We need to detach from this idea of “being perfect” all the time. most days, I am a giant mess, and much of the things that I’ve worked on in my life have resulted in not so good outcomes.
However, here is what I learned: No matter what happens to you, it’s unlikely that you’re going to get perfect results that you intended.
Having not so good results should be your standard way of measuring what you do. The idea that you will have a successful outcome is somewhat of a fairytale.
So what should we do?
Embrace the notion of being imperfect is perfectly fine.
Embrace the notion that you can do some thing and you will have an unintended negative result.
Embrace feeling like a failure. Having these negative outcomes happened to you stinks, but it is standard result.
Learning how to believe that failure is not a failure should be at the heart of what we do.