Small Steps, Big Impact: Your Guide to Navigating New Territories and Growing Your Business

I know I'm not alone in my fear of the unknown. Recently I was on the phone with my mom and was telling her how exhausted I felt. I wasn't tired from lack of sleep. I was 'soul-tired'. Real Talk: I'm in this season of continuously taking myself out of my comfort zone, and doing new things. This episode is just a quick behind-the-scenes conversation with what God is teaching me as I lean into God and stop allowing excuses to hold me back. I am doubling down on vulnerability and leaning into the messy process of growth. And, I'm taking you along with me!

In this episode, I talk about:

Staying true to yourself in the pursuit of your goals.

Overcoming personal insecurities and developing your faith

Walking in unwavering courage to confront obstacles with humility.

Mastering the skill of venturing beyond your comfort zone and seeking support.

Believing in the vision and keeping your head focused on Jesus as you walk things out.

Keep your eyes on Jesus. Not the waves, not the wind, not the people that are behind you or watching you, but your eyes straight on Jesus because he's directing your steps. - Melissa Batt Coaching

Authenticity in Weaknesses

Speaking at Church

Melissa Batt spoke at a church prayer meeting and shared about encountering trouble. She gave examples including conflict, anxiety, depression, and other hardships. Believe it or not, this is actually an invitation to spend more time with God through prayer. She challenged the audience to remember that no matter if it is big or small, God is there & cares. Use the hard times to fan the flame for Jesus and be reminded that the obstacles we face are often distractions from the enemy. He would prefer nothing more than for the trouble we face to derail us from our purpose & growing our relationship with God.  If you would be interested in learning more about having Melissa Batt speak, reach out to the email address below. 

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Have you heard these myths about attending church?

Truth: You don't have to be perfect to attend church, in fact, the church is a place for imperfect people to come together and grow in their faith.

A church should allow you to connect with others and you should actually enjoy it. Okay, okay... {Maybe you won't enjoy it immediately but you shouldn't hate it either.} 

And, although you can worship God on your own, attending church allows you to be a part of something bigger than yourself and strengthens your relationship with God.

Note: After recording this episode, I stumbled upon a quote that spoke strongly to me. 

I can't remember the pastor's name but what he was saying was as Christians we are all a part of the body of Christ. If you are a believer, I'm assuming you know we are to be the hands and feet of Jesus. 1st Corinthians Ch 12:12-31 shares about different body parts and how all are essential for the work God is doing. 

So what happens when a hand is cut off and no longer has blood flow? It dies. While some of us have left the church for a season and haven't yet lost our faith, I now believe God's word says it is crucial for us to be connected to a body of believers to sustain the hard days and the attacks of the enemy. WE NEED each other! If you are currently not attending a local church, I believe it is only a matter of time before you grow stagnant and get distracted by the world's noise. Let this message be a wake-up call! 

In this episode, I know you will be inspired to take a step of faith in obedience to do whatever it is God is asking of you. Nicky's testimony of how God was gracious & loving every step of the way is a reminder for us today. He knows. He is a good, good father. 

Other topics and thoughts mentioned in this episode:

Overcoming personal struggles and healing from trauma caused by the church

When you feel like an outcast because of things out of your control

Having a child with special needs inside the church and feeling unsupported

Divorce inside the church and why treating someone differently because of it isn't the answer.

Be intentional about going back to church, even if it's scary and intimidating, and remember that the church is made up of broken people who may not always know how to respond in difficult situations.

Acknowledge the elephants in the room and don't avoid what's uncomfortable.

Take time to reflect on what God may be calling you to do and trust in His plan.

Nicky Asher-Bowling is a resilient and inspiring coaching client of mine who has overcome numerous challenges in her life. As a devoted Christian, Nicky faced the heart-wrenching decision to leave her lifelong church after experiencing judgment and disappointment in her time of need. Despite these setbacks, Nicky maintained her faith and yearned for spiritual growth. With immense courage, she took the leap of faith and returned to church, embracing God's calling for her life. Nicky's journey demonstrates the importance of obedience and trust in God, even in the face of fear.

Overcoming the Fear of Going Back to Church

The Importance of a Welcoming Church

Other episodes related to this topic: 

Episode 25: Is God calling you to go back to church?

Episode 26: Questions to ask: Finding a local church that's the right fit for you

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Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT. 

Do you want to increase your party bookings and sales in your direct sales business? Are you tired of chasing people and bugging the same people all the time for an order? Do you want to get back in the game with your business and actually start making money again?

I can help you turn your direct sales business into a thriving success. By implementing proven techniques and strategies, you can achieve the ultimate goal: a steady stream of party bookings and a bigger paycheck. With my help, you can transform your business and reach the result you've been dreaming of – a profitable and rewarding direct sales career. It's time to take action and start seeing the kind of success that doesn't leave you feeling burnt out and overwhelmed to sustain. 

