Relax with Meditation

  Many boys like to be a girl from birth on. And they think that they are wrong when they would be a boy. Their brain is wired as a female… They don’t like to be a man with all his aggression.  They like to be: a soft person, like a woman, like to care for kids, like makeup, love beautiful female dresses…  They don’t like to show aggression or to fight. Even so, a girl is getting 4 times more hugs than a boy. For a boy, who is sensitive the society of men is unattractive... And these soft boys are going quickly seduced by men, and it is easier for them to have sex with the same gender.  If we would force a Ladyboy to become normal, the risk of suicide is quite high. Instead, we should tolerate them as normal.   The Western Society is still abusing sex under the same genders, and in the previous generation, it was forbidden to have sex under the same genders. In Thailand, a Buddhist Country, it is accepted to be a Ladyboy, because of their Karma teaching.  In Thailand should be 3 genders, male, female and Ladyboys. When somebody had sexually abused a woman or misbehaved badly against women, he can be reborn as a Ladyboy. The Thais accept Ladyboys and don’t abuse them rather more to have pity for them. And the Thais think that Ladyboys can communicate with the spirits and also enlightenment is possible for them.  Why is it bad to be a Ladyboy? In our society is intolerance the very norm, and abusing different behavior is tolerated.   I by myself liked as kid to be a girl, or to be both… I didn’t like to be only a boy. Because I was very sensitive and also loved female work… Later when I became sexually mature, I didn’t like to have sex with men, even all the gays were running after me like crazy. I was sexually abused by a man… I started to hate all these gays