A conversation with psychonaut Masha Loddy about alchemy, plant medicine, and movement of the masculine and feminine through the cosmic sauce.

Meditating to NOT achieve enlightenment or ascension

A dark experience of shady plant medicine practitioner

The feminine qualities of severity, reforging, refinement, 

The masculine qualities of concretizing, directing, manifesting

Union between the masculine and feminine across the experiential, alchemical, and transcendental forms of gnosis

This episode is a headful. Hope you enjoy it.

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Want to connect with Masha? Check out pishwitch.com or @pishwitch 

If you'd like your (optionally anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

Instagram: @polarityunscripted

Medium: @jackbohannan

Divorce coach Josh Tomeoni shares thoughts on divorce as a man, the masculinity/femininity polarity, having a life mission (yes!), and dying on the hill in opposition of the term "toxic masculinity."

I opine.

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To learn more about Josh, his services or book, checkout:

@joshthederelict on Instagram

www.thederelict.biz

If you'd like your (optionally anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

Instagram: @polarityunscripted

Medium: @jackbohannan

A conversation with a heartbroken friend who happens to host a large podcast. This was recorded for her show, but -- because she's yet to break the big news to her audience -- she'll remain anonymous for the time being.

Listen to our stories of heartbreak and reflect on your own.

• Attachment issues and how they play out as recurrent patterns
• Relationships design, relationship anarchy, and poly
• Tolerating disappointment as a mature part of relationships
• For the guys: Kiley says it’s okay to just say you like to f*ck

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If you'd like your (optionally anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

Instagram: @polarityunscripted

Medium: @jackbohannan

This episode is my summary of a conversation I had in Spanish with a self-described "weirdo" living in Bogota, Colombia.

Highlights:

• A personal story of trauma and assault that absolutely stunned me
• A critique of feminism (that I've heard a lot in Latin America)
• Insights into women and men through the lens of someone living far outside what most Colombianos consider normal

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If you'd like your (optionally anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

Instagram: @polarityunscripted

Medium: @jackbohannan

What does it mean to embody your femininity? Is that even a question anyone should be asking?

Rayna Boychuk shares her philosophy on polarity and her own journey back to self-love, acceptance, and indeed -- femininity.

She's a business and relationship coach for women who encourages clients to embody themselves fully and... breathe. Even if breathing is disapointing.

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If you'd like your (optionally anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

Instagram: @polarityunscripted

Medium: @jackbohannan

A very heated conversation on an all-black panel (plus me). 

There are hot takes left and right. We discuss the fundamental nature of men and women. 

• Willy fought dinosaurs, and then a lion after work
• I point out that men don’t have babies
• Yonci compares men to chairs, accurately
• “I don’t own a duck; I’m black, black”
• Heavy lifting on the part of the boys but we’re all in the same foxhole

There are things I probably should have edited out.

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

Instagram: @polarityunscripted

Medium: @jackbohannan

Omar describes living in Mexico City as "like living in a video game" -- and it's a fun game. We discuss the dynamism of polarity for creating attraction and understanding between male lovers.

• How masculinity and femininity play out in a gay latino relationship
• The situational manifestation of these energies (rather than permanence)
• Omar's personal descriptions of masculine and feminine energies
• Riding the lightning of male sexuality

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

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Medium: @jackbohannan

Most people haven’t been polyamorous for 20+ years. Or practicing tantra and spiritual sexuality. But Mark Casey has. He’s a sex coach and dude I carpooled with one time.

Discussed:

• Why masculine/feminine occur and how we get those “energies” confused with men/women
• How childhood experiences influence sexuality, and how this could allow greater intimacy in your life
• Finding eroticism outside of sexuality
• Mark’s book (Living Your Erotic Potential) just briefly

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Or just email Mark: [email protected]

If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

Instagram: @polarityunscripted

Medium: @jackbohannan

An interview with an oracle of the Mayan calendar. She wants a trustworthy man. I suggest a puppy, but I will cross my fingers for her too.

• The heart as an organ of discernment 
• How to manifest a man "in the doorway of your house" on Feb. 14th (like DoorDash)
• Why unconditional love is flawed based on the limitations of time
• (Please know that Chilean Tinder is also cringe)

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

Instagram: @polarityunscripted

Medium: @jackbohannan

A brilliant conversation with Sabrina Sundari, a Somatic Experiencing practictioner and hypnotherapist. She shares the vulnerable story of her abusive relationship with a healer-type person.

• The limitations and paradox of polarity typology
• Why applying labels to your partner is BS
• How to approach a new relationship
• The reasons to never date a relationship coach or therapist ;-)

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

Email: [email protected]

Website: polarityunscripted.com

Instagram: @polarityunscripted

Medium: @jackbohannan