Listen in for my real talk about treating your social selling gig like a real business. Lots of people get into direct sales because they like the idea of earning money from home, but they fail to put in the time, systems, and effort required to build a successful & sustainable business. It should be noted that the sales consultant asking the question is a rockstar who has sold thousands per month in the past and built a small team. But, at the time we were talking, she was barely staying active. Don't discount or dismiss this episode based on the numbers I'm sharing with her personally. You can use these tips to hit any sales goal you have!

In this episode, you will be able to:

Take steps to strengthen the foundation of your business.

Learn more about the goal-setting process to have a great experience in your network marketing journey.

Hear more about using mega parties as a secret weapon to get in front of more people in less time. 

Think about and take action to set yourself apart from others in your industry. 

The Importance of Presentation

Setting Income Goals

Mega Parties

The Mega Party process for those who love the cliff note version:

Figure out how much money you want to make and do the math to see how much you need to sell in order to make that amount.

Block off the weeks on your calendar when you want to have parties before you ever ask anyone to party.

Make a list of all the people you want to ask to have a party.

Join the Success Lounge to receive the script to get started on the Mega Party and host three parties inside of one party.

Try to get at least two parties booked off of every single hostess.

Create a list of the perks for partying with YOU (not the company)

If you need help with wording, put your verbiage in the student community and ask for help with tweaking it.

Treat your business like a business.

Utilize the one-to-many strategy and focus on parties to get in front of a lot of people at one time.

Don't get caught up in creating party scripts or graphics to avoid the hard thing, which is rejection.

Create small baby steps to get you to your goal. Start with booking three parties every single month if you are currently less than 3.

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Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT. 

Finding Courage in Mental Health Struggles with Breakthrough Challenge member, Mary

After years of pushing down her emotions and putting herself last, Mary finally scheduled an appointment with a doctor and even followed through, despite her husband's recent hospitalization.

And, sadly, her vulnerability was met with rude remarks by the doctor and nurse, leaving her feeling dumb and ashamed. To make it worse, a nurse actually said the words "Pull up your big girl panties", which is not helpful to someone who is already struggling.

Now, Mary questioned whether her struggles were even valid.  

Quick tips and topics we talk about: 

• Validate the courage needed to ask for help with mental health challenges.


• Ways that therapy can target and alleviate the roots of anxiety and trauma.


• Consider the critical nature of selecting a therapist with whom you can develop trust and rapport.


• Welcome the benefits of letting go of fear and leaning on faith for support and direction.


• Uncover the process of addressing and healing from the shame associated with trauma.


• Recognize that seeking help IS pulling up your big girl panties.

• Flip the script on negative self-talk and recognize your worth and value.

• Take medication if needed and recognize the importance of medicine in managing mental health.


• Journaling through emotions and asking for prayer support when feeling weak.


• Prioritize self-care utilizing a battle plan, and intentionally live a fulfilled life.


Healing Requires Confrontation


The road to healing often requires confronting and facing the source of our trauma or emotional distress. By avoiding these issues, we risk prolonging our pain and allowing it to dominate our lives. Confronting our past and its impact on our present can be an uncomfortable and challenging process, but it is necessary for growth and healing to occur. Melissa Batt gently guides Mary in the conversation to understand that, although the process is difficult, breaking apart can eventually lead to healing and freedom. Melissa encourages Mary to create a battle plan and seek protection during tough times by turning to prayer partners when needed. This deliberate confrontation of her traumatic experiences will allow Mary to start healing and find freedom in her life.

You are worthy of attention


Suppressing your emotions and struggles for fear of seeming needy or attention-seeking ultimately hinders your ability to heal fully. It's crucial to realize that your experiences, emotions, and the path to healing all deserve attention and care. During the podcast, Melissa Batt reminds Mary of her worthiness of attention and advises her to flip the script on her negative thoughts. By embracing her value and acknowledging her emotions, Mary can move forward in her healing journey with confidence and self-assurance.  

Want more tips to help you move forward and get healing?   

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If you or someone you know is struggling and you feel like you need someone to talk with you can also reach out to the National Mental Health Hotline NOW. It's free and confidential. They offer 24/7 assistance and will provide support with compassion. Call 866-903-3787 and someone will be on standby to talk with you. 

From copy and paste to authenticity and value - Find your loyal tribe or as we call it around here-LOYAL LIFERS!  But how do you do it? Listen in to find out! 

In this episode, you will be able to:

Understand the role authenticity (and allowing yourself to be REAL) plays in direct sales, social selling, and network marketing businesses like Mary Kay, Scentsy, Park Lane, Norwex, Plexus, Thirty-One Gifts, Seint, etc... 

Start creating content to set yourself apart and provide MASSIVE value to attract your people and build the like, know, and trust factor.  

