Put Yourself First

Put Yourself First

By Kat HorrocksEducationSelf-Improvement
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Put Yourself First episodes

  • 4 Lessons Running Taught Me About Leadership (And Why I’m Hooked)

    Apply for the LAST round of LULU Here

    In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of my recent obsession - running - and the surprising lessons it’s teaching me about leadership. If you’ve ever thought ā€œI’m just not that kind of personā€ or struggled with staying consistent in your habits, this episode will light a fire under you.

    We’re talking about:

    • Why discipline isn’t a dirty word - it’s actually the foundation of freedom.

    • How prioritisation is a game changer (and why ā€œI don’t have timeā€ is a lie).

    • The power of humility: why being bad at something is actually the best way to grow.

    • Identity shifts: how saying ā€œI’m not a runnerā€ was holding me back, and what this means for you as a leader.

    And, of course, I’m weaving in lessons from coaching hundreds of ambitious women in LULU, where we turn these lessons into lived, embodied skills.

    ✨ If you’re feeling burned out, disconnected from your spark, or stuck in a cycle of overworking, this episode will be a wake-up call.

    ⚔ Doors to the Light Up Level Up Collective (LULU) are open for the last time in 2025! This is your chance to experience personalised support in your leadership, career, and personal life - all in one powerful container.

    35 min
  • I wanted to love my life just as much as I love my job - Danielle’s LULU Healing Journey

    In today’s episode, I’m joined by LULU graduate Danielle - business development manager, SOS Dance queen, and all-around powerhouse - to talk about what it really looks like to prioritise your personal healing while still thriving at work.

    Danielle came into LULU feeling successful at work… but disconnected in her personal life. She was grieving, carrying so much behind the scenes, and craving deeper joy, balance and support.

    Six months later?She’s working less without compromising her role or results at a fast-growing startup.She’s reconnected with herself, her vision, her sensuality and her joy.And she’s built a personal life that finally feels as good as her job looks on paper.

    We talk about:
    šŸ’Œ What it’s like to thrive in a leadership role without burning out

    🧠 Why personal healing actually unlocked her best creative work

    🌹 How nervous system work & emotional safety allowed her to rise

    šŸ”„ The biggest shifts she experienced through weekly intentions, healing calls & sisterhood


    If you’re an employed woman, a leader, a team-builder, a space-holder…and you’ve been wondering if your work-life balance is as good as it could be - this conversation will speak straight to your soul.


    The Light Up Level Up Collectiveā„¢

    Kat’s high-touch group coaching space for female leaders and business owners ready to lead, love and live like Lit Up Womenā„¢

    🚨 Final round of 2025 begins JunešŸ“† Applications close Thursday 22nd MayšŸ–ļø Only 5 women will be invited in

    APPLY HERE >> https://www.khorrocks.com/LULU

    OR DM me on Instagram >> https://www.instagram.com/kat_horrocks/


    Other Links

    Connect with Danielle here > https://www.instagram.com/sosdanielle/

    Discover SOS Dance Global classes near you > https://backstage.sos.dance/queen-hub

    36 min
  • I Stopped Taking 6AM Clients and My Business Feels Amazing: Jenn’s Journey to Feminine Leadership

    Today I’m joined by the amazing Jenn - a personal trainer and movement mentor for women - to talk about what it really looks like to stop overworking, start leading from your body, and build a business that feels as good as it looks on paper.

    Jenn is a graduate of The Light Up Level Up Collectiveā„¢ and in this episode, she shares the mindset, nervous system and boundary shifts that helped her go from burnt-out and booked out… to calm, confident, and lit the f*ck up by her business again.

    We chat about:šŸ§˜šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø Why she stopped offering 6AM client sessions - and how that simple boundary changed everythingšŸ’Œ How she reclaimed time, energy and joy without losing income or momentumšŸ’­ The powerful identity shift from ā€œover-giving coachā€ to magnetic feminine leaderšŸ”„ The surprising ripple effects that showed up in her personal life and creativity too

    If you’ve ever thought ā€œI love what I do, but I don’t want to run myself into the ground doing itā€¦ā€This one is for you.


    The Light Up Level Up Collectiveā„¢ is open for the LAST time this year!Kat’s signature high-touch group coaching space for women ready to lead, love and live like Lit Up Women ✨🚨 Final round of 2025 begins in JunešŸ–ļø Only 5 spots availablešŸ“† Applications close Thursday 22nd May

    Apply here - https://www.khorrocks.com/LULU

    DM me on Instagram if you want to chat more - https://www.instagram.com/kat_horrocks/


    Connect with Jenn here - https://www.instagram.com/jennb.pt/

    33 min
  • Lead, Love and Live Like a LIT UP WOMAN!

