Pinoy Love Language

By Roanne de Guia-Samuels, LMFT

Roanne is a licensed Psychotherapist mom and an immigrant twice in America. She has frequented 500 Filipino homes and is the author of the book: 5 Pinoy Love Languages. Episodes include a deep dive in... more

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The podcast currently has 56 episodes available.

Pinoy Love Language episodes:

October 25, 2022EP #30: SHADOW SIDE OF UTANG NA LOOB & GRATITUDE
Honoring our elders and those who came before us is a beautiful gesture. When does the concept of utang na loob and the expectation to be grateful create harm in ourselves and in our relationships?
In this episode, let's explore:
the difference and adaptive use of being grateful versus gratefulness from fear-based intention

how do you know if you have repressed your emotions in the name of utang na loob or being grateful

why people prefer to be just be grateful than to heal from their own woundings

what to do if you have repressed emotions in the name of utang na loob and being grateful

...and many more.
Helpful Links-
30 Days to Inner Child Playground Course
https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/inner-child-playground-30-days-to-restoration
Read the Kalamansi Juice Blog
https://kalamansijuice.com/blog/
Other self-paced courses on Inner Child Healing & Filipino Culture Nuances
https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/
Kalamansi Juice TV youtube Channel
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCy-yhqsVB81QHHI18o011gA

Thank you po for listening. If you have any questions for this Filipina Therapist, feedback, suggestions for a topic, leave me a message at [email protected].
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October 13, 2022EP #29: FILIPINO RELIGIOSITY IN AMERICA VS IN THE PHILIPPINES
Are Catholics/ Christians the same elsewhere?
In this episode, let's explore:
Filipino religiosity in the motherland vs in America

how immigration can transform the Filipino spirituality/religiosity

how folk Catholicism is a buffer to colonized form of religiosity

how do you see your God?

....and many more

Check these out:
Kalamansi Juice Blog
https://kalamansijuice.com/blog/
Self-paced Courses/ E- Book in the Kalamansi Juice Academy
https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/
Love Mapping Course for Couples
https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/love-mapping-for-couples
Thank you po for listening and if you enjoy this podcast, please leave a review!

Ingat,
Roanne
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25min
September 21, 2022EP #28: ON GRIEF & FRIENDSHIP: THE STORY OF ANT AND SNAIL
Grief is not something you get over with, for it is from the seed of love that grief sprouts from.
In this episode-
explore the concept of GRIEF through the eyes of two friends: Snail and Ant

How grief can be a challenge to those supporting the Griever

How the Griever can facilitate his own support and how it looks like to him/her.

How support people can sit with the GRIEVER in times of intense pain.
I'd so appreciate if you can leave a stellar review to this podcast, if called to do!
Check out the blog
www.kalamansijuice.com
Offerings of Self-Paced Courses
https://kalamansijuiceacademy.com

Salamat po for listening,
Roanne
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13min
August 22, 2022EP #27: COMMON REASONS FILIPINOS SEEK THERAPY
There is a misconception that you have to be diagnosable Mental Health condition to seek therapy.
In this episode, let's explore-
myths about therapy vs coaching

common reasons Filipinos seek therapy

what to do next if you find yourself needing support,

and more
Learn more about Story Therapy Here.
To schedule a 30 minute complimentary consult, access Roanne's calendar here.
To read the blog https://kalamansijuice.com/blog/

Follow me on:
IG instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/
Youtube

Thank you po for listening! If you have any topic or question for this Filipina Therapist, please write with the subject line #askthisFilipinatherapist @ info @kalamansijuice.com.
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13min
July 14, 2022EP #26: THE ART OF SLOWING DOWN
Honoring the wisdom of your body through the art of slowing down. Slow is fast.

In this episode, let's explore
how productivity mindset can wreck a havoc on your mind and body

using your calendar to remind you to slow down

the art of noticing, what you forget to do when you're moving too fast

the real exercise for the mind/body to accelerate your happiness health
Mentioned links and helpful resources:
Slow Down to Accelerate Your Happiness Health
5 PInoy Love Languages Ebook Download
Story Therapy/Coaching with Roanne

If you'd like to receive weekly love notes from Roanne in your inbox, join here.