Know your pillars and who you want to attract to speak directly to them in your communication.

Learn to embrace your unique strengths to set yourself apart from competitors.

Ask for feedback to grow and polish your areas of knowledge & expertise because it's probably so obvious you won't see it. 

To give value, you have to show up authentically. Stop hiding behind your products or the company you represent. - Melissa Batt

Other tips: 

Stop teaching copy-and-paste methods in direct selling and network marketing.

Focus on creating value instead of noise.

Show up authentically and stop hiding behind your products or company.

Niche down and speak to one person.

Let your freak flag shine and share your quirks, stories, struggles, and obstacles.

Acknowledge all the things that set you apart and become super clear on who you are.

Share your personal stories to connect with your audience.

Define your LOYAL LIFER aka Ride or Die and determine who she is.

Help Others Navigate Their Obstacles

Acknowledge What Sets You Apart

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Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT. 

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, I share more from the Girlboss Basic Bootcamp in hopes it will help you prepare for resistance. For 3 years I've been challenging my coaching clients to slow down and pay attention. Are you ready to circle the wagon and start being proactive in your life? Tune in to find out.

Spoiler Alert: While life is hard and the enemy will come to attack you as you live out your calling, you DO have control over some areas of your life. 

Key takeaways in this episode:

Look for the gaps and cracks in your life and create a plan to fix them. Areas mentioned include your health, relationships, marriage, finances, and your home.

Declutter and organize your home to remove chaos and create peace. If you struggle with anxiety, ADHD, or depression, this will be extremely helpful for you. 

Take time to review your budget paying attention to what comes in and what goes out to improve your financial situation. 

Spend intentional time in your closest relationships to make sure you remain connected.

Stop putting off taking care of yourself. Prioritize your health. Schedule the doctor's appt you have been putting off. Go to the dentist. Move your body.

Consider adding an additional stream of income to live out your calling or if you are already a direct seller, utilize your business as a vehicle to help you do so. 

Join a book club or find other ways to slow down and reset to avoid being too busy to take care of yourself and your priorities. Check your rhythms. 

Circle the Wagon

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Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT. 

Are you holding yourself back from your true potential? So many of us fall prey to these misconceptions and most of us do it without even realizing it.  

Misconception #1 - You have to be perfect to succeed.

Misconception #2 - Someone else can do it better than you. 

Misconception #3 - Success means never feeling self-doubt.

But the truth is, you don't have to be perfect, there is room for you even when others are also doing it, and self-doubt is 100% normal. As a Christian Life & Business Coach for women & direct sellers, I'm here to share with you the real truth - and help you silence your inner mean girl once and for all.

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Silence your inner critic and transform your mindset by reversing negative thoughts aka FLIP THE SCRIPT.

Own your quirks and insecurities as tools to connect you to others and remain relatable

Trust God to use all of you- the good, the bad, the ugly!

Your purpose and plan has the power to impact more than just yourself. It isn't about you. -Melissa Batt

Other Tips:

Consider hiring a coach for personalized and focused accountability to help you reach your goals.

Cut out Bible verses related to your insecurities and post them in visible places as reminders of God's love and purpose for you.

Call out your insecurities and address them if you feel shame around them. The enemy can't use what you bring into the light. 

Speak out about the things that the devil wants to keep you silent in and acknowledge the elephants.

Join the Success Lounge for access to masterclasses and community support.

Follow Melissa Batt Coaching on Instagram for daily inspiration and tips.

Giving Yourself Permission to Be You

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Last chance to join the Breakthrough Challenge:

Want to start using your voice and allow yourself to be seen? Build a Nonprofit? Or maybe just grow your confidence? Whether you have business, faith, or life goals, it can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, networking to get outside of your circle, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 3 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I'm confident I can help you, too! 

Does anyone else move a lot like me? One of the hardest parts of moving is finding all the favorites in the new area. We have to research and make so many decisions like where to send our kids to school, the best neighborhoods, who to use for a pediatrician, a dentist, our own primary care physician, etc... And, then of course, for those of us who consider ourselves Christians... We need to find a new church. While this isn't easy, it is doable. And, with as much as we have moved, I now consider myself a professional church researcher and love to help my friends and coaching clients narrow down their choices to not allow decision fatigue and analysis paralysis to keep them from jumping back in and getting back to church.

In this episode, you will learn a lot of tips and tricks like:

• Deciding on your non-negotiables when it comes to finding a church to fit your family
  

Asking friends, family, or colleagues for church recommendations and inquiring about their experiences.

Visiting church websites to gather information on their beliefs, programs, and staff.

Watching live streams or recorded services to get a sense of the worship style, music, and preaching.

Reviewing church social media accounts to gain insight into the church community, pastor, and children's program leaders. {I know I'm not the only one who stalks Facebook accounts, right?}

Reaching out to friends who follow or like the church's social media pages to ask about their experiences and opinions.

