Reconcilable Differences

Reconcilable Differences

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  • 298: My Geographical Tongue

    John shares updates on his locked account and toaster ovens, and Merlin needs to commit to one battery family.

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    John shares updates on his locked account and toaster ovens, and Merlin needs to commit to one battery family.

    In this month’s member bonus segment, Merlin tries his hand at making an app.

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    (Recorded on Tuesday, October 13, 2026)

    Credits
    • Audio Editor/First Chair: Jim Metzendorf
    • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
    • Music: Merlin Mann
    • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
    • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. John's toaster oven recommendations Casey's history of John and toaster ovens. Breville BOV650XL (John's current toaster oven) Breville BOV680BSS (the new Breville toaster oven) John's tire inflator A battery and charger for John's tire inflator Margaret Hamilton - Wikipedia The SR-71 Blackbird - Wikipedia The Insane Engineering of the SR-71 Blackbird - YouTube The SR-71's Astro-inertial Navigation System (ANS) - Michael Hodges SR-71 Astroinertial Navigation System (ANS) - National Air and Space Museum Lockheed SR-71 Blackbird in Flight - Smithsonian

      “Radio navigation could not be relied upon near hostile territory. And no human could keep pace doing celestial navigation. So the Blackbird relied on the automated Astroinertial Navigation System. Its computer performed the functions of a human celestial navigator, but far faster and more accurately.”

      1 hr 3 min
    • 297: Bison William

      John's account's still locked, Merlin knows just enough to be angry, and Casey has opinions about which way his snacks should face.

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      John's account's still locked, Merlin knows just enough to be angry, and Casey has opinions about which way his snacks should face.

      (Recorded on Tuesday, September 29, 2026)

      Credits
      • Audio Editor/Track Bouncer: Jim Metzendorf
      • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
      • Music: Merlin Mann
      • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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        Find the “Crossover” feed and look for the episode with the title “Wartime Camarero.”

        Camarero, the thoroughbred racehorse - Wikipedia Off Menu (Podcast) FB24976658: My Apple Account is locked every day TN3150: Getting ready for dataless files Doritos - Wikipedia
        1 hr 25 min
      • 296: The Bird’s Bedroom
        Subtitle: Jim can only talk in saxophone.

        John has Follow-Up on what he was mad about last time.

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        John has Follow-Up on what he was mad about last time.

        In this month’s member bonus segment, your hosts discuss Merlin's recently empty nest.

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        (Recorded on Tuesday, September 15, 2026)

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        1 hr 27 min
      • 295: If I Adjust for Europe

        John eventually tells us what it is he's so mad about.

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        John eventually tells us what it is he's so mad about.

        (Recorded on Tuesday, September 1, 2026)

        Credits
        • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
        • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
        • Music: Merlin Mann
        • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
        • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Give to St. Jude! John’s Mastodon thread about his Apple ID problem “That’s where I’m a Viking!’ “Synecdoche” pronunciation video - YouTube

          Sent to us by Kieran Healy

          John’s pronunciation guy: Julien Miquel “Sfogliatella” “Samhain” “Siobhan”
          1 hr 32 min
        • 294: Grumpy 37
          Subtitle: Loneliness is where John is a Viking.

          What is the role of loneliness on "Survivor?"

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          Things kick off unexpectedly. For Merlin, anyway. Honestly, that's what had happened.

          And, then, an old friend from the before times has a Thing It Took Him Too Long to Realize. It involves music and butts. And, while your hosts can recall that the listener's wife was way more famous, they can neither remember her name nor pronounce his.

          For a main topic, John and Merlin consider the role of loneliness on Survivor. Every dingaling has a plan until they get punched in the face. So, what do we think about all that isolation, privation, paranoia, and self-doubt? Even setting aside the sunburns and the Fijian food, this is not an environment in which Merlin would thrive.

          In this month’s member bonus segment, your hosts discuss self-quantization. What are we measuring, and what is that helping us manage?

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          (Recorded on Tuesday, August 18, 2026)

          Credits
          • Audio Editor/Key Master: Jim Metzendorf
          • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
          • Music: Merlin Mann
          • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
          • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. ATP #703: Part of a Healthy Breakfast

            The ATP episode where John tried to explain Docker (starting at 1:51:26).

            A timestamp link to John's Docker explanation in ATP #703 The Survivor 50 cast - People.com Carrot in a Box - YouTube Carrot in a Box: Rematch - YouTube Liz is emotional about Applebee's on Survivor season 46, episode 10 The cast of Veep talks about their final season - YouTube
            2 hr 4 min
          • 293: Swedish Sailor Soap
            Subtitle: This ain’t no Gendry boat.

            For people who don't personally enjoy being on a boat, John and Merlin sure talk a lot about boats.

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            For people who don't personally enjoy being on a boat, John and Merlin sure talk a lot about boats.

