Quiet Mornings

My foundation is Christ. I do not shy away from this fact and I want the world to know that every message in my podcasts are on this foundation.

Let God lead your life. I am not asking you to be prefect but I am asking you to be open to Him leading you and He alone know what you need and where you need to be.

Every message discussed on my podcast is firm on the foundation of what Christ offers through salvation.

Happy New Week beautiful sistas!

We sit around with no ambition sometimes and we look over to the next person to steer the wheel of our life. We cannot even make a single decision on our own, we constantly look for the next person who comes with the next opinion on how our lives should be.

Sisters this is wrong and we need to take control of our own lives. We need to sit in the driver's seat and not in the passenger seat of our own lives.

We must take control to be in control.

Make that change and stop the excuses.

Good morning ladies.

The world we live in today, is full of confusion and chaos and in order for one to succeed there MUST be structure in place, a plan. You cannot just wake up everyday without a plan or goal in place and get ahead. You will continue spinning in circles and you will get nowhere.

Treat your life as a career and put a plan in place and when you wake up everyday, go to work on your life.

I am not taking fun or spontaneity out of life, you can be spontaneous and have fun but do not forget, structure, goals and agendas will always keep you firm when chaos is all around you.

Good day beautiful ladies.

Life in itself is a chance so why are we so afraid to take big steps or chances?

Getting out of bed everyday is a chance. There is possibility of getting involved in a car accident or contracting an illness, etc. Why do we than fear taking steps outside our comfort zone?

Sometimes things that don't feel good to you may just be good for you. Take the step outside what you are used to and experience the change you want but too afraid to reach out for.

Take chances!

Good morning beautiful sistas.

Most times in life we look to others experiences and we try to fit ourselves in their lives. We are so far gone sometimes involved in their lives and what they may be experiencing that we remove ourselves mentally from our own experiences and before you know it we are far removed from ours and we lose our way.

Trust your own experiences, they are yours for a reason. God may be trying to teach you and grow you to another level but if you are stuck in the lives of others you will never grow and get mature in life.

Have a blessed days wonderful sisters.

We often times want to lead people or groups or even communities but we do not want to serve or we do not understand what servant hood is. I have come to realize that in order for you to be a successful leader, you must serve others and understand their situation and their surroundings.

You cannot lead someone you do not understand because in order to understand someone you must be in service to that person. Service to listen, service to appreciate, service to give, etc.

If you want to be an example that others should choose to follow, start by serving. Let your service be genuine and not forced.

Good morning beautiful ladies.

Learn to open yourself to giving. The more you hold on to what you could possibly give, you do not open yourself to receive.

The more you give the more you will receive. I am a testimony to this truth. Help others in anyway you can. Stop being selfish and open the doors of opportunities by blessing others with your finances, talents and gifts.

Have a blessed day sistas.

Why do you find it offensive when others express their joy or happiness? Is it because you do not know how to make your own joy?

Finding joy is a CHOICE and everyone can choose to if they want to. Make it a practice to find your joy and you will not be offended when others express theirs, because you will be so busy finding or making yours.

Life is short so do not get wrapped up in the joy of others and get so upset about it, that you lose focus of how to make or find your own. Duet.8:18 states, it is God who gives you wisdom to make wealth, happiness is wealth and God has given you the wisdom to create it. So create it!

Have a happy day ladies. Make sure you find that joy, it is there somewhere.

Have a great weekend!

You can dream all you want and wish for the best life, but if you have the inappropriate habits in place, you will never obtain your dreams.

Whatever you aim for or aspire to become, your day to day activities must align with that dream. You cannot wish for one thing and your habits do not set the stage to accomplish that dream. You must work at your craft and you can only do so if you put brilliant habits in place.

Discipline yourself and form great habits to lead you to your dreams.

Have an awesome day sisters.

Why do we always think that we know what is good or right for the next person? We always want to tell the next person how to live their lives. We want to tell him/her what to do or what not to do but yet we don't even know what to do in our own lives.

Growth and maturity start when you respect other people's choices.

I must say I believe this is very disrespectful when we assume the responsibility of the next person's choices and decisions, especially when we have not been asked. I think it is okay to share your experiences but the decisions should be made by the person who is dealing with whatever issue(s) he or she has.

Unless you are asked for your opinions, keep them to yourself.

Good morning fabulous ladies.