Possibility Realm

Being a mother of four who has talked with tons of parents with diverse parenting styles, the common desire is that parents seek a close emotional connection to their children.Attachment parenting nurtures this connection to raise secure, independent and compassionate children.In this episode you will:learn more about attachment parentinghear my story of trial and errorlessons I learned out of itways to grow and feel strong about your parenting stylehow to become part of a parenting community where you will get the support, tools and resources you need.Did you know that a secure attachment to a caregiver in childhood creates a blueprint for a secure social and emotional development and template for relationships is adulthood?The best way to predict the future is to create it.I look forward to hearing from you after you listen to this episode.For continuous support and community join possibility realm parenting private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2876695559281252

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In this episode we talked about the reflective practices Bola does with her clients. She brings to us over 20 years of learning, personal transformation and massive results with her clients using soul space method for trauma transformation; a simple, powerful and proven tool she created to manage stress, transformation, trauma and disability as well as experience personal and business growth.This three-step method takes you through mindful focus, radical detachment and authentic soul connection. As she lovingly points out, “freedom lies in being able to manage the emotions better.”You will also learn how to ground yourself when going through so much change. Change and loss creates uncertainty and dissociation but you can navigate that successfully. You will learn how to accept yourself as you are now, be gentle to yourself, kind to yourself, and implement mind over matter. Understand how the brain is after trauma and how to retrain the brain so it can attain more positivity and less of the events of the past.Do you have a coach? Find out why having a coach helped her see things she couldn’t see through her own eyes. Reading and working on things on your own can only take you to a certain place. A coach will help you make much more progress.If you are a business person, soul space healing’s clarify your lucrative niche helps you discover the best talents and experience at this time and how you can offer them to your ideal clients. Her Self-confident course helps you skyrocket your confidence.You can connect with Bola Abimbola at soulspacehealing.com Instagram @soulspacehealing Facebook: soul space healing.

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How do you know a relationship could be traumatic? What do you do if you are a victim of domestic violence?In this episode Carline Ntamsen shares her experience and how she is educating and empowering survivors.Visit dunamishh.org call: +1 587-429-3448 or email [email protected] to support her organization or get support for survivors.

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Robert Emmons defines spiritual intelligence “as the adaptive use of spiritual information to facilitate everyday problem solving and goal attainment.” Cindy Wigglesworth, one of the pioneers in the area of spiritual Intelligence defines it as, “the ability to behave with wisdom and compassion, while maintaining inner and outer peace regardless of the situation.”Traumatic events affects a person's perception thereby making it challenging to behave with wisdom and compassion.Also, "inner and outer peace regardless of a situation" sounds like a mirage to a trauma warrior.Looking at this definitions, how can a warrior apply spiritual information in problem solving, goal attainment and to recover from abusive and overwhelmingly distressing situations? ----more----Listen to today's episode of possibility realm podcast to find out. ----more----This is the first episode in the series "Spirit, Soul and Body in Trauma Recovery." Subscribe, send an email to [email protected] or comment below if you will like to get consistent updates on new uploads. Peace and love.

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Friends, acts of abuse are loudest in African communities but conversations about them are swept under the rug. NOT ANYMORE! To commemorate Domestic Violence Awareness Month Sia Moiwa of Instrument of God ministries put together a panel full of energy and ideas to discuss this taboo topic.This discussion stimulates change, gives you tools and helps you recognize the signs of abuse and how to get the help you need and recover from its impact. Today's episode of possibility realm podcast is a MUST LISTEN!After listening ask your questions, give your suggestions and feedback.Hear from you soon.

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Do you believe it is possible to recover from being codependent, having difficulties recognizing, processing and managing emotions, detaching yourself from your body? Do you believe someday you will have the ability to think through situations and their consequences before acting? Do you believe something or someone will someday sustain your attention, curiosity or commitment? Do you believe it is possible to develop new cognitive skills?Your response to these questions will determine if you have a fixed or flexible mindset or if you believe your personality is fixed or transformable. In this episode of Possibility Realm Podcast we dive deep into this topic of interest.

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There comes a time when you have to go beyond what has happened to what you want to see happen. Many of us want to see things happen but we are too busy stuck in the narrative and chains of abuse, disappointment, heartbreak, business failures, fired from a job, loss, long-term sickness. We know exactly what we want out of life but we have so many excuses to justify why it can’t happen.My friend every single excuse you have is valid, very valid! I am not going to deny that fact but will it not take you to the place you want to be in health, finances, relationships or purpose?In this Episode, you will learn how to move from where you are to where you want to be.

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Abuse is largely a silent epidemic. It results in psychological and emotional difficulties people do not see externally but one of the most devastating difficulties is to talk about what happened.However, many survivors are prisoners of their own soul and remaining silent means remaining in the trauma.Should an abuse survivor disclose? When should it be done and to whom?This episode answers these questions as a guide to abuse survivors and their loved ones.

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When someone you love or support has experienced a tragic event and is living with trauma, you may feel sad and frustrated but what I hear most is, "I don't know what to say."Victims/survivors have different responses, however, what you say could hurt or heal. For most people with lived trauma experience your silence is taken as compliance. It is an indication that you don't care or you are on the side of the abuser.  Since your words count so much; what will you sayHave your words been hurting your friends, family members or someone who looks up to you for support?In this episode you will learn some words you could say to help a trauma victim/survivor as well as words to avoid.  These are just guidelines. Let the person's need, their place in a recovery journey and your relationship determine what you say. These suggestions are a good place to start. It will help you know how to frame your words and why it is important to be intentional with them.

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Recently a member of possibility realm community reached of to me with the question "what does it mean to be traumatized?"Thank you for sending your question, I really love it and it inspires me to do more research. Please keep sending your questions.In this episode, you will learn about:What it means to be traumatized.Causes of trauma?The effects of traumatic events.The importance of appropriate use of language.And so much more that you really need to hear.

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