    You don’t have to burn it all down to build a life you love.
    You just need to lead, love, and live like the lit up woman you already are.

    In today's episode, I'm walking you through:
    🌹 Who the Lit Up Woman is - and how she leads differently
    šŸ”„ Why so many high-achieving women stay stuck in Hustling Honey mode
    🌸 What changes when you embody magnetic feminine leadership
    ✨ 3 powerful reflections to start reconnecting with your true energy this week

    This episode is a call home to yourself - the woman underneath the proving, the pressure, and the constant hustle.


    And if you’re ready to fully embody her in your work, leadership, and love life, doors to The Light Up Level Up Collectiveā„¢ are officially open.

    We begin in June.
    Final round of 2025.
    Only 5 spaces available.

    šŸ’Œ Apply for LULU here

    DM me on IG if you wanna chat more - @kat_horrocks

    41 min
  • Magnetism Over Micro-Management: How Feminine Leadership Attracts Better Results

    If you’re feeling exhausted from holding it all, this episode is for you. Today I’m talking about the shift from micromanaging to magnetising - and how this change will transform how you lead in work, business and relationships.

    We’re talking real-life, practical examples for both female founders and corporate leaders: how to stop over-functioning, let go of control, and lead in a way that inspires better results from your clients and team - without burning yourself out.

    You’ll learn:

    ✨ The difference between lifeguard energy and lighthouse energy✨ Why your micromanagement isn’t a personal flaw, but a nervous system pattern✨ How to call people forward instead of fixing them✨ What happens when you set the tone, not just the tasks✨ How feminine leadership makes you the obvious choice for your next big opportunity

    This is magnetic feminine leadership in action.It’s time to work less, lead better, and feel alive again.


    šŸ’Œ Join the free training: Lead Like a Woman
    How to Work Less, Lead Better & Feel Alive AgainWe go live on Thursday 1st May and this is your final opportunity to join LULU in 2025.

    Sign up here - https://www.khorrocks.com/training


    Connect with Kat:
    Instagram → @kat_horrocks
    Free Training → Sign Up Here
    Explore LULU → Application Info

    20 min
  • Lead Like a Woman: How to Work Less, Lead Better & Feel Alive Again

    In today’s episode, I’m calling out the truth most high-achieving women need to hear:

    You’ve learned how to work like a man — and it’s burning you out. It’s time to lead like a woman.

    Whether you're in a senior leadership role or running a successful business, this episode will show you why over-functioning, over-giving and over-managing are keeping you stuck in survival mode — and how to break free.

    We’ll explore:

    ✨ What happens when women operate in masculine energy 24/7✨ Why burnout, resentment, and Sunday scaries are not a personality flaw✨ The ā€œtin manā€ metaphor — and why your hardened, productive armour isn’t your power✨ How to honour your cycle, energy and creativity without compromising your ambition✨ Why the new paradigm of feminine leadership is the future — and how YOU can lead it

    This episode is your permission slip to take the iron suit off.To feel more, not just do more.To reclaim your presence, pleasure, and power.


    šŸ’Œ Join the free training: Lead Like a Woman

    How to Work Less, Lead Better & Feel Alive Again

    We go live on Thursday 1st May and this is your final opportunity to join LULU in 2025.

    Sign up here - ⁠https://www.khorrocks.com/training⁠

    Connect with Kat:

    Instagram → ⁠@kat_horrocks

    ⁠Free Training → ⁠Sign Up Here⁠

    Apply for LULU → ⁠Application Info

    29 min
  • Inside Our Wedding Plans: Doing It Our Way šŸ’

    Get comfy, because today I’m spilling all the tea on our wedding planning journey so far - the juicy updates, unexpected wins, and why we’re doing it our way (aka no traditional ceremony, no cake cutting, and all the party vibes).

    Whether you're engaged, planning your own wedding, or just nosy like me, this behind-the-scenes episode is full of heart, humour, and real talk.

    From how we’re budgeting, what we’ve booked, and why I’m doing my own makeup - to navigating decisions with ease and joy, I’m sharing it all.

    In this episode, I chat about:

    šŸ’ Our low-key, city centre wedding plans (registry office + reception party vibes)
    šŸ“… What we’ve booked so far (and how we’ve saved time + money)
    šŸ’ø Budgeting honestly & investing in what actually matters to us
    šŸ’” Tips if you're planning your wedding - or want to be one day!


    This is the kind of candid, heart-led wedding content I wish I had when we first got engaged, and I hope it gives you a permission slip to do things your way too.


    šŸ•Šļø Planning your own wedding or just love hearing BTS life updates?
    DM me on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kat_horrocks/

    and let me know your biggest takeaway or what you’re curious to hear in Part Two later this year.

    36 min
  • The Truth About the Awareness Trap & Your Invite to the BRAND NEW Sisterhood!

