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This week we've got an awesome question from Ashlea about how to moderate hyperfocus (or hyperfixation, or special interests) so that we neurodivergents don't burn ourselves out on things we enjoy.

Resources

• TikTok on Slow Mornings
• YouTube short on Hyperfocus vs Hyperfixation
• YouTube video: Five Signs You Have ADHD & Autism

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Hi babes! I have an amazing question from Hilda today about how to explain a gap in employment from taking time off to just chill and not be crushed under capitalism for a cotdamn minute! As we all know, employers don't typically like hearing that you are an autonomous being who doesn't like working, so how do we explain time that we needed to take in between jobs to rest, heal, and/or relax?

Pulling from my own experience and also my knowledge as someone who has worked closely with hiring managers and HR people, I give my best tips for interviewing for new jobs with a gap in employment, whether that gap is short or long, and whether you are old (like me! ;P) or young!

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I answer a question from Madison asking for advice when living with a partner for the first time. We explore a range of advice, from the practical to the emotional to the protective.

As mentioned in the podcast, please refer to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence or any other DV/IPV organization for tips on how to put together a safety protocol to best protect yourself from a nasty break up or abusive situation.

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Mommy's back! After my summer vaycay, I'm here to give some health updates, decisions about the show, and then talk about the main topic which is how to handle receiving help without feeling like a piece of poopie.

Under capitalism we're taught that needing help is a weakness, a failure, a burden. But when you give help to someone else, it really sucks when they feel that way, right? So I speak today from my own experiences of both receiving and giving help, plus from conversations with friends, of how I approach help now and how I'd love for the people I help to process that outreach.
 
Lastly, I have a call for mutual aid for my sister, looking for financial donations but moreso for professional connections and support, and for social media promotion.

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Today Nic gives updates about the medical exams and procedures she's had lately and announces she'll be taking a break until July!

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Today's episode tackles how to handle a person in your life whose jealousy is taking over the relationship. This advice is for trying to keep that person in your life and not severing the relationship.

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After a convo with my beloved Mohera, we decided that a discussion about the dangers of inextricably tying queerness to biology would be a good topic for today's episode. I discuss my thoughts about queer-acceptance narratives that hinge on queerness being a thing that some people are born with that they "can't help." 

Videos mentioned in this episode:

• Commodifying Bi Validation: Loki vs Russell T Davies (Verilybitchie | YouTube)
• Abortion and Philosophy Tube | Is The Discussion Over? (Shonalika | YouTube)

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After the kerfuffle between Chris Rock and Will Smith at the Oscars, I thought this was the perfect prompt for an episode about the politics of body hair, connecting them to their sexist, classist, racist roots. 

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• The Casualties of Women's War on Body Hair (The Atlantic)
• Infantilization and the Body Hair Debate on Shanespeare (YouTube)
• Gay Men: Are You a Jock, Otter, Bear or Wolf? (Paired Life)
• The Male Gaze Series on A Little to the Left (YouTube)

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Hey kiddos! I needed a chill episode so it's a mixed bag of me just talking about my health journey and my attempts to find work. Hope y'all like it!

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Today I answer an awesome prompt from Cait about how we (particularly autistics) might have routine in a post-capitalist, post-productivity oriented world that appeases our neurodivergent brains while also embracing freedom from a 9-5 or shift work.

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