Radio Free Tote Bag

This one is wild out the gate gang, we are joined by Marcos from The Ain't Shit Show and many of the best Western Kabuki episodes. We talk experiences in the Craigslist personals, absolutely wild encounters, and Marcos' relationship history before getting into your question:

Dating while living with your parents | Partner seems to be using their autism as an excuse to be shitty to you | Afraid you're becoming an incel

Thanks again to Marcos for joining us, find him and his show on socials @Aintershow!

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Lotta sponsors on this ep! Fruit (Eat It Up!™), Olivia Newton John, and the dark chocolate bar Dono ate beforehand and so we're gettin wacky. We're joined this week by post extraordinaire Katie Tightpussy, formerly of Twitter now mostly of Bluesky! We get the ol embarrassing dating stories and then it's question time:

Dating as women for the first time as a newly out gay woman is stressing you out! | Things are going great but you have no one to share life with - what do you do when your relationship needs are specific and you're having no luck?

UPDATE FROM KATIE: "The caramel was good"

Thanks again to Katie for joining us! Follow her on Bluesky she's excellent @juicysteak117.gay and on Letterboxd at KatherineTea

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

That's right from Blocked Party and YKS we have the inimitable Producer Dan joining us this week. On his first podcast appearance! We talk to Dan about having his phone number out in public, an embarrassing dating story, and the importance of hydration! And then it's your questions:

Update to the music festival ex question from last week | How to cope with not having someone to always text and flirt with after a breakup | Can't seem to find motivation to make art even though you want to | Keep seeing someone you think you went to school with at the grocery store but not sure whether to say something

Thanks again to Dan for joining us, go hear him on Blocked Party (while supplies last) and Your Kickstarter Sucks and find him on socials @Early90sPants

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Return of the Bryan! Returning champion Bryan Quinby aka MurderBryan from the Guys podcast join us again this week! We catch up on Bryan's life since starting Guys, his daughter moving out to head to our alma mater, self-esteem, and then your questions here's what we get into:

GF can't cum and seems fine with that but you're not | Someone writes in about hemorrhoids for some reason | Weight/body image issues making you feel like shit

Thanks again to Bryan for joining us, follow him on socials @murderxbryan and listen to Guys podcast wherever you listen to us!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week (plus the new Frasier bonus series) at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

What's up gang it's Audrey's bday and to celebrate we're getting through as many backlog questions as we can and ya know what? We did alright we hit a lot. So if you've been waiting for an answer to your question from over a year ago maybe we hit it this time! There's so many questions I can't list em all so you'll have to listen to find out  

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Good LORD don't get covid people that sucked! Dono's back, we've got Kath Barbadoro back on the show, and we're rip-roaring to go this week. We're talking food around the country, we're talking overcoming injury, we're talking dating, and then it's question time:

Ended friendship with a guy after he turned out to be a creep, are you a bad person for having been friends with them? | Ex's friends/your neighbors are "mean gays" and they're talking shit about your ex but you're no contact - do you say something? | In love with your best friend to the degree that you had to come clean and ask for space - how do you know when you can go back?

Thanks again to Kath for joining us, we love her, find her on socials @kathbarbadoro and listen to What A Time To Be Alive and Lie Cheat And Steal wherever you find podcasts!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb!

What up tote nashe (nat? naischte?) it's Audrey posting this week because Donovan is afflicted with the Novel Coronavirus. They're alright! Getting better, chattin' with them as we speak.

Sitting in as Definitely Not Donovan Donovan this week is friend of the show Andrew Hilary joining us for a rollicking discussion of your questions, queries, quandaries and other sundries.

We answer these burning questions!

A listener updates us on an apology to an ex. | Is it problematic to stay friends with an ex? | Unicorn is growing angry at being forced into that role. What do? | Friend is probably gonna get back together with their shitty ex. How do you tell them no without being relentlessly negative?

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This week, the Radio Free Tote Buddies are joined by writer Rebecca Alter to talk becoming ordained ministers, Skibidi Toilet and Momo the freaky-ass bird lady! She gets pretty vulnerable about attatchment!

Follow it up with some listener questions, which is a thing we do!

A relationship is long over and there's still guilt about how a listener treated their ex partner. Should they contact them and apologize? | Someone encourages your friend to go monogamous and she goes for it. Then the guy cheats! They make up after the cheating and then the friend treats you poorly. THEN you find the partner on Tinder!? What the hell! | A FINAL mention of the Blocked Party toilet jerk-off question. | A friend is into you and you're not into them. That's all well and good, but you ARE into their friend? How much should you spare the friend's feelings?

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https://x.com/ralter

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Greetings dear listener! Gather close and attend ye the tale of our friend, actress and artist Tåsi, joining us on the program! We talk Seltz and the evils of Fanta, we talk bear v gorilla and the horrors of Ursus Maritimus. We get into a very fun embarassing dating story about a clogged toilet.

Then, listener questions!

Anxious/Depressed person with ADHD has it all but the ability to text back. How do you find success in dating? | Partner has a physical illness preventing them from taking care of their half of the chores and you're getting burnt out. How do you navigate this? | Girlie at the gym is flirting with you, a happily married man. What's next?

Thanks so much to Tåsi for joining us! We had a lot of fun!

Follow her at @islandgoth on Bluesky

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THUNDER NOISE! It's stormin in Chicago, Dono's sick, Audrey had a nice date, and we're joined this week by musician Darren Keen aka PROBLEMS! We're talking sobriety, getting back into dating, ART, and your QUESTIONS:

Dating after being hardcore gaslit | Struggling with the initial loneliness after moviing to a new city | Nebraska dog - good or nah? | Where HAVE all the cowboys gone?

Thanks again to Darren for joining us, go listen to PROBLEMS it's really good music and it's on streaming and keep an eye out for tour dates!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week (plus the new Frasier bonus series) at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!