    This week’s episode is a fiery truth bomb—served with love—as Kat breaks down the real reason so many high-achieving women stay stuck in patterns of self-sabotage, burnout, and inconsistency... even after years of therapy, coaching, courses and podcasts.

    If you've ever said:

    • "I know what I need to do... I'm just not doing it"

    • "I’ve already joined a gym / course / membership before and didn’t use it"

    • "I’ve learned so much, but nothing’s really changed"

    Then this is a MUST-LISTEN.

    We’re diving deep into the Awareness Trap—how it masquerades as growth, keeps women stuck in loops of procrastination, and actually stops you from creating real transformation.

    Kat shares why more insight isn’t the answer, why you're not broken (even if you feel like you ā€œshouldā€ be further along), and what it really takes to get out of the cycle for good.

    PLUS, she shares the story behind the brand-new, fully upgraded Sisterhood—now with:✨ A completely revamped core curriculum
    ✨ The Magnetic Feminine Playbookā„¢
    ✨ The Pleasure-Led Planningā„¢ framework
    ✨ 3x live coaching calls per month
    ✨ Full access to a Ā£5K coaching vault…
    …for less than Ā£1.50/day (no upsells, no fluff, no BS)


    šŸ”„ Inside this episode:

    • The lie we’ve all been sold about learning = progress

    • Why awareness without support can actually feel worse

    • How self-help can secretly feed your inner critic

    • The real reason you’re not following through on your goals

    • Why safe, structured support is more effective than throwing money at ā€œsolutionsā€

    • The truth about how masterminds & 1:1 containers compare to The Sisterhood—and why the Ā£44/month price tag doesn’t reflect the level of support inside


    If you’re ready to go from stuck in your head to actually taking soul-aligned action...
    If you’re craving support, softness, and structure without pressure or perfectionism...
    If you want to live your growth instead of just reading about it...

    The Sisterhood is calling you home.

    šŸ–¤ 14-Day Free Trial (cancel anytime)šŸŽ Includes 3x monthly coaching calls, the full course curriculum + access to Ā£5K of coaching toolsšŸŽ„ BTS tour included so you can look around first

    šŸ‘‰ Click here to join or preview the members area


    šŸ“² Have a question?

    DM Kat on Instagram @kat_horrocks and she’ll voice note you back with a personalised answer about whether the Sisterhood is a fit for you.

    34 min
  • From Burnt Out Bitch to Central Park Proposal: How feminine energy transformed my relationship

    In today’s personal episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of one of the most powerful transformations I’ve ever experienced - one that shifted me from overworked, hyper-independent, disconnected hustle mode into the most magnetic, turned-on version of myself…

    The one who got proposed to in Central Park on a surprise trip booked and paid for by my man. 🄹

    We’re talking:šŸ’„ My ā€œBurnt Out Bitchā€ erašŸ’ž The ways I was showing up in my relationship that didn’t align with who I wanted to be🌹 The feminine energy shifts that changed everythingšŸ’” How softening, asking for help, and reconnecting to pleasure sparked a ripple effect in every part of my life

    If you’ve ever felt like your success comes at the cost of your relationship, or you’ve been craving more ease, support, and intimacy - you need this episode.

    ✨ And if you’re ready to step out of hustle and into your own feminine magnetism?
    Try The Sisterhood FREE for 14 days.Join us → https://www.khorrocks.com/sisterhood

    40 min
  • Become Un-F*ckwithable: 3 Steps to Unlock Feminine Magnetism & Momentum

    In today’s episode, I’m sharing the 3 steps to becoming un-f*ckwithable - an energy that allows you to move through life’s challenges without losing yourself, your desires, or your power.

    This episode is a preview of my free 3-day challenge, Become Un-Fckwithable & Unlock Feminine Magnetism, happening this week! If you haven’t signed up yet, grab your spot below - it’s completely free, and I’m guiding you through these shifts LIVE.

    šŸ’” When you become un-f*ckwithable, you don’t wait for things to be perfect to feel powerful. You hold the standard for the life you desire - no matter what’s happening around you.


    Inside this episode, I’m covering:
    ✨ What it really means to be un-f*ckwithable (it’s not what you think!)
    ✨ The 3 key shifts every magnetic woman makes to stop settling and start receiving
    ✨ Why external circumstances don’t have to dictate your energy or your success
    ✨ How to move from force & hustle into ease & attraction
    ✨ The behind-the-scenes of the free challenge and why you need to be there



    šŸ’– Join the Free 3-Day Challenge!

    Become Un-F*ckwithable & Unlock Feminine Magnetism is happening this week! Join us for free coaching, embodiment practices, and a powerful community of women who are DONE settling.

    JOIN HERE > https://www.khorrocks.com/challenge

    24 min

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