Polarity Unscripted

An interview with an oracle of the Mayan calendar. She wants a trustworthy man. I suggest a puppy, but I will cross my fingers for her too.

• The heart as an organ of discernment 
• How to manifest a man "in the doorway of your house" on Feb. 14th (like DoorDash)
• Why unconditional love is flawed based on the limitations of time
• (Please know that Chilean Tinder is also cringe)

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A brilliant conversation with Sabrina Sundari, a Somatic Experiencing practictioner and hypnotherapist. She shares the vulnerable story of her abusive relationship with a healer-type person.

• The limitations and paradox of polarity typology
• Why applying labels to your partner is BS
• How to approach a new relationship
• The reasons to never date a relationship coach or therapist ;-)

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This guy probably scammed me for beer money. He said he worked for the temple — and insisted that I ring a large gong — but my “donation” of 5-ish dollars turned into beer, not Buddhism. 

I liked him. We talked:

• The easeful acceptance of transwomen in Thailand (Ladyboys)
• How women were bought from poor families in the recent past
• Why men still pay a fee for their bride — even if she earns

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

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Website: polarityunscripted.com

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Featuring Melissa Belongea, a relationship coach and person who insists on truth, healing, and depth in her personal connections.

Hear more about:

• Man/woman differences in what we disclose to our lovers and how/when
• The ways an anxiously attached partner "overperforms" and might overwhelms their lover
• Self-worth issues at the core of relational distress
• And borrow someone else's nervous system

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

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Website: polarityunscripted.com

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A discussion of traditions, limitations, and the folklore of Hội An with a Vietnamese mother of two.

• “Kidnap Marriage” and why it persists today
• How everything has two faces (ask the dead)
• Why men are “always right”
• How the war echoes in Vietnam

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In this episode, my guest and I look at the felt-experience of our lives without the lens of our social constructions. (Or at least we try to see without that lens.)

• Kicking the tires of the feminist movement (they hold air, but might need to be rotated).
• Feeling "beyond gender" in relationships. Watching energies shift depending on our partner.
• Handling BS in the workplace as a young female-bodied person
• Why the Barbie movie ends in seamless patriarchy

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

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Coffee with a woman in Vietnam.

• Why more Vietnamese women than men speak English
• How life chooses our social roles for us
• The responsibilities of children

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

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Recorded on a motor boat up the Amazon, this episode features a European woman living and loving in Peru, along with:

• Personal thoughts (from her journal) about what she desires in a partner
• Latin sexual harassment vs. European sexual harassment
• Why women enforce patriarchal norms on other women
• How to respond to street hecklers

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

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We think of intimacy as sexual. But it starts with quiet moments of self, says intimacy coach Madelina Ecclesia.

I agree.

Also:

• The animal appeal of relationships that verge on pathology
• Why guys on motorcycles win hearts — even if they're crying
• And a discussion of the new expectations placed on men

To connect with Madelina online… mad-life.com

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:

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Travel makes people soft and strong, responsible and complete.

Evidence:

This Russian woman (interviewed in Vietnam) found herself in travel and is embodying her power in relationships.

This means:

• Giving space to a partner
• Overcoming fears of abandonment
• Ditching romantic impositions from the movies and songs
• The bizarre, tragic practice of ghosting our former lover

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If you'd like your (anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, message me:

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Website: polarityunscripted.com

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