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In this episode, Ed explains why relationship history is one of the most revealing factors in understanding a partner’s psychological health. From first dates to marriages, stepchildren to breakups, he shares the key questions to ask—and how to spot repeating patterns, commitment issues, and dangerous red flags before you make long-term decisions.
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Disclaimer & intro
01:00 – Why past relationships reveal future patterns
03:00 – Key dating and intimacy questions
05:00 – Engagements, marriages, and stepchildren
07:00 – The role of commitment in psychological health
09:00 – Ending thoughts & preview of job history episode
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Website: www.PsychologicalParadigmShift.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
Ed takes on the difficult topic of psychiatric treatment—therapy, hospitalization, and medication—and the often-hidden trauma that comes with them. He highlights the importance of asking partners about their treatment history, the stigma around disclosure, and how compassion and awareness can protect both you and your relationship.
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00:00 – Disclaimer & intro
00:45 – Why treatment itself can be traumatic
02:00 – Scope of psychiatric conditions in the U.S. and worldwide
04:30 – The massive cost of treatment & medication
06:00 – Questions to ask about psychiatric diagnoses, therapy, and hospitalization
08:00 – Compassion vs. protecting yourself
09:15 – Closing thoughts & preview of next episode
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Website: www.PsychologicalParadigmShift.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
In this episode of The Psychological Paradigm Shift, Ed Rieger dives into the realities of foster care and adoption and how these experiences impact romantic relationships. From childhood trauma to “aging out” of the system, Ed explains the tough questions you should ask your partner about their foster or adoption history—and why these conversations are critical for building trust and avoiding long-term complications.
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Disclaimer & intro
01:00 – Purpose of the Psychological Paradigm Shift movement
03:30 – Why journalists, politicians, and professionals must engage
05:00 – Foster care realities in the U.S.
06:30 – Questions to ask about foster/adoption history
08:30 – Trauma, aging out, and long-term effects
09:30 – Closing thoughts & preview of next episode
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Website: www.PsychologicalParadigmShift.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
Website: http://www.psychologicalparadigmshift.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
In this episode of the Psychological Paradigm Shift Podcast, host Ed Rieger dives into the complex and sensitive topic of mental illness and its relation to incarceration. Ed shares his personal experiences and observations on how psychological disorders and traumas can lead to criminal activity, touching on various statistics related to crime and imprisonment in the United States. He also discusses the implications of having a criminal background on one's personal relationships and the significance of understanding a partner's criminal history before making lifelong commitments. Ed addresses a series of questions that could help reveal the extent and nature of a person's criminal past, emphasizing the importance of transparency and honesty in such discussions. The episode aims to provide listeners with a deeper understanding of the cycle of crime and incarceration, especially among those with mental health issues.
00:00 Introduction and Previous Episode Recap
00:27 Tonight's Topic: Mental Illness and Crime
01:37 Personal Experiences with Crime
01:56 Statistics on Incarceration in the U.S.
04:13 Challenges of Dating Someone with a Criminal Past
06:51 Personal Arrest and Incarceration Story
08:52 Important Questions to Ask About Criminal History
14:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Website: http://www.psychologicalparadigmshift.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
In this episode of the Psychological Paradigm Shift, hosted by Ed Rieger, we dive into the severe psychological impact of child homelessness. Ed discusses how homelessness in childhood, often caused by parental abandonment, leads to lifelong trauma including PTSD, trust issues, and memory loss. He shares personal experiences and offers a series of probing questions to better understand the severity of this trauma. The episode aims to provide insight into the complex emotional and psychological wounds carried by survivors of child homelessness and offers advice for those in relationships with them. Ed concludes by inviting listeners to his website for updates and further engagement.
