talk about -
Making peace with pausing, accepting that you need to rest
Why pausing is important for us in our work
The double-edge sword of pausing, feeling both calming and scary
When pausing, we notice thoughts and feelings we want to avoid
Mindfulness and pausing is not a panacea for feeling good
The benefits of pausing - in our work, relationships and wider life
Permission to allow yourself to pause and take a break
Pausing helps us move into flow and productivity
Passion, pleasure, potential and purpose being linked with pausing
Why pausing matters for leaders
‘Permacrisis’ – permanently being in crisis from pandemic, political unrest and cost of living crisis
Ways to pause and the power of being here now
The resistance to stop being linked from rushing, urgency, impatience, busyness
Martial arts, yoga, dance and other body based activities into mindfulness and pausing
You can find out more about Chris at www.q4-consulting.com or email her at [email protected]
To watch my free masterclass for ambitious female entrepreneurs, How to Burn Bright Without Burning Out, go to: https://thethomasconnection.lpages.co/burnbright
Find me at www.thethomasconnection.co.uk
Instagram: www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection

This podcast is produced by Emily Crosby Media.
53 min
March 09, 2023 Follow your passion sustainably to avoid burnout
Follow your passion!
But do so sustainably, so you're not flirting with burnout.
As it is easy to overdo it when you are passionate about making an impact. Too much of a good thing is still too much.

This short solo episode covers:
Tips for following your passion sustainably, the importance of downtime for a purposeful life, and how you make wise decisions about protecting your capacity and harnessing your energy, to better utilise your potential.
Remember: if you burn out, you cannot burn bright.
To watch my free masterclass for ambitious female entrepreneurs, How to Burn Bright Without Burning Out, go to: https://thethomasconnection.lpages.co/burnbright
Find me at www.thethomasconnection.co.uk
Instagram: www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection
16 min
March 02, 2023How to step out of the rat race at work
Do you work too many hours or push yourself to achieve things even at your own detriment?

You want to be successful, but maybe you’re not clear on what success looks like for you, and confuse it with what the patriarchal definition of productivity looks like – clocking up at least 40 hours a week.
This solo episode was an experiment – recording an Instagram live mini training onto the podcast at the same time, with any free flow imperfections that brought, so turn the volume down a bit for better audio.
The session focused on your relationship with five factors which influence how you get stuck in a rat race at work and in your business – your relationship with success, with yourself, with productivity, with achievement, and with comparison with others.
Listen to this episode to learn more about:
How do you define what successful means?
The inner work we do helps us level up in our business too

Masculine energy and definition of performance rules, meaning working 40 plus hours a week to be ‘productive’.

Corporate hangover – need to be constantly doing something to be productive, face time at the office

Attaching your self-worth to achievement, then you will feel like a failure when you make a mistake
Comparisonitis and how understandable it is
When you DO address these patterns, you can start to build more enjoyment.
As it is SO common to get stuck into these patterns of overworking, please share this episode and talk to your friends about it. It is possible to unpick and change these patterns.

Find me at www.thethomasconnection.co.uk
Instagram: www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection
Facebook: www.facebook.com/thethomasconnection
Pause Purpose Play Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/pausepurposeplay

This episode was edited by Emily Crosby Media.
25 min
February 23, 2023Rest, feminism, activism and the patriarchy, with Keri Jarvis
Are you passionate about changing the world? About bridging the gender pay gap, or otherwise minimising the marginalisation of women? About doing good in the world, wanting to help others? Perhaps you want to do SO MUCH, that you get so overwhelmed you end up taking no action at all?
Then listen up, as whatever impact you want to have, you need to consider how you minimise the negative impact on yourself in the process, to avoid burnout.
In this episode, I speak to inspirational Keri Jarvis, who is a Developmental Coach, Intersectional Feminist & Community Activist.
In this episode we talk about:
Feminism as equity for all
Our inability to escape marginalization
Outwitting the patriarchy is a scam
You can’t mindset away systemic factors
Lack and scarcity
The programming behind ambition
Your perception is real - women do more
The systemic issues with self-care as burnout solution
How we can make an impact, achieving changes to the systems with less impact on us
The danger of ‘saviouring’ - being the best at changing things is a patriarchal capitalist norm
Our worth is not in our productivity
Taking messy, imperfect action to do good
Not being perfectionist about helping
The effects of overextending yourself
Rest as resistance against the toxic productivity narrative
Play as following our body’s urges

You'll find Keri at https://kerijarvis.com/
Keri referenced the book Rest is Resistance by the Nap Ministry - https://thenapministry.com/

Find out more about my transformation 6 month group coaching Burn Bright at https://thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright/
Find me at www.thethomasconnection.co.uk
Instagram: @the_thomas_connection
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About Pause Purpose Play

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Imagine if you could follow your ambition without drowning in it – how much more fulfilling life would be? That’s what Pause Purpose Play is all about – finding balance over burnout by setting you free from needing to be perfect, so that you can take action and get started with what matters to you, instead of getting stuck in procrastination and holding yourself back with self-limiting beliefs your inner critic tells you.

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