Precious Predicaments

As we are now in 2019, many believers appear to still struggle with understanding how to live like christ? As indicated in the bible according to apostle Paul writing to the church as he encouraged them, "with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self and put on the new self, created to be like God in true rightousness and holiness."

So how do one actually do that? How do one build a healthier life? How can one stop repeating negative patterns in their life and focus on living out the positive patterns? How can one speak the truth into their pain so that one can live in peace? How can one take off the old self and put on the new self?

Join Pastor Daniel Estell, the callers and I as we discuss this topic. Live 1/8/19 at 11:30am Pacific. To join in on the conversation or ask questions call 516 387-1914.

When it comes to letting go of things or people such can be a challenge for many. 2018 is over and as we enter into the first month of 2019 many have made promises to change, prosper and grow in many areas of their life. Be it personal or relational letting go means being willing to allow life to carry one into a new place or developing a new attitude. As a child I use to hear my elders say perhaps trimming the fat. 

To let it go. The it can be anything. However it must be identified and acknowledged. If not it will turn into pain, hurt and resentment. Many have declared that they have let go and let God yet continue to struggle with forgiving themself or the one that they feel mayhave hurt them. 

Join me and the callers as we discuss tips on how to let go, understanding the process and the importance of forgiveness. Life is precious and time is short. Wasting time depletes one's energy. 2019 should bring about change so let's let somethings go.

Live 1/7/19 at 12pm. Call 516 387-1914 to join in on the conversation.

Storms very in the lives of individuals. Many are going through, been through or will go through. But in the mist of your storm do you or will you still worship and praise God? There are times when many want to give in and perhaps give up. But what many Believers and Non Believers may not be aware of is that is when we need God most. The enemy's goal is for one to withdraw from his presence. One then may start to believe the lie that God has forsaken them. Problem is when storms hit one's life show up in the presence of God. Let the enemy know that you will run and get even closer to God.

I had a person tell me today, I pray. I cry out to God and he does not answer my prayer. This did not surprise me as I have heard such before. In my response I explored the person's faith in a non- judgemental way. Think about the story of Noah In Genesis 6-9:17. Storms will come and go. Yet ones faith, trust in God, praise and worship will  get them through. With all that is going on don't lose your joy. If you are struggling, drowning or losing hope let's talk about it. 

Praise and worship leaders can only do so much.Join Pastor Daniel Estell and I as he provide biblical teachings and principles as it relates to the Word Of God. Such will encourage, make you laugh, think, smile and challenge your faith or strengthen your faith as you praise and worship God during your storm. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914 live 12/18/18 at 11:30am Pacific.

Being a parent is not an easy task. As one give birth a book with instructions were not attached with the child. So as the child age many challenges can occur. One must take into account their parenting style, cultural and religious belief, past trauma or upbringing, current living, relational situation with the other parent, and the emotion and development of the child. Let's not forget about those that are raising a child that they did not give birth to yet are raising or providing care for. Taking that into consideration the transition into a teenager and young adulthood can create a nightmare for both the parent and teen or young adult. 

With the way our society is going, the different types of things that our teens and young adults are exposed to adapting to the personality changes of another can strengthen or break the parenting bond that one may have had previously. This can also create issues with respect, communication, entitlement issues, not to mention teaching your teen or young adult to be a responsible productive member of society. Let's talk about it. Many parents are missing the warning signs. One should not parent out of guilt. When one know better they can do better.

Join my special guest,callers and I as we discuss this topic as we provide information and resources. Live 12/17/18 at 12pm. Call 516 387-1914 to join in on the conversation.

