Reclaiming Confidence

You want to have a pleasurable life, don’t you? A healthy, blissful, and exciting time aligned with your desires. But why are you still settling for less when you know you deserve more?

In this episode, Nicole, together with Carlie Jade, talks about choosing not to settle for anything less. Nicole opens up her heart to share how she is constantly limiting herself, especially in her relationship, and how she made a decision to f*cking trust herself and have the pleasure and life that she deserves.

They also touch on topics about the pain and suffering of a woman if she is not aligned with her deepest desire, the power of saying yes, and share how praying, intention, connection, and community can amplify our lives and experience a more pleasurable life.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Nicole’s relationship breakup
• Starting a new relationship
• The healthy masculine
• Finding a soul family; and
• Choosing magic over mediocrity

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Do you feel lost in your relationship right now? As if you're the only one who wants it, and feels like a floating balloon with no direction and no ground to land on. 

Because your man is so focused on his work and mission, it ends up leaving you unseen, unheard, and unloved. But you don't have to depolarize the relationship to be noticed by your partner. There is a better way to do it.

In today's episode, Nicole reveals the reason why you feel left out in your own relationship and what steps you can take to have a strong, healthy, and sustainable relationship. She highlights the importance of knowing and understanding what you want, allowing yourself to be seen, and creating a safe space for communication with your partner.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• The Masculine's Number 1 Priority
• What to do if you don't feel seen & heard in your relationship
• How to understand 'HIM' more so you can stop burdening him
• Why you feel you don't exist to him at times; and
• How to keep sexual polarity in your relationship

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We made it! We reach the 100th episode on the Reclaiming Confidence podcast! 

This is a very special episode to celebrate the incredible journey of telling stories, building connections, and creating new possibilities.

In today’s episode, Nicole opens up a conversation about the truth of her life, the truth in building this podcast, and the truth about her current business. 

Nicole shares her real intention in starting the show, the challenges she encounters, the transitions made, and the lessons she learned throughout the journey. Nicole also talks about a very personal truth that has created a massive impact on her life and business to date.

More juicy, pleasurable, and aligned episodes are on the way, so stay tuned!

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• What it takes to reach the 100th episode
• The learnings of a podcaster
• Why Nicole stopped making realistic goals
• Stop f*cking settling. Get what you want!; and
• NOT being okay four months ago

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Do you want to connect deeper to your roots and pay respect to the land you are living and breathing? Then you need to understand that you are once part of the earth.

Allow your mind, body, and soul to feel grounded again by paying respect to the land and understanding the lost stories and people who care and love this country.

Nartarsha Bamblett, also known as “queen acknowledgment,” is a mother, speaker, cultural educator, and healer. Nartarsha is making a move to speak up for the people who are the owners and original custodians of this land and creating a space where people feel safe to learn and unlearn the conditioning that allows us to connect deeper to the ground as human beings.

In this episode, Nicole and Nartarsha open up a space for a conversation about the untold & forgotten stories of the land to pay respect to as humans and leaders of this earth. Nartarsha shares her journey in deepening her connection to the roots of her ancestors, the power of trauma healing with the land, and seeing mother nature at its finest.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How leaders can acknowledge the country in their spaces
• What are the lost stories that make our country rich 
• The gift our connection to land offers us; and
• How people still disrespect indigenous people & what you can do about it

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Ever wonder why women feel unfulfilled and complain about their relationships? One quick answer to that question is — their men have weak masculine energy.

Men need to embrace their full masculine energy to lead, protect, and love their women. If men don’t know what they want in life, women can’t fully trust him.

In this episode, Nicole answers a really common problem we are facing today about why weak men piss women off. She uncovers the truth behind women’s frustration and dissatisfaction with their partner, how women want their men to f*cking lead, and how women can attract their men into his masculine energy more.

If you are a man or a woman who desires to create a long intimate relationship with your partner or want to attract masculine-embodied men into your life, this episode is dedicated to you!

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• What is viewed as weak and passive by women
• How to step up and be a man
• How women can attract him into his strong masculine force; and 
• What happens to a feminine woman in the company of a weak and passive man

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A Part of Me Part 2

"It takes courage, relentless determination, and devotion to put what you learn into action."

This exactly happened to Nicole in her quest to discover who she really is and build a business into a feminine embodied movement. From a struggling bodybuilder to being an empowered feminine leadership coach. She is living proof that anything is possible if you take the courage to make a decision, invest in yourself, and take action.

