Personal Upgrade

Most of this series has been about getting better. But if you build the worlds best mansion on crappy foundations, it wont last. In this episode we start the digging and healing process. Only process when your ready to make long term changes.

There are three type of people: Those who know they need to fix themselves or their past. Those who have fixed the past. Then Those who are ignorant (and think they don't have anything to fix - applies to all of us to a degree.)

Been doing this for ages, milestones reached, serving countless people online and face to face. Now is a good time to Call it... Season Two.

We all know about Projecting right? The Person who turns their anger on the innocent. The Boss under pressure who takes it out on their employee, or maybe the Partner who treats their innocent spouse with contempt.

On this episode we learn not only how to deal with the above but reverse engineer it to see how you can utilize this superpower.

When working with people who want to change, there is a difference.  Those who succeed are driven, and often pain is a factor. Just like pain is God's gift to allow us to pull our hand back when it feels the sting of a blade to prevent further damage, the type of pain that drives people to change is also a gift. 

The only problem is that people then set about trying to change things only to fail, or even worse change the wrong thing that has even more negative consequences.

Lets explore change technology, why it ruins some people, and how to apply it (successfully) with massive gain in your life!

We are all Lazy. Yes even you the Type A overachiever! This is the nature of the mind and how we interact with reality. 

In this episode we will explore

- WHY we are all Actually Lazy

and 

- How to HACK this to achieve anything (and everything!)

Personal Upgrade: The different Approach to Self Discovery and Enhanced Abilities. The Last Stop in Personal Development.  Unique Approach designed for the Mind.  Books available, Course Release Date TBA.

By Michael Pulser your Personal Upgrade Guide - Changing Countless Lives for Over a Decade...

This episode will focus on the Self Help Scams out there...

Apart from the obvious (tens of thousands of dollars for coaching and courses) you may be surprised that it goes deeper and chances are many of your favorite 'content creators' are doing you a MASSIVE disservice.

Watching the industry over many decades I have seen the changes and the problems from the past resolve and create new problems.  If you like Personal Growth Material then you should listen to this.

BTW - if you downloaded this episode on its release... MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Life is about challenges. 

We solve problems daily with at work, home and in everyday life.

Then along comes the bomb and we realize what a Problem really is!

Learning to deal with these issues is complex, but I have broken this down to include:

- The root of ALL problems

- The two essential shifts you must make or else nothing will work

- How to practically deal with all Problems

- How to deal with the mental toll of each problem

and believe it or not how you can actually grow from the process (I know - if your career, marriage or health is at risk its easier said than done, but listen in to see what I mean)

This episode was done out of a need to assist people who have been told to look on the bright side, things will get better, do deep breathing, talk about it etc. - AND NONE OF THIS STUFF HELPED!

As always let me know what you think.

Too often we miss the mark when exploring our feelings, emotions and reactions.

Once you discover the Driver of the emotions you have the tool to control everything.

In this episode we:

- Discover the tool

- Unpack it and learn how it works against us

- Learn how to control it 

- Utilize a 3 step approach to Master emotions long term

In less than 10 minutes you can at a minimum have a great day or best case - CHANGE YOUR ENTIRE APPROACH TO LIFE!

We are bombarded with information including self help.

I was honestly not going to enter the public Psychology/Personal Growth arena back in the early 2000's because of this very reason, however it occurred to me that:

- Most of the new stuff was on a conveyer belt to produce a dopamine hit at best

- Other stuff was useful for selective application only

- Full systems were rare, but most were incomplete or faulty

Doing my apprenticeship including working with people - reading those 1000 + books and more I realized that we need a complete system that the conscious and unconscious mind can utilize.

 I could foresee that new data may enter the arena so I included an expansion upgrade to the system which slots into the current system and allows new information.

That way you can still browse a reddit, Quora, internet article, book or podcast and find something that is highly useful - then add it onto the Alpha Dude System.

This episode will unpack both how to do this and introduce the concept of discernment.

Someone is talking to you, then before long, they are dominating you.

You go to a social event to have fun and find that people just want to talk over you.

Everyone has dealt with something similar - this podcast covers what you can do to not only survive but thrive. 

Then you can have fun.  Watch as the other person starts to conform to your reality.

Of course your reality is one of pure motives, so there's no manipulation or cognitive dissonance.

Enjoy! 

In this episode we will unpack many concepts including:

- How to deal with difficult people

- How to deal with your difficult states

- Learn how to overcome past conditioning

- Stop buying into other peoples Frames

- Maintain your own Frame

- Build and Upgrade your Frame

all premised on one little Secret*