Reclaiming Confidence

The Queen archetype is the embodiment of power, leadership, and influence, but behind her majestic strength lies a shadow side that can create a negative impact if not integrated well.

In this episode, join Nicole as she talks about the depths of the Queen archetype, exploring its dark side to uncover the lessons and gifts that can be found in acknowledging and integrating the shadow side of this powerful archetype. Prepare to unravel the mysteries and embrace the transformative potential of the Queen!

In this episode, you'll hear:

• What is the Queen Archetype
• The Queens Life Themes
• A Queen's Strengths & Skills
• The Queens Shadow Side
• Becoming a fully embodied Queen

Episode Suggestion: 83: The 7 Feminine Archetypes: Un-Tame Your Feminine Power

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Are you tired of hearing the spiritual fluff that comes with the word self-development? You see, impact, influence, and empowerment are more than just a buzzword - it's about embracing your identity, protecting it, and creating a meaningful change in your life and the life of others.

In this episode, Nicole dives into the deep dark side of the personal development world. She shares her disempowering journey of continuously looking for self-help and ends up her feeling sh*t and stuck in life. Nicole also shares some tangible ways to cut through the spiritual fluff and get clarity on what you stand for.

By going beyond the superficial norms, shifting your attitude, and using your voice, you can tap into your true power, unleash your influence, and create a positive impact.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• What is Women's Empowerment
• Being a Queen in what you stand for
• How to know what you stand for
• What makes a Woman of Influence & High Impact
• How to become a Woman of Influence & Impact

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Have you ever felt the weight of grief, the piercing ache that comes from losing someone you love dearly? It can be difficult to know what to say or do when trying to support a person in mourning. But now more than ever, your lover needs you.

In this episode, Nicole shares a painful yet essential topic about supporting someone you love in grief. She discusses the emotional complexity of the grieving process and the importance of empathy, trust, and open communication. 

Nicole also talks about how grief can transform a relationship into a stronger, more intimate bond that lives beyond polarity with your grieving partner.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Seven stages of Grief.
• How you can be there for your Lover (What I've done).
• The Impact of Loss on my Relationship & Business.
• What recent loss taught me.
• Just a real authentic, vulnerable share about a recent life experience.

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Feminine embodiment has become a buzzword in the world of coaching and entrepreneurship. But a lot of people don't get what it really means. You see, a powerful woman doesn't just sit and wait for things to happen. She takes action!

In this episode, Nicole delves deep into what is NOT feminine leadership, explains why people are confusing it with productivity, and shares how to break free from using feminine energetics as a term or a way of being that it isn't and actually establishing a deep-rooted trust into your feminine "queen" within.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• The Real Feminine Leadership
• Feminine Misconceptions
• QUIT being a cop-out
• Calling out the bullsh*t narrative about the Femme embodiment

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Do you feel ashamed to talk about your abortion, even to the closest people to you? Let me tell you that YOU are not alone. A lot of women feel the same way about silencing their voices on topics about abortion because of the fear of being judged and ridiculed by others. But today, we will break that silence.

In this episode, Nicole talks about women's (including her) buried secret and shame on abortion, the emotional toll of abortion shame, what it's like to be inside an abortion clinic, and why people need to have the power to decide for their own bodies. This episode aims to bring awareness and reach women who are also feeling shame in their own abortion journey.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Australian Abortion Law History 
• A Women's Rights to her life & Body 
• The Global Invisible Shame umbrella put on women about abortion
• Nicole's raw and real experience during her abortion in 2021

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Have you ever been in an awkward situation on a date where you are unsure who should pull out the card? Should the men pay out of pressure and expectation, or should women pay for fairness? If you want to know who should buy dinner on your dates, this episode is for you!

In this episode, we will discuss the feminine and masculine “roles” and how they affect your relationship with your partner. Nicole shares the traits of both energetics, highlighting the importance of understanding the real goal and value of each and how to create the most mature and highest frequency kind of relationship with your partner.


