We've all been there -- going through Instagram and seeing all the "perfect" photos of the "perfect" family moments. And then our thoughts come back to us and how we are simply not doing enough with our kids. Did we really spend the whole weekend at home having snacks? Our Digital Editor and first-time mom, Nina Harada, shares her pumpkin patch adventures with us. Yes, she did manage to get a few great family photos, but she also shares the not-so-perfect moments. There were tears, skinned knees, tantrums about car seats, throwing pumpkins and, well, tune in and Nina will tell it all. And to remind us that there is no "perfect", no standard way -- just our way. And that's so OK.