Salamat po for listening! if it speaks to you, please leave a review so that others can find this podcast.

sa uulitin,
Roanne
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20min
June 30, 2022EP #25: HOW CULTURE INFLUENCES YOUR DECISIONS
Do you decide on your own accord? Social Psychologist and anthropologist tells us that culture is like water to fish. You can't deny its existence absent of noticing it.

In this episode, let's explore-
How culture influences your decision-making

how shared identity is an invisible thread that connects us all

the independence paradox of American mindset

how to belong and initiate alignment with your core values

Mentioned links and helpful resources:
How Culture Influences Your Decision-Making Blog
The 5 Pinoy Love Languages Ebook Download
Masterclass: Pakiramdam-Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words

Interested with working with Roanne 1:1?
Learn more about Story Therapy/Coaching

Salamat po for listening. If you like this podcast, please share with others!

Sa uulitin,
Roanne
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24min
June 16, 2022#24: THE CURSE OF THE GOOD CHILD
What’s the cost of being the “good one,” the one expected to follow the path promised with lavish confetti and head nods of approval in the family?

In this episode, let's explore-
Who is the good child?

the conditions that raise the good child

the curse of the good child, manifestations and cost

good to neither good or bad but just is

Mentioned and /or other helpful resources:
Blog Post: The Curse of the Good Child
Masterclass on Pakiramdam: Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words
Kalamansi Juice Blog

Want to consult with Roanne, follow this link for a complimentary consult.
Learn more about Story Therapy/Coaching here.
Remember that you can ask a question to the PInay therapist by sending me a direct email of your questions and feedback @[email protected]

Maraming salamat for listening,
Roanne
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19min
May 26, 2022#23: WELL FED BUT EMOTIONALLY HUNGRY
Were you well-provided for- a roof over your head, meals that don't go out of style, went to a good school but feel emotionally malnourished?
In this episode, let's explore:
how immigration for a Filipino immigrant may aggravate this malnourished cycle

manifestations that you are emotionally hungry

tips on how to feed your hungry parts

and many more...
Mentioned in this episode-
Kalamansi Juice Blog
5 Pinoy Love Languages EBook
If you're interested in transforming your Story, learn more about Story Therapy/Coaching here.
The Masterclass on Pakiramdam: Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words

FOLLOW ME ON
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u
Email: [email protected]

salamat po for listening,
Roanne
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17min
April 28, 2022#22: PASALUBONG: THE MOST ENDEARING PINOY LOVE LANGUAGE
EP 22 What is Pasalubong and why is it so endearing to many Filipinos?
In this episode, explore-
the definition of pasalubong and why it's valuable in the Filipino culture

the light and shadow side of this Pinoy Love Language

a case example of using pasalubong to ease up tension in a relationship

...and much more.

Roanne mentioned the following-
THE 7 PINOY LOVE LANGUAGE COURSE
READ THE BLOG

FOLLOW ME ON
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u
Email: [email protected]
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12min
April 14, 2022#21: LIGOY: GOING AROUND THE BUSH
EP 21 Why is it that when you asks a Filipino sometimes that they go around the bush rather than telling you straight up what’s on their mind? What is the Pinoy Love Language of Ligoy?
In this episode, let's explore-
what is ligoy?

What is the cultural and social implications of this Pinoy Love Language?

How to respond to someone who is using this PLL?

Using the RULER Method, a culturally responsive way to deepen your Pinoy Relationships.

If you want to deepen your cultural knowledge about yourself, learn more about the 7 PINOY LOVE LANGUAGES COURSE
Want to consult with Roanne? follow this link for a complimentary consult
Remember that you can ask a question to the PInay therapist by sending me a direct email of your questions and feedback @[email protected]

Maraming salamat for listening,
Roanne
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14min

FAQs about Pinoy Love Language:

How many episodes does Pinoy Love Language have?

The podcast currently has 56 episodes available.