Doug unpacks the dangers of screens and the impact of smart phones on child development. He shares a study that reveals the extent of smartphones’ damage on brains, responsibility and self-control.

Doug also gives tips for putting together a family mission statement on how phones and other screens should be used in the home.

 

Listener questions and comments:

• Gary - My wife did research in 2014 that the phones are bad for kids, so we don't let our kids use them. (13:13)
• Joe - Parents should go to school board meetings. It’s a great way have an impact on phone usage in schools. (16:12)
• Kurt - People can write to the government and work to get regulations in place on phones. (23:10)
• Kelly - What can a grandparent do? (24:38)
• Jude - My wife and I were talking about this. It’s good to be open about this issue with each other and be on the same page. (27:24)
• Sabrina - When the kids are old enough to go out there aren't any pay phones. What is the other option? (29:47)

 

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Marriage Unhindered

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Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle

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Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

 

Practical tips for parents

1. Set really clear boundaries.
2. Schedule and hour minimum without phones.
3. Schedule one day a week without screens.
4. Designate a room in the house for phones and screens.
5. Enjoy tech free meals.
6. Turn off screens at least one hour before bedtime.
7. No screens overnight in the bedroom.
8. Homework before phones and other screens.
9. Install parental controls on all devices.
10. Parents should model the behavior.