In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How roles intoxicate relationships
• The miss represented Feminine & Masculine expectations
• How to move past fairness & come back to desire; and
• How to cultivate a relationship that feels free & relieved of expectation

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Did you know that dancing can heal you? Moving your body through dance not only improves your physical health and wellness. It also can help you reconnect to your authentic self and have the confidence to express and embody your feminine energy.

Tashi is a multi-faceted creative, having studied dance and musical theatre in Perth before spending seven years living in London as a working dancer and actress. Passionate about embodiment, expression, and authenticity, she aims to bring intention to all she does while carving her unique path as an artist.

Currently residing in Perth, Tashi has been working as a dance teacher in studios across the city, specialising in sharing her craft in jazz, heels, and feminine energy. She also represents the hip-hop crew The Society, having won the last three competitions they entered. Tashi will head to Mexico this year (2023) to compete in Dancers Paradise, one of the world's biggest street dance competitions.

In this episode, Nicole and Tashi talk about how movement and dance help them to heal their mind, body, and soul. Tashi shares her quest to pursue her passion for dance in London, the reason why she lost herself through the process, and how she moves past and reconnects in expressing herself through dance.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• How you can explore your Feminine Expression in Dance
• Find out how we see Dance as Medicine
• Bridging the gap between choreography & embodiment in dance; and
• Unveiling toxic dance spaces & revealing healthy ones

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Are you waiting for things to come around you? Or are you participating in life?

Simple question but have a powerful message. Right? Often we unconsciously undervalue to give ourselves more space to be grounded, step back, and see what really matters in our life because we forget the vision. 

In this episode, Nicole shares how to set up your own identity in 2023 for you to feel more confident and certain about who you are. She provides a clear ritual guide for you to reassess your vision, what is happening to you, and how you can intentionally participate in your life. 

If you are ready to let go of the things that are not serving you anymore and embrace a more confident being, this episode is for you!

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Stop being a bystander in your life and start participating 
• Rituals that will make 2023 a HIT!
• How to get clear on who you want to BE for 2023; and
• Step-by-step vision plan to make 2023 magical

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Do you struggle in finding, keeping, and cultivating lasting relationships with other women? 

We women always desire a place of belongingness, and sisterhood is one space where we can do that. But we also know that women have a lot (I mean A LOT) of trust issues that can destroy precious relationships in life.

If you experience this uncomfortable feeling of “If I trust her, I’m going to get hurt.” It’s time to let go of that generational sisterhood wound and rewrite your own story of sisterhood trust, beauty, and intimacy.

In this episode, Nicole talks about the lessons she learned in sisterhood for the past two years of running programs and events with big groups of women. Nicole takes a deep dive into some toxic sisterhood wounds, the struggles of women, and what it really takes to create a real sisterhood bond.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• What is the meaning of sisterhood
• How Old age leadership blocked me from cultivating real sisterhoods
• Cultivating a lifelong bond between sisters; and
• The lessons Nicole learn in sisterhood

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Episode Suggestion: 82: Healing the Sisterhood Wound

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Sex - a very controversial, explicit, and taboo word.

Many people feel embarrassed to express their thoughts about sensuality, and if the idea ever comes up, it's always a dirty, shameful, sensitive, and secretive issue. 

We often think it's a "yuck" topic because of the misinformation around sex, but the truth is there is certainly more than just penis and vagina interaction. 

In today's episode, we have Sian Self, an educator and sexologist to talk about one of the most censored topics in school; sex. 

Sian is very passionate about having an open and honest conversation about the intention around sexuality and having true pleasure.

Throughout the conversation, Nicole and Sian discuss the lack of education about the pleasure of sex, why people use it as a negative outlet of energy, and how to liberate yourself from the sexuality shame and have a sexually fulfilling life. 

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Sex culture, where it was, where it is, and where we see it going!
• Submissive & Dominant dynamics 
• What is 'Kink'
• Unhealthy Sex habits; and
• How to have better sex and what measures 'better sex.'

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