            (Recorded on Tuesday, August 4, 2026)

            Credits
            • Audio Editor/Timbre Concern Troll: Jim Metzendorf
            • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
            • Music: Merlin Mann
            • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
            • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Secret Weird Things People Do: Baseball Announcer Edition Awful Announcing’s video clip of Ben McDonald’s soap confession Thufir Hawat and his eyebrows Kelsey Pfendler - Wikipedia Kelsey Pfendler’s Instagram account: @yourowkelsey An example video from Kelsey Pfendler’s Instagram account Kelsey Pfendler’s website About Kelsey Pfendler’s boat First American Woman Rows Solo From California to Hawaii - The New York Times Outside’s article about Kelsey Pfendler Good Morning America’s segment about Kelsey Pfendler - YouTube Women & the Wind (2025) Reconcilable Differences #249: Tally Ho

              The Reconcilable Differences episode where we talk about the “Rebuilding Tally Ho” YouTube series.

              "You ever been in a boat before?" Ser Davos asks young Gendry.
              1 hr 17 min
            • 292: Yarnfluencer
              Subtitle: One time, Merlin helped Joe Walsh fix his internet.

              John wants to talk about a phenomenon he's observed.

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              John wants to talk about a phenomenon he's observed.

              In this month’s member bonus segment, your hosts discuss Star City (Apple TV, 2025).

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              (Recorded on Tuesday, July 21, 2026)

              Credits
              • Audio Editor/Senior Valve & Reed Analyst: Jim Metzendorf
              • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
              • Music: Merlin Mann
              • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
              • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Technology Connections on ceiling fans - YouTube Lionel Messi bathing Lamine Yamal

                …who he would later lose to in the World Cup final.

                Jamie Zawinski - Wikipedia An example of The JWZ Phenomenon Star City - Wikipedia
                1 hr 28 min
              • 291: Too Good at Turning Off the Water

                John conducts some non-elective plumbing, and your hosts check in on the World Cup.

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                John conducts some non-elective plumbing, and your hosts check in on the World Cup.

                (Recorded on Thursday, July 9, 2026)

                Credits
                • Audio Editor/Brass Tackler: Jim Metzendorf
                • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
                • Music: Merlin Mann
                • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
                • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. TBros: Trethewey Brothers plumbing in Massachusetts Mexico vs. England World Cup 2026 highlights - YouTube Mexico vs. England sets new record for most-watched soccer game in U.S. history Mexico vs. England World Cup 2026 match information
                  1 hr 20 min
                • 290: Toilet Cop
                  Subtitle: Merlin doesn't want anyone policing his corn.

                  Merlin wants to talk about computers a little, and John has questions about why you'd throw away a toilet roll that still has some slices on it. Then, your hosts discuss an upcoming movie remake that seems kind of difficult to understand.

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                  Merlin wants to talk about computers a little, and John has questions about why you'd throw away a toilet roll that still has some slices on it. Then, your hosts discuss an upcoming movie remake that seems kind of difficult to understand.

                  In this month’s member bonus segment, your hosts share updates on one of their oldest topics: where they currently stand with sports and sports culture.

                  You can sign up today to hear all the member episodes, get more bonus stuff, and help support our program.

                  (Recorded on Tuesday, June 23, 2026)

                  Credits
                  • Audio Editor/Embouchure Director: Jim Metzendorf
                  • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
                  • Music: Merlin Mann
                  • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
                  • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Designed in California: An Apple history podcast - Kickstarter Upgrade #624: The Memory Guys Toilet paper: 4 up, 2 across - Amazon.com Toilet paper: 30 rolls - Costco Magic (1978) Trailer - YouTube Sam Raimi To Helm ‘Magic’ For Lionsgate - Deadline.com

                    A modern adaptation of the William Goldman original that starred Anthony Hopkins.

                    Sam Raimi - Letterboxd Lars and the Real Girl (2007) Labyrinth 2, directed by Robert Eggers? - Letterboxd The men’s runner-up trophy “tray” at Wimbledon Jimmy Connors 1991 US Open run - YouTube FoxTrax (NHL glowing puck) - Wikipedia FoxTrak example - YouTube The terrible Gorton’s Fisherman New York Islanders logo (1995/96-1996/97) The current New York Islanders logo New York Islanders logo history(?) The New Yorker’s “View of the World from 9th Avenue” cover - Wikipedia
                    1 hr 15 min
                  • 289: The Third Kind of Show
                    Subtitle: Siracusa remembers he was upset that his head was bleeding.

                    Merlin's fans are spinning, and John has thoughts on a novel new Secret Weird Things People Do.

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                    Merlin's fans are spinning, and John has thoughts on a novel new Secret Weird Things People Do.

                    (Recorded on Tuesday, June 9, 2026)

                    Credits
                    • Audio Editor/Woodwinds Wrangler: Jim Metzendorf
                    • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
                    • Music: Merlin Mann
                    • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
                    • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. John’s apps

                      Hyperspace, SwitchGlass, and Front and Center.

                      Jason Santa Maria’s website Jason Santa Maria’s website in 2005 How Bryce Harper uses toothpaste Can You Pet the Dog? - Wikipedia Can You Pet the Dog on Bluesky IEEE 754 - Wikipedia How Integers and Floats Work

                      A Wizard Zine, by Julia Evans

                      An example of a “Natural Playground”
                      1 hr 22 min

                    About Reconcilable Differences

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                    John Siracusa and Merlin Mann try to figure out exactly how they got this way. Hosted by Merlin Mann and John Siracusa.

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