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In this episode, Matthew shares about how the frustration and time cost it can be to learn everything that we are not good at.

Many times solopreneurs believe that they are saving money, doing it for free, they are learning a valuable skill or nobody can do it as good as you. This is your biggest expense.

Stick to your one thing. Your magic is where your value is at, not in how good of a website creator you are, or how good you've become at shooting photos of yourself; leave that to the expert technicians.

Start selling your very best first for high dollar value and bring in much more money than your low value products and services. Hire people to do everything you are NOT good at and become the content King or the content Queen and Direct and Produce your projects rather than be the jack of all trades learning everything yourself.

By the time you learn everything, your competition has beat you, technology has moved on and the equipment that you bought is already out of date.

Become the best at your one thing and suck at everything else; it's okay.

Stop what you suck at and watch your time and money free up. You'll have the energy, time and focus to really grow your business.

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If you find yourself stuck in a situation that you have been in for quite some time and you want help getting out of it, BUT you don't have the money you have a solution.

You have hundreds of solutions as a matter of FACE.

You have the best and brightest minds, people at the top of their game accessible to you for cheap or free.

I've invested about $160,000 in coaches, mentors, advisors and seminars and I'll tell you that you can get SIMILAR results for free IF you are the man or woman who is ready and serious about change.

Listen in to find out how.

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After 20 years of marriage and two children, I am divorced.

Yes, there was pain, but there is also healing.

So much time of being afraid of what people would say. So much time we play dark scenarios over and over in our head feeling like our life after divorce for us and everyone involved will be hell.

You can also design a different scenario. With the help of my former wife, we consciously chose what kind of future, what kind of relationship we wanted after divorce. We realized that, “we don’t have to do divorce like anyone else.”

This episode, I get raw and real and I ask you about the state of your relationship with your significant other.

I am not a therapist, I just have my experiences and my opinions from those experiences.

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How many times have you beat yourself up because you didn't accomplish all you wanted to? Well, you would be surprised to know that you are just as productive as anyone else. You have the same amount of time as everyone else, you just choose to invest that time into different things; that's all.

If you were to list all of the things that you want to accomplish tomorrow and begin to work on them the next morning, you may not be surprised to know that they take longer than you initially thought. That's okay.

Next time you create your list, include all of the things that you DO invest in. If you take a nap for 30 minutes, write it down and check it off! Mental and physical health investment accomplished. Your kids need to be picked up from school because they're sick, you just invested in your kids and connecting and caring for them. Boom! Next. You get a call from a team member requesting that you give them feedback on a graphic. You don't like it as it is, so you adjust it and send it on. Write it down and check it off! Boom, another project moving forward.

You're doing a lot. You're even productive in watching TV by investing in your leisure time. Is that something you want to invest in? Well, you're doing it, so the answer is, yes. Write it down and check it off.

After a few weeks of this you will begin to realize the amount of things you are doing and you can then begin to determine if you want to continue as you are or if you would like to invest your time differently.

If you have questions you would like to have answered, email me at [email protected] and share your question, I may mention it in an upcoming episode.

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If you want to win GIVE. Make your life about investing in what you want more of. There is no gaming of the system, it's synthetic, fake and is not sustainable. Everyone I've ever met who has been about getting rich first, ends up a loser.

The TRUTH is that you need to create more value than you consume, the difference becomes your wealth. Don't trust those who tell you it is easy. Easy money doesn't last. It will leave you as soon as it came.

Think of others, give 10-100x more than you expect to receive then ASK FOR THE SALE. Make 10 deposits of value into the market/world before you ask and it will be given to you.

This is how it works. It is magic only when you have done the work.

When you receive without giving, even more will be taken from you. Just like Caffeine instead of sleep, you'll crash

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If your business card or web presence states what you do as "coach" throw it out or delete is immediately. You just put yourself in a pigeonhole.

A million people out there attempting to cash in on the coaching world. When we hear someone is a coach, they are focusing on the method not the result.

Coaching is a method of delivering your result. What if you are a coach and a company is looking for a trainer for their sales team? Nope, you're not a trainer; your a coach.

"Wait, you wrote a book? I thought you were a coach?"

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You are building your legacy, your media, your messaging and your life out of other people's creativity, their thoughts, their teaching and within their boundaries.

Get out more, expand your territory, expand your mind, turn the media off, challenge your ideology and begin to broaden your possibilities by taking on your current beliefs.

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You may need to wait; perhaps you are not prepared for what is on the other side.

Success comes through persistence through resistance. Not every day doing your thing you came here to do will be in flow, in 100% harmony with every living creature and certainly not easy.

Your success will only grow to the level of resistance you push through. Not every door that you are to open will already be open.

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In your relationships, partnerships, joint ventures and volunteer efforts don't forget to DTR. When you don't there will be confusion, frustration, hard feelings and maybe even hostility.

We must Define The Relationship so that each of us knows our role, our expectations, our objectives and duration or timeline so we are all on the same page.

Ambiguity in relationships adds stress and awkwardness. Take the time now to define so you can move into building Brilliant Futures together.

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It is RARE to find someone who will be a guardian of your preeminence. We must be on guard to protect the quality of our brand, our customer service, the results we offer, our marketing and our message. We will be measured not by how high we have reached, but our ongoing standards of excellence.

Guard your preeminence.

I take it upon myself to act as a guardian of my client's brand, marketing, message and offers. Many times in our growth we do what is fast and cheap when that very thing could be what lowers our perception of value in the eyes of our prospects and peers.

Stand guard at the doorway of your preeminence. Don't let anything LEAVE that door without your stamp of approval!

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