PolySoCal

In this powerful, vulnerable roundtable, the PolySoCal community explores a single, profound question: “If society never judged your relationships, how would that change the way you love?” What unfolds is a raw and deeply human conversation about family rejection, corporate fear, the grief of lost friendships, and the bittersweet path to self-acceptance.

Voices range from seasoned poly veterans to newer explorers—each sharing the emotional weight of secrecy, the strength it takes to live authentically, and the quiet resilience of loving out loud in a world that often misunderstands. With stories of parenting, queer identity, chosen family, and intergenerational growth, this episode is a moving portrait of love that refuses to be boxed in.

In this week’s PolySoCal Roundtable, host Alonzo Banx welcomes an engaging mix of voices—from seasoned polycule partners to a guest with a monogamish perspective—for an honest conversation about relationship agreements. Together, they explore how couples create, uphold, and evolve agreements that foster trust, respect, and safety in ethical non-monogamy. The group shares personal strategies, from subtle “in-the-moment” check-ins to the courage of renegotiating boundaries as relationships grow. Along the way, they offer practical tools for new and experienced partners alike, proving that agreements aren’t about restriction—they’re the foundation that lets love and connection thrive. 

In this week’s PolySoCal Roundtable, host Alonzo Banx and an inspiring panel of voices explore one of the most persistent myths in ethical non-monogamy—the idea that fairness means splitting time equally between partners. Through candid stories, laughter, and heartfelt insights, they reveal why emotional presence, intentionality, and genuine connection matter far more than keeping the calendar balanced. From practical tools like “love cups” check-ins to the deep value of being fully present with each partner, this conversation offers a compassionate, real-world guide for nurturing multiple relationships without losing sight of what truly fills the heart. 

In this special PolySoCal Podcast Roundtable, Alonzo Banx gathers voices from across our community — Cookie, Noah, Cupcake, Patty, and Captain Lin — for an open, fireside-style conversation about the beliefs around love and commitment we’ve all had to unlearn. From breaking free of “one true love” conditioning to learning that jealousy can be a teacher, each guest shares personal experiences, lessons, and advice for navigating polyamory with authenticity. This episode is a heartfelt, thought-provoking exchange that invites you to reflect on your own journey toward love without limits.

In our very first episode of The PolySoCal Podcast, we sit down with Noah, Cookie, and Cupcake — a connected, loving polycule navigating life, love, and growth together. They share their journey from friendship to deep connection, the joys and challenges of joining an existing relationship, and the powerful lessons they’ve learned about compersion, communication, and self-awareness. Whether you’re new to ethical non-monogamy or looking to deepen your understanding, this conversation offers an intimate look at how love can expand when rooted in trust, care, and curiosity.