While celebrating the Christmas Holidays and the birth of Christ, one of the most popular versus has been , " Let You Light Shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven." As a believer do you understand the true meaning of that verse, " Matthew 5:16?"  If you have question, join Pastor Daniel Estell as he provides Biblical teachings regarding God's word. If you have any question as it relates to this topic call 516 387-1914. Are you living your purpose? Is God your light? Can darkness and light coexist?  Live 12/11/18 at 11:30am. L

Is love really enough to make a marriage work? As a licensed marriage and family therapist I have come to believe that one's interprepation of love varies. And in some cases love may not have anything to do with it. So before one decides to marry an individual, what should one do? With the high number of divorces not to mention the high number of individuals that are involved in unhealthy or relationships where there may be issues with domestic violence or other areas of concern we must do something different. I now believe that one should seek assistance before they make a decision to even date. This could save individuals a lot of time, money and heart ache. But is that really realistic. So before one make that decision try premarital counseling. 

Marriage is special to God and should be to us. Premarital counseling helps individual improve their ability to communicate, set realistic expectations for the marriage and develop conflict resolution skills. It can also assist couples establish a positive attitude about seeking help throughout their relationship. 

One may have many questions as it relates to premarital counseling. Others are still going to do what they want despite the red flags or what others may advise including a professional. I have been married enough times to disucuss the importance of premarital counseling. We have free will. And marriage is honorable. Again, I believe we should explore such counseling while dating just to make sure one is compatible and should even be considering marriage. So let's talk about it. Join Minister Kesia Carter andI as we discuss this topic. A dumb question is a question not asked. Don't wait too late to find out about your mate.

Live 12/10/18  at 12:00pm. Call 516 387-1914 to join in on the conversation. Or email [email protected] or [email protected] if you have any questions, comments or concerns.

The Christmas Holiday is approaching. Many individuals will be celebrating December 25thin a number of ways. As child many as taught that Christmas was about fun, food and getting toys. And let's not forget about Santa Clause. As one age it became more about giving and shopping. 

For Believers, Christmas became about the birth of Christ. However many have been mislead. So let's talk about it with Pastor Daniel Estell live at 11:30am. Call 516 387-1914 to join in on the conversation.

The longer you live the more life experiences you will endure. However what is most interesting  about those experiences is our perception and attitude as it relates to the event.  The event per say can be a past failure, heartbreak, or trauma just to name a few.

Baggage is the history one carry with us, such as negative messages one receive from our parents, romantic partners or friends, or past bad habits. If your baggage is causing a problems in your life or relationship with others it may be time to address the issue. And on a positive note emotional baggage can also help us grow. H

If you have been told or is aware that your baggage is becoming detrimental    let's talk about it live 12/3/18 at 12pm Pacific. All callers are welcome 516 387-1914

The church, suicide, and mental health is a very necessary conversation. When it comes to mental health it can impact nearly every moment of ones life. It also has an impact on others including the church. For some individuals, life struggles whatever it may be is manageable and one may be able to function. For others such may take their own life. 

Suicide is no joke. There was a study conducted and such indicated that 76% of churchgoers agreed that suicide was a problem that needs to be proactively addressed in their local communities and 84% agreed that churches have a responsibility to provide resources and support to individuals with mental health and their families. 

What are your views? Do you know the warning signs of suicide? How can the church meet ones needs? Join Pastor Daniel Estell and I as we discuss this topic 11/27/18 live at 11:30am. Call 516 387-1914 to join in on the conversation

Mental Health symptoms are real and can affect individuals differently. As one may struggle sometimes the holidays can create more emotional challengages. As the stress, anxiety, and depression builds it can ruin one's holiday. Not to mention create an uncomfortable environment for others including younger family members. Many that have a history of depression or anxiety may expect to experience difficulties during the holidays. However, itis also known that one may not have a previous history of depression or anxiety to experience holiday blues.

The holiday season often brings welcome and unwelcome guest. Many have lost family members or friends which brings up old memories. Some may be experiencing financial issues. And let's not forget the weather and all of life events that are currently taking place. 

If you struggle with stress, depression or anxiety and want to know more about avoiding or getting through the holidays listen, join in on the conversation or share with another. Call 516 387-1914 to join in on the conversation. You can also listen later at any time.