In this episode, Nicole shares her really intimate journey to self and business evolution. She opens up her heart and soul to talk about her experience in bodybuilding, the pivotal moments in her life, and how she fills up her bank while being true to her spirit's calling.

Sit back, relax, and indulge in the pleasure of listening and be inspired to take action as Nicole takes a step back to memory lane and shares who Nicole was before and who Nicole is now.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• What led Nicole to choose coaching
• How Nicole started Online Coaching
• The financial blockages Nicole faced along the way
• Why Paying BIG $$$$ blew up Nicole's Business; and
• Following your spirit calling 

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Do you have a secret? Do you feel ashamed sharing your truth because people might judge and misunderstand you? Or are you simply not comfortable discussing some important topics because social customs restrict them?

If your answer is YES in any or all of this, then this episode is perfect for you!

A truly empowered woman is not afraid of what people will say. She speaks her truth and shares her pleasure centre through embodiment, creativity, and love.

Today, Nicole gets vulnerable and shares her personal pleasure journey. She talks about her secret childhood exploration and how she opened up to herself to feel and be better as a powerful woman. She also speaks about the truth of sensual shame and how to connect with your pleasure, own your expression, and be your true self.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Sexual innocence and curiosity
• Childhood sexual trauma
• Early masturbation
• Desensitisation
• Awakening your Pleasure centre
• Exploring your Orgasmic bliss 

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Do you find yourself becoming a damsel in distress? Portraying like a Disney character waiting for prince charming to come and save you? Hushing your truth to be more likable and giving away your power?

If any of these apply to you…then this episode is for you!

The maiden archetype is one of the MOST powerful archetypes to work within your right of passage to becoming an empowered woman. But, when the maiden is not fully liberated and self-reclaimed, she can create suffering, confusion, and disempowerment. 

In today's episode, Nicole unravels the nature of a wounded maiden archetype. She talks about how to actually recognize wounded patterns, why it is important to have self-awareness, and how to crack these negative traits to strengthen your core beliefs and un-tame your true feminine power.

In this episode, you'll hear about:

• Breaking the good girl template
• What is the healthy maiden
• The Journey every woman has with her inner maiden
• The gift of the Maiden Energy
• 3 Traits of the wounded Maiden Archetype 

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Are you unconsciously hurting yourself by being careful? Creating an illusion of safety by hiding your concerns. Carefulness is a sign of fear. It weakens your mind, body, and soul because you're literally repressing your truth and energy by being cautious. 

Oren Harris, aka "O," is a mastery coach, love leader, and transcendent artist devoted to love, truth, and liberation. He is a pioneer in human consciousness with a primary mission of creating a Heaven on Earth. 

Oren is the walking embodied miracle maker man that helps people awaken their divine potential and fulfill their soul mission. 

In today's episode, Nicole and Oren talk about self-love, relationship, business, and magic. Oren explains why being careful can hurt you, how to utilize one's consciousness, energy, presence, and power in relationships and business, and ways to manifest self-love, forgiveness, and being your true self.

In this episode, you'll hear about:

• Moving from self-doubt to self-love
• How to move past resentment into forgiveness
• Why playing it safe is NOT helping you
• Moving past the mind into the soul's voice
• The power of speaking your truth directly in your relationships and business

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Incredible things all start with a conversation. And so, for the next four episodes, we will dive deep into all things masculine to bring together male and female perspectives, opinions, and beliefs to understand more the beauty and power of both. 

Our first masculine in the podcast is Lino Hola. Lino is a coach, a father, a husband, and the founder of an incredible and very successful movement called Men's Medicine. He offers a variety of things, from coaching to workshops and events. In just the space of one year, Men's Medicine ran 100 workshops. His work over in the Gold Coast shows to be something a lot of the community desires to be a part of. 

Today, Nicole and Lino talk about the divine masculine energy. Lino shares how he started Men's Medicine from sunrise breathwork and how men can incredibly be if you understand them. Lino also gets a bit vulnerable and shares a recent experience with his beloved that allows him to embrace his divine masculine energy more and support others.

In this episode, we get to know more about Lino's Business in Men's Medicine

• The Men's Medicine Movement
• Why men & women need community
• Every man's basic needs
• How Boys becoming Men; and
• Being in Business and Intimacy with your beloved

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