Welcome to Redesign Your Marriage podcast! In this episode we are discussing Parenting in the Digital Age,' where we navigate the intricate landscape of raising children amidst the challenges of technology. In this podcast, we intertwine biblical wisdom with practical insights to guide parents in instilling strong values, modeling healthy digital habits, and using technology as a powerful teaching tool. Drawing inspiration from Proverbs 22:6, Matthew 5:16, and Deuteronomy 6:6-7, we emphasize the importance of establishing clear values, being a shining example, and actively engaging in meaningful conversations with our children. Join us for enriching discussions, expert interviews, and real-life stories, as we empower parents to embrace the digital age with faith, intentionality, and a steadfast commitment to nurturing the hearts of the next generation.

Hit play and join us as we unpack this hot topic and discover the true secret to a lasting marriage.

For additional episodes and more content to help you have a thriving marriage visit us Redesign Your Marriage and join the hundreds of other couples wanting to redesign their marriage and finally they have the marriage they have always dreamed of.

LINKS:

• Website: redesignyourmarriage.com

• Facebook: www.facebook.com/redesignyourmarriage

• Instagram.com/redesign_your_marriage

• instagram.com/_shelby_seeley

Quick Episode Summary: 

• Parenting in the Digital Age: A Personal Story

• The Evolution of Technology and Its Impact

• The Importance of Setting Boundaries with Technology

• The Role of Technology in Parenting

• The Dangers of Unregulated Technology Use

• The Importance of Understanding and Monitoring Digital Platforms

• The Role of Technology in Family Values and Boundaries

• The Impact of Technology on Relationships and Communication

• The Role of Technology in Faith and Morality

• The Importance of Modeling Healthy Digital Habits

• Using Technology as a Tool for Growth and Connection

• The Importance of Real Relationships Outside the Digital World

• The Importance of Careful Digital Communication

Welcome to this episode where we cover the importance of self care in your marriage. In this episode we will embark on a journey of self-care intertwined with spiritual growth. Tune in for biblical wisdom, heartfelt discussions, and uplifting stories that guide you and your spouse toward a sacred dance of self-love, mutual care, and a closer walk with God in your marriage.

Hit play and join us as we unpack this hot topic and discover the true secret to a lasting marriage.

For additional episodes and more content to help you have a thriving marriage visit us Redesign Your Marriage and join the hundreds of other couples wanting to redesign their marriage and finally they have the marriage they have always dreamed of.

LINKS:

• Website: redesignyourmarriage.com

• Facebook: www.facebook.com/redesignyourmarriage

• Instagram.com/redesign_your_marriage

• instagram.com/_shelby_seeley

Quick Episode Summary: 

• 00:11 Introduction and Welcome

• 00:27 Understanding Self Care in Relationships

• 01:27 The Misconception of Self Care as Selfishness

• 02:10 The Importance of Self Care in Marriage

• 04:07 The Biblical Perspective on Self Care

• 06:26 The Role of Sabbath in Self Care

• 15:29 The Importance of Individual Time with God

• 20:04 Creating a Self Care Plan Together

• 26:54 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In our Redesign Your Marriage podcast we want to cover topics that no one else is talking about and in this episode we are tackling mental health and your marriage. We know that mental health issues can significantly impact the dynamics of a marriage and the quality of the marital relationship can influence an individual's mental well-being. In this episode we discuss three tips to manage the interplay between marriage and mental health.

1. Recognize and Educate

2. Open Communication and Support

3. Prioritize Self-Care and Boundaries

Hit play and join us as we unpack this hot topic and discover the true secret to a lasting marriage.

For additional episodes and more content to help you have a thriving marriage visit us Redesign Your Marriage and join the hundreds of other couples wanting to redesign their marriage and finally they have the marriage they have always dreamed of.

LINKS:

• Website: redesignyourmarriage.com

• Facebook: www.facebook.com/redesignyourmarriage

• Instagram.com/redesign_your_marriage

• instagram.com/_shelby_seeley

Quick Episode Summary: 

• Dive into today’s episode, all about tackling mental health and your marriage! 

• If you are in need of mental health support, go and seek professional help today! 

• Mental health can also stem from spiritual attacks 

• Marriage does not fix everything, it actually highlights weaknesses and struggles 

• Find time and space in your marriage to openly talk about what you are feeling 

• Learn how to become quick to listen and slow to speak 

• Practical daily tips to approaching your mental health 

• Laughter and enjoying each others company is so vital to our mental health

• Learning how to know each others boundaries 

• Pay coast attention to what you are filling your mind with daily 

• The importance of protecting your marriage’s mental health! 

In this episode we discuss how to deal with external stresses as we know it can put strain on your marriage. We discuss the the effects it has on marriage and some effective strategies.  Couples can navigate these challenges together and emerge even stronger.

The three tips to manage external stresses that we discuss are: 

1. Open and Honest Communication:

2. Teamwork and Joint Problem-Solving

3. Seek External Support

Hit play and join us as we unpack this hot topic and discover the true secret to a lasting marriage.

For additional episodes and more content to help you have a thriving marriage visit us Redesign Your Marriage and join the hundreds of other couples wanting to redesign their marriage and finally they have the marriage they have always dreamed of.

Connect with us:

• Website: redesignyourmarriage.com

• Facebook: www.facebook.com/redesignyourmarriage

• Instagram.com/redesign_your_marriage

• instagram.com/_shelby_seeley

Quick Episode Summary: 

• Jump into today’s episode, all about navigating external stresses in life and your marriage 

• Stress is one of the number one killers and is connected to major medical issues 

• Learning to walk in unity together in your marriage 

• Have you ever had a day where external stresses pile up and you begin to argue?

• We have to be able to communicate and to be able to be heard 

• We give you 3 practical tips on how to deal with external stress in your marriage! 