00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer
00:45 The Harsh Reality of Homelessness
02:14 Long-term Effects of Childhood Homelessness
03:46 Personal Experiences and Questions
06:54 Impact on Relationships and Family
10:37 Final Thoughts and Resources
Website: http://www.psychologicalparadigmshift.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
In this episode of Psychological Paradigm Shift, host Ed Rieger dives into the grim and sensitive subject of abuse and its long-lasting impact on mental health. He discusses the various forms of abuse, including physical, verbal, and sexual, and how they can alter the trajectory of a child's life. Ed poses critical questions about the nature of these traumas, their frequency, and the familial relationships involved. Highlighting the taboo nature of discussing abuse within families, Ed emphasizes the importance of education and transparency to break the cycle of abuse and mental illness. He also introduces the Psychological Education Act, a proposed law aimed at incorporating psychology education into the K-12 curriculum to prevent generational trauma. Join Ed as he navigates these challenging yet essential conversations to foster a collective healing process.
00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer
00:25 Tonight's Topic: Mental Illness and Abuse
01:24 The Impact of Childhood Abuse
03:23 Questions About Physical Abuse
04:31 Questions About Sexual Abuse
06:58 Family Dynamics and Abuse
11:50 The Need for Psychological Education
12:22 Conclusion and Next Steps
Website: http://www.psychologicalparadigmshift.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
In this episode of the Psychological Paradigm Shift podcast, I introduce the concept of using a series of comprehensive questions to assess the psychological health of potential romantic partners. I emphasizes the importance of understanding family history, as it can reveal significant red flags regarding mental illness and familial dynamics. I discuss the first category, family history, and presents various questions designed to uncover deep-seated issues and patterns within a family's background. I also explain how answering these questions can guide decisions in romantic relationships and encourages transparent communication. Tune in to learn how these tools can help you make informed decisions and recognize potential psychological issues early in a relationship.
00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer
00:48 Purpose of Dating Questions
01:28 Categories and Structure of Questions
02:16 Importance of Communication
02:40 Relevance of the Book
03:35 Fog Lifters vs. Chaos Chasers
04:41 Introduction to Family History Questions
06:18 Detailed Family History Questions
15:49 Conclusion and Next Steps
Life after 40 reveals the full ripple effect of untreated trauma. Ed examines blended families with chaos chasers, the dangers children may face, and why fog lifters over 40 can finally be relationship‑ready. He also shares a powerful memory that reframed his own abuse story.
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00:00 – Introduction & disclaimer
01:00 – Chapter 4: Over 40 & the ripple effect
02:00 – Blended families and chaos chasers
04:30 – Exposure risks through ex‑partners
06:00 – Fog lifters over 40: new hope
07:45 – Ed’s revelation about his abuse
09:00 – Final reflections & next‑episode teaser
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Website: www.PsychologicalParadigmShift.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
By age 30 most people have cemented patterns in relationships and self‑destructive habits. Ed contrasts chaos chasers—who stay trapped in trauma—and fog lifters—who fight to heal. He explains why dating during deep therapy is risky and shares reflections from his own journey through addiction, homelessness, and recovery.
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Introduction & disclaimer
01:00 – Chapter 3: “Prime Time” (30–40)
01:30 – Chaos chasers: addiction, abuse, isolation
03:40 – Fog lifters: therapy & paradigm shifts
05:30 – Relationship risks while healing
07:00 – Parenting, family trauma, long‑term healing
09:00 – Ed’s personal reflections
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Website: www.PsychologicalParadigmShift.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
Ed explores the transition from childhood into early adulthood, where unresolved trauma collides with newfound independence. Drawing on his own escape into the military at 17, he explains how to detect red flags in dating and why the “800 Questions” in his book matter most during this vulnerable stage.
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Introduction & disclaimer
01:00 – Chapter 2: “Shedding the Parental Skin”
02:15 – Trauma that lingers into adulthood
03:10 – Ed’s military escape from a toxic home
04:30 – Signs of untreated mental illness in dating
06:00 – Chaos chasers vs. fog lifters
07:10 – Preview of next episode
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Website: www.PsychologicalParadigmShift.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tenth_paradigmpublishing
Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/iY0FVBO
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