This powerful woman describes her abusive relationship and the role of mother…

And liberation into singlehooda and, soon after, ethical non-monogamy.

You’ll also hear a very pointed conversation on the nature of masculinity. 

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A conversation over dinner in Cusco, Peru

With reflections on:

• Romantic relationships across cultural divides
• Sharing societies vs. individualism
• Accepting our partners and stepping into ourselves

I really appreciate how this guy is living his life.

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My overall reflections from interviews on relationships and gender conducted while in Vietnam.

Also, a mildly hilarious and tragic recap of a not-recorded interview from a man in Hoi An.

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The title of this podcast says it all, sadly.

This powerful, reasonable woman is suffering the slings and arrows of the dating scene (and marriage).

I was inspired by her commitment to growth and willingness to try again after betrayal.

The audio is C+

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Can BDSM help you establish a morning routine? Or improve your eating habits?

This interviewee makes a dom/sub relationship sound like a solution for... everything.

But what will your parents say? 

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Chloé Phemeral — a Barcelona-based sex and kink coach — explains what kink is and isn’t — while making it all sound pretty darn healthy.

Better still, she leads me back to my more animalistic self in this conversation about kink, consent, and the dog park.

• Debunking the social messaging for men to be dominant
• How to “let the animal out” in a safe way
• Finding the freedom to be a child again (in kink)
• The origin points of our erotic blueprints

If you want to connect with Chloé Phemeral for guidance in kink, relationships, or intimacy, you can find her at somanawa.com

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Connect with Chloé: somanawa.com

This guest is climbing the corporate ladder, outearning her Colombian dates, and thinking of immigrating to the US to find a partner.

She describes: 

• Her romantic scene in Bogota (it’s bad) 
• The unbelievably nice dates she went on with guys in the USA (?!?)
• And why you probably won’t meet her standard. Sorry, dude...

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

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A man who’s parenting better than he was parented and doing “the work” that so many other men avoid.

Topics include…

…redefining attachment styles and how they change depending on our partner

…living our values and reconciling the pull of physical beauty in women

…whatever the heck “men’s work” is

…problems of financial mismatch in relationships

…self-love and self-abandonment

It’d be nice if we could clone this guy. 

Do you agree?

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A nice interview with a nice person -- who also happens to be an Only Fans model.

In this episode:

• Reconciling social expectations around p*rnography creation
• Bringing human connection to adult content
• Who's actually messaging with you for $10/month
• And what happens when women earn more than men

Featuring @pretty_cat19

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This guest beautifully balances incongruence and paradox, and brings such a light touch to our soapbox moments together. That's right -- we break from this show's intended format (of personal-experience-only) to discuss gender theory as though we know something.

(Because this dude had a metric ton of books behind his desk and a .edu email.)

Topics:

• A strong father, presumably in flannel
• Early experiences of cross-dressing
• Later experiences of cross-dressing
• And rumors of a new addition to binary gender taxonomy: "Butch trans-fa*got rebirthed with pheonix in the flow of rainbow fairy wings son wh*re of a kitten purring"

I like him. You might too.

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, lmk:

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