Ed closes this set of episodes by discussing funeral and final arrangements, a topic most people avoid, yet one that exposes deep psychological and family dysfunction. He explains how death often amplifies unresolved trauma, control issues, paranoia, and long-standing family conflict. This episode highlights why understanding how a partner handles death, inheritance, and end-of-life decisions can reveal critical red flags before committing to a long-term relationship.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Introduction & episode overview

01:00 – Why funerals expose dysfunction

03:00 – Control, paranoia, and unresolved trauma

05:30 – Financial and emotional conflicts after death

07:30 – Questions to ask about final arrangements

08:45 – Closing reflections

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In this episode, Ed explores how individuals respond to aging parents and family members with medical needs, and why this is one of the clearest indicators of psychological maturity, empathy, and responsibility. Ed explains how avoidance, resentment, or abandonment of vulnerable family members often signals unresolved trauma or personality disorders. He outlines key questions to help you understand how a potential partner handles caregiving, obligation, and long-term responsibility.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Disclaimer & introduction

01:00 – Why caregiving reveals true character

03:00 – Psychological avoidance vs. responsibility

05:00 – Family resentment and generational trauma

07:00 – Questions to ask about aging parents

09:30 – Long-term implications for relationships

👇 Links

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Ed discusses the importance of psychological education and self-assessment when dating or forming long-term relationships. He explains why understanding mental illness—both in yourself and others—is essential for healthy communication, boundaries, and decision-making. This episode challenges listeners to evaluate their own psychological awareness and outlines why a lack of education often leads to repeated patterns of trauma, chaos, and failed relationships.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Introduction & purpose of the episode

01:30 – Why psychological education is missing

03:30 – Self-assessment vs. denial

05:30 – How ignorance fuels repeated trauma

07:30 – Questions to ask yourself and your partner

09:15 – Closing thoughts

👇 Links

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In this episode of The Psychological Paradigm Shift, Ed Rieger examines child neglect—one of the most damaging and least discussed forms of abuse. Unlike physical or sexual abuse, neglect often goes unnoticed, yet its psychological impact can last a lifetime. Ed explains how neglect shapes emotional development, self-worth, and adult relationship behaviors. He outlines the critical questions you should ask a potential partner about their childhood environment to better understand the long-term effects of unmet emotional, physical, and psychological needs.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Disclaimer & introduction

01:00 – What child neglect really looks like

02:30 – How neglect impacts brain development

04:30 – Emotional abandonment vs. physical abuse

06:30 – Questions to ask about childhood neglect

08:30 – Long-term effects on adult relationships

09:45 – Closing reflections

👇 Links

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Ed examines how smoking, vaping, and tobacco use can be indicators of deeper psychological issues, including addiction patterns, trauma, and emotional coping mechanisms. He shares national data on tobacco-related deaths, personal experiences, and the motivations behind habitual use.

He then walks through key questions you should ask a potential partner to uncover their habits, health risks, and emotional triggers tied to nicotine and tobacco products.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Introduction & disclaimer

01:00 – Tobacco usage as psychological coping

02:00 – National statistics on smoking & vaping

03:30 – Ed’s personal experiences with tobacco users

05:00 – Questions to ask about addiction & nicotine dependency

07:30 – Final thoughts on long-term risks & compatibility

👇 Links

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In this episode, Ed Rieger discusses the importance of evaluating a romantic partner’s history with their exes. He explains how past relationships leave psychological footprints—both positive and negative—and what patterns may indicate unresolved trauma, chaos-seeking behavior, or emotional instability.

Ed outlines clear questions that help reveal patterns of blame, conflict, dishonesty, or unhealthy attachment so you can better assess long-term compatibility.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Introduction & purpose of the episode

00:50 – Why ex-relationship history matters

02:00 – Signs of unresolved psychological issues

04:00 – Questions about breakups, patterns & accountability

06:30 – Identifying chaos-seekers vs. healthy partners

08:40 – Closing reflections

👇 Links

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Ed addresses one of the most difficult and sensitive topics in the series: suicide attempts. He explains the psychological weight behind attempts, how they shape a person’s worldview, and why it’s crucial to ask compassionate but direct questions when entering a serious relationship.

Ed shares the red flags to be aware of, how to assess risk levels, and how to determine whether a potential partner has healed—or is still in danger.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Introduction & sensitive topic disclaimer

01:00 – Why suicide attempts must be discussed in dating

02:00 – Trauma, mental illness & emotional instability

04:00 – The long-term psychological effects

06:00 – Questions to ask about attempts, triggers & recovery

09:30 – Final thoughts on safety, support & boundaries

👇 Links

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In this episode of The Psychological Paradigm Shift, Ed Rieger explores how a person’s childhood school activities can reveal important psychological patterns in adulthood. From sports to clubs to classroom participation, Ed explains why early involvement—or the lack of it—can indicate trauma, neglect, or developmental challenges that may affect future romantic relationships.

He walks through the key questions you should ask a potential partner about their school experience to better understand their social skills, emotional health, and long-term stability.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Disclaimer & introduction

01:00 – Why school involvement predicts adult behavior

02:30 – Trauma, neglect, and missed childhood opportunities

04:00 – Social development & emotional patterns in the classroom

06:00 – Questions to ask a romantic partner about their school years

08:30 – Final thoughts on evaluating childhood context

👇 Links

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In this episode, Ed delves into the dynamics between mentally ill individuals and their children or grandchildren. He discusses generational disconnection, declining birth rates, and shifting cultural attitudes toward marriage and family.

Through thoughtful reflection and data, Ed encourages listeners to examine how childhood experiences shape adult relationships and future family planning.

00:00 – Introduction

01:00 – How mental illness impacts family dynamics

04:00 – Key questions about relationships with children and in-laws

07:00 – Generational changes in marriage and birth rates

08:40 – Final thoughts on breaking family cycles

Links:

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This hard-hitting episode focuses on domestic abuse and child maltreatment. Ed discusses alarming statistics about intimate partner violence and child abuse, emphasizing the need for awareness and preventive questioning in relationships.

He outlines critical questions designed to identify patterns of abusive behavior early, potentially saving lives and breaking cycles of trauma.

00:00 – Introduction & purpose of this topic

02:00 – National statistics on domestic and child abuse

04:00 – How unhealed trauma perpetuates abuse

07:00 – Critical questions to ask about violent behavior

10:00 – Understanding red flags and early detection

11:30 – Final thoughts on protection and prevention

Links:

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