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  • 08: The Lies About Relationship: But What if My Partner is… (Part 3)

    In this episode, Paul and Stacey will cover part three of busting the myths series, and talk about the “But my partner is …” myths, which are all about how one partner thinks that their partner is keeping them from having their desired relationship because they behave a certain way.

    Key Points Discussed:

    • Depressed spouses and the dangers of labeling (00:52)
    • Everyone changes at different points in life for various reasons (02:53)
    • Whatever comes after the statement “I am” is super powerful (06:31)
    • Showing up differently in your relationship for your partner (09:05)
    • Anxiety is just a pattern (12:03)
    • The masculine dynamic wired into a man’s blueprint (15:19)
    • The widespread misuse of the word abusive (18:27)
    • Physical abuse is not a relationship issue (20:04)
    • Everyone has a unique brilliance (24:49)
    • Additional Resources:

      • Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers
      • You can find this episode and more at:

        RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen

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        30 min
      • 07: The Lies About Relationship: But My Partner is Not… (Part 2)

        In this episode, Paul and Stacey will go into part two of busting the marriage and relationship myths that are misleading people today. They are going to dive into the "but my partner is not..." myths, which are the myths where people will say that their relationships are not working, or that they are hard, or that they might not be with the right person.

        Key Points Discussed:

        • The “but my partner is NOT” myth (01:00)
        • The differences between partners are always a gift (02:11)
        • Every balloon needs it’s string (04:12)
        • The trigger behind why it bothers you that your partner is different (07:52)
        • You’re supposed to be different (10:41)
        • The battle of the invisible alignment predicament (13:34)
        • Misalignments in parenting between parents (17:35)
        • When you know better you do better (23:28)
        • When you collaborate, what you create is bigger (26:22)
        • Additional Resources:

          • The Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019
          • You can find this episode and more at:

            RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen

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            29 min
          • 06: The Lies About Relationship (Part 1)

            In this episode, Paul and Stacey bust a lot of the marriage and relationship myths that keep people so enslaved in their own lives. They are also going to debunk some beliefs about what relationship development really is, and hopefully all that will set you free, and totally revive your marriage or relationship.

            Key Points Discussed:

            • You don’t have to be nice, suck it up and make everyone else happy (01:19)
            • The power player and the non-power player (01:34)
            • Confusion is a quality question that you brain is facing (03:09)
            • The relationship development approach (04:42)
            • Being happy and your best self within a thriving relationship (08:09)
            • Measuring and score keeping in your relationship (12:07)
            • Inspiring change in the people around us (17:04)
            • Breaking the chains of demand relationship in your family (22:25)
            • Additional Resources:

              • Get Big Results in Your Relationships in Just 10 Seconds a Day
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                26 min
              • 05: How Do I Know When It's Time To Leave

                In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the very confusing issue of whether an individual should leave their marriage and give in to divorce. This is something that a lot of people in someone’s life will prescribe when their marriage is in trouble, but the truth is that none of them has the right to do that.

                Paul and Stacey will expose that for the lie that it is and tell us the best way to go about an impending divorce situation.

                Key Points Discussed:

                • It’s a lie to say you’ve tried everything and nothing will work (01:59)
                • Noone has the right to tell you to get a divorce (02:54)
                • People prescribe divorce when they’ve reached the end of their skillset (05:08)
                • Calling off the divorce: Suzanne and Don’s story (07:10)
                • Advice is crap and destructive (12:29)
                • Knowing when to leave (14:14)
                • Rebuilt marriage or harmonious co parenting (20:27)
                • Cognitive learning is not enough to save a marriage or turn it around (25:11)
                • Additional Resources:

                  • The Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019
                  • You can find this episode and more at:

                    RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen

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                    31 min
                  • 04: The Invisible Force That Is Killing Your Relationships

                    In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible force that stops people from living with a relationship development mindset and instead continues to enslave them in a demand relationship mindset. That force blocks people from getting the results that they desire in their relationships and keeps leading them in the wrong direction.