Attending a service at the TOP 3 churches and being open to trying different churches until finding the right fit.

Engaging with church members and staff during your visit, asking questions, and expressing your interest in learning more.

Getting involved in church events, small groups, or volunteer opportunities to further immerse yourself in the church community and make connections.

And, last but not least...  Feel free to reach out. I'd love to help you find a church that meets your needs. 

Bonus Tip

Importance of Outreach and Serving

Join the Breakthrough Challenge:

Want to start serving in a specific ministry? Find a church to call home? Spend time in God's word and actually understand what you are reading? Build a Nonprofit? Whether you have business, faith, or life goals, it can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, networking to get outside of your circle, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 3 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I'm confident I can help you, too! 

In the last two years, I have had conversations with several women who feel called to either begin attending or go back to church. In today's podcast, I'm acknowledging all the elephants and sharing some of my own personal experiences about feeling as if attending church was pointless. I know it sounds harsh, but it appeared that most church attendees were going through the motions. I wanted no part of it until my friend convinced me to try it one more time. Because of Natasha, I gave attending a local church one more chance and I'm super grateful for her push.

God wants more for you and that is what this podcast is all about!

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Acknowledge personal fears, rejections, and past hurts that could have you self-protecting and avoiding

Recognize your need for local believers to pray and connect with

Stop living offended and instead use it as an opportunity for intentional conversations

Recognize when avoidance to what is uncomfortable gets in your way of spiritual growth

Trust in God's guidance and provision, remembering my favorite bible verse; Matthew 6:8: Your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.

Be courageous and take steps to go back to church, even if it's terrifying.

Reflect on any past church hurt, remembering that people hurt you, not God, and that it's important not to put the church on a pedestal. The church is full of broken people who are in need of a Savior and help.

Research churches in your area, considering factors such as location, denomination, and community involvement and pick three to try out.

Attend a church service or event, keeping an open mind and heart.

Get involved in a church community by joining a small group, ministry, or volunteering in an outreach program.

Consider reading the book Triggers: How We Can Stop Reacting and Start Healing by David Richo

Reflect on any past experiences of rejection or abandonment and how they may be influencing your feelings about attending church

Remember that God is calling you back to the church not only for your own growth but also to be a part of a community of believers and serve others.

Re: Recognizing Triggers

God is calling you to get involved.

Delayed obedience is disobedience. Not only do you need the church, but the church also needs you. - Melissa Batt

Reminder:

The next Breakthrough Challenge will be starting soon.  Want to start serving in a specific ministry? Find a church to call home? Spend more time in God's word and actually understand what you are reading? Build a Nonprofit? Whether you have business, faith, or life goals, it can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, networking to get outside of your circle, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 3 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I'm confident I can help you, too! Sign up for the free workshop that I'm hosting this week to learn more! 

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, host Melissa Batt helps overwhelmed direct sellers and new life coaches understand the often-overlooked importance of presenting themselves professionally in order to grow their income, audience, and influence without sacrificing their mental health.

Top Takeaways: 

• Maximize your opportunities by showing up in person and online as your best self. 

Elevate your professional appearance if possible and clarify your message to attract clients more effectively.

Magnify your presence for better audience engagement and deeper connections.

Connect with your loyal lifers and become super clear in your message and purpose. 

Focus on value-driven connections and coaching without allowing your lack (scarcity) mindset to get in the way of your serving at your highest level.

Embrace patience, stay humble, and keep things simple. Don't fall for all the gimmicks. Shortcuts will not give you sustainability. 

Reflect on your online presence, including your appearance in photos and videos, to ensure you are presenting yourself professionally and confidently.

Focus on improving your social media captions to make them more engaging and informative, encouraging users to stop scrolling and pay attention to your content.

Show up consistently online and in person, striving to be presentable and confident in all interactions but also recognize where you are. Showing up matters most. 

Be intentional in your actions, recognizing that if you want people to pay you for your services, you must provide value and build trust.

Always give ten times the value of what you want people to pay for your services or products.

Avoid rushing the process of building your business and instead focus on steady growth and progress.

Be patient with yourself and your business growth, understanding that success often takes time and dedication.

Invest time and energy into developing a strong message and brand identity for your business.

Consider seeking feedback and guidance from a mentor or coach to help you improve and grow your business.

Remember your journey is unique, and comparing your progress to others can be unproductive and discouraging. Focus on your own growth and success.

The next Breakthrough Challenge will be starting soon. Get ready to make progress toward those God-sized dreams. Want to start a podcast? Build a nonprofit? Maybe you have been wanting to launch your own coaching business to help those who are going through similar things you have gone through. Your goals can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, building your audience, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 3 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I've helped them and I can confidently say I can help you, too! Sign up for the free workshop to learn more! 

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