• Learning to work together well to minimize stress 

• Lean on professional support and close friends to help process, educate and pray 

• Taking on pressure together, through faith, builds perseverance and you mature as a couple

​Welcome back to the Redesign Your Marriage podcast. Have you ever experienced some of these most common causes of power struggles in your marriages include disagreements over finances, household chores, parenting styles, and intimacy. In this podcast we will talk about all those power struggles and more. We unveil the truth behind how you can achieve a power union, instead of the constant battle of a power struggle. With biblical truths and practical tips you can finally put the struggle ​& conflict behind you and​ tap into the superpower in your marriage.

Hit play and join us as we unpack this hot topic and discover the true secret to a lasting marriage.

For additional episodes and more content to help you have a thriving marriage visit us Redesign Your Marriage and join the hundreds of other couples wanting to redesign their marriage and finally they have the marriage they have always dreamed of.

LINKS:

• Website: redesignyourmarriage.com

• Facebook: www.facebook.com/redesignyourmarriage

• Instagram.com/redesign_your_marriage

• instagram.com/_shelby_seeley

Quick Episode Summary: 

• Hey there! Ready to take some steps of faith? A look into our challenge!

• Want a better relationship? Start here!

• How God can create the marriage of your dreams 

• Marriage ain't easy, but with God in the mix, it's a game-changer.

• Why and how investing time into relationships always pays off

• Community is key. Couples are not meant to do life solo!

• Fun fact: How we met as teenagers and our origin story 

• Marriage has its phases! Get a glimpse into our highschool love

• How to join our community group of like-minded couples

• Real talk: Marriage is more than just the wedding day. It's a lifelong journey!

• What a house remodel can teach you about marriage

• Did you dream of your wedding more than your actual marriage? 

• Our first year of marriage was... let's just say, a learning curve! Here is what we learned.

• One of our first fights: Priorities, priorities! Basketball over dinner?

• Marriage is a commitment. Let's make it count together! 

• And so much more!!!

Are you tired of having the same conversation with your spouse when it comes to money in your marriage? Do you try to avoid the conversation all together? Then you will want to listen to this podcast. We provide 3 practical tips on how to finally get on the same page when it comes to your money. Stop living paycheck to paycheck and start pursuing all God has for your marriage and money. Start pursuing freedom in your finances.

For additional episodes and more content to help you have a thriving marriage visit us Redesign Your Marriage and join the hundreds of other couples wanting to redesign their marriage and finally they have the marriage they have always dreamed of.

LINKS:

● www.redesignyourmarriage.com

Quick Episode Summary: 

• 3 tips on how to pursue freedom in finances! 

• Finances are the #2 reason why people get a divorce 

• Everything starts with your mindset about money 

• Biggest common mistake for marriages is having separate bank accounts

• Every decision in marriage should be made in unity 

• One sided financial decisions can create resentment within a marriage 

• Learning how to shift your mindset to being a steward of God’s money 

• Sit down and create a budget for your finances and take control of where it all goes 

• If you can manage one dollar well, you can manage a million well 

• Learn how to build a model that takes you from building wealth, to building legacy!  

In the podcast episode we uncover the reason why you may have hurt and offense in your marriage that you just can’t seem to get past. We dive deep into the discussion of why staying in integrity with your spouse is a must at all times. We also uncover the reason we make excuses in our marriage everyday to keep living the same way and doing the same thing and calling it a good marriage when in fact it may be being destroyed from the inside out.

For additional episodes and more content to help you have a thriving marriage visit us redesignyourmarriage.com and join the hundreds of other couples wanting to redesign their marriage and finally they have the marriage they have always dreamed of.

LINKS:

● www.redesignyourmarriage.com

Quick Episode Summary: 

• The truth about putting tasks off for "tomorrow" in marriage and the long-term effects it could have

• The importance of personal integrity in marriage

• Lack of integrity erodes trust and can lead to conflict in a marriage

• Communication: The key aspect of gaining trust with your spouse and staying on top of all your "tasks" together

• How working together builds trust and unity in a marriage

• How personal integrity can impact everyone in the family in a positive way

• Why every couple should avoid manipulation and control in a marriage

• How you can start applying these tips today!

Welcome to the Redesign Your Marriage Family, this is part two of the podcast we are doing on the changing seasons of life. In this episode we discuss a place we have all found ourselves that messy middle. We provide some tools that help you get unstuck and move from that messy middle to the miracle on the other side of hard.

LINKS:

● www.redesignyourmarriage.com

Quick Episode Summary: 

• The season of the messy middle
• Messy seasons are like hallways 
• God wants to turn your mess into your message 
• God does not want you to stay in the middle, He wants to show you His plan 
• Obedience and sacrifice are key 
• Do not be in a hurry to skip steps, God works one step at a time

Welcome to the Redesign Your Marriage family. Today we are breaking down some ways we have discovered and relied on when experiencing some of the craziest, hardest seasons in our life and our marriage.

LINKS: 

• www.redesignyourmarriage.com

Quick Episode Summary:

• Handling the changing seasons
• We are officially almost empty nesters 
• Every season can come with mixed emotions
• Learning how to change throughout relationships
• Change is the only thing that you can guarantee
• God has a plan to bless you 

In this episode, we take a deep dive into your office, which is where you spend your time and money. This is the most requested teaching we get because couples want to get it right and it seems to always be changing. We provide you practical tools and tips on how to finally get a shared vision with your time and money.

LINKS: 

• www.redesignyourmarriage.com

Quick Episode Summary: 

• Why we take money seriously in our marriage

• One way the polity mindset shows up 

• How Joe and Shelby budgeted over the years

• The importance of shared vision in finances

• When we went into over $1M+ in debt

• The statistics behind divorce and money issues