                    Paul and Stacey will expose it and teach you how to overcome it.

                    Key Points Discussed:

                    • The Truth: It’s all about blame (01:47)
                    • Blaming someone else renders you powerless (02:33)
                    • The act of willingly handing all your power to the other person (04:02)
                    • Personal responsibility is not a dirty word (06:11)
                    • Fault and responsibility do not go together (09:09)
                    • Everyone lives in the results of the decisions that they make (12:42)
                      • Additional Resources:

                        • YouTube Video: Fault Vs Responsibility by Will Smith
                        • The Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019
                          • You can find this episode and more at:

                            RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen

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                                17 min
                              • 03: It Only Takes ONE Person To Transform Any Relationship

                                In this episode, Paul and Stacey will explain in detail how it’s possible that it only takes one partner to transform any relationship. There have been thousands of people who have single-handedly saved their marriages, transformed their relationships and divorce-proofed their marriages.

                                Society has for many years been brainwashed to believe that it takes two people to achieve all that, but the truth is that with Paul and Stacey’s relationship development methodology, one person can indeed transform a relationship all on their own, and they will teach us how we can implement that methodology in our marriages and relationships.

                                Key Points Discussed:

                                • The most powerful force in human relationships today (02:49)
                                • Waiting for the other person to change is setting yourself up for failure (04:37)
                                • Men process completely differently than women (08:49)
                                • Solving our own triggers (12:16)
                                • Disrespect only happens within you (15:58)
                                • The empowerment of relationship development (19:56)
                                • The fear-based protection (23:42)
                                • The relationship transformers community (26:04)
                                  • Additional Resources:

                                    • The Relationship Development Community
                                    • Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019
                                      • You can find this episode and more at:

                                        RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen

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                                          If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

                                          38 min
                                        • 02: We Cracked The Code

                                          In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about how they cracked the code on how relationships are done, what exactly causes relationship problems, and what the solution really is. At the first sign of trouble, couples choose to seek counseling or therapy, but that has failed miserably because it has a divorce rate of 80% which emanates from the fact that they only focus on symptoms and not causes.

                                          The solution that Paul and Stacey offer has a 1% divorce rate and teaches couples how to build an unshakeable love and passion that keeps them going strong well into the future.

                                          Join us at the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat: http://bit.ly/rbr_podcast

                                          • Key Points Discussed:

                                            • The dilemma of working on things alone (01:02)
                                            • Relationship development and demand relationship (02:52)
                                            • Nobody likes being controlled (05:35)
                                            • Classic demand relationship exit (07:27)
                                            • Building up relationships with the relationship development methodology (09:07)
                                            • Breaking the chains of demand relationship (13:43)
                                              • Be sure to get the free PDF download discussed in this episode at:

                                                go.relationshipdevelopment.org/2

                                                • You can find this episode and more at:

                                                  RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen

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                                                    21 min
                                                  • 01: Hanging By A Thread - Our Story

                                                    In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a deeply personal story about the night that Paul told Stacey he was leaving her, and why they do what they do today. We are going to show you the challenges that you encounter in your marriage or relationship, tell you what’s really causing them to be invisible to you and give you real solutions that you can implement to get the results that you desire.

                                                    • Join us at the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat: http://bit.ly/rbr_podcast

                                                      • Key Points Discussed:

                                                        • The power of the perspective shift (01:28)
                                                        • Breaking open and becoming vulnerable (05:58)
                                                        • Single-handedly saving our marriage (09:06)
                                                        • Creating an unshakable love (11:17)
                                                        • The 1% divorce/99% success rate program (12:35)
                                                        • The amazing eight-step system (17:00)
                                                        • Cracking the code on how relationships are really done (20:42)
                                                          • You can find this episode and more at:

                                                            RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen

                                                            • Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.

                                                              If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

                                                              23 min

                                                            About Relationship Transformers

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                                                            Paul & Stacey Martino have proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship…ANY relationship! The question is - “How does ONE person do that?” This podcast is the answer! The…