Pro Se Divorce Podcast

Today is special. You will here an excerpt from an interview I did with four adult children of divorce. They have some simple advice for you that could change your lives and the lives of your children forever. Please listen and learn from the real experts of divorce, the Children themselves.

Tom Discusses the three times in a Divorce when a major personality change typically occurs and how it affects you.

**Learn how to create a realistic, conflict-free parenting plan by assessing your co-parenting style and crafting strategies to support your children’s well-being after divorce.**

In this episode, Tom Davis explores the diverse and often surprising outcomes of mediation, revealing how even unresolved issues can yield valuable insights and progress.

In this episode, we explore the ins and outs of Shuttle Mediation—a powerful approach for high-conflict divorce cases—showing how it allows for productive negotiation when direct communication isn’t possible. Learn when to use Shuttle Mediation, how it works, and what to expect to make the most of this unique process.

In Episode 11 of the Pro Se Divorce Podcast, titled "Pro Se Tips 9 of 10 - Preparation for Parenting Plans Part 2," Tom Davis delves deeper into the complexities of creating effective parenting plans during divorce mediation.

In this episode, Tom Davis emphasizes the importance of prioritizing children's emotional well-being and reducing conflict during divorce mediation, rather than focusing on material concerns like overnights and holidays.

In this episode of the Pro Se Divorce Podcast we explore the value of using Private Caucuses in divorce mediation. Private Caucuses offer a confidential space where each party can speak freely with the mediator, allowing for more open communication, problem-solving, and emotional venting. We also share a real-life story of how a couple resolved a conflict over introducing new relationships to their children, using Private Caucuses to navigate sensitive issues. Discover how this mediation tool can lead to breakthroughs, promote cooperation, and keep the focus on the best interests of your children.

In today’s episode, I’ll walk through how BATNA, WATNA, and the Zone of Possible Agreement (ZOPA) play critical roles in spousal maintenance negotiations and how these tools helped me close a seemingly impossible gap.

In this episode, we explore the critical role that asking the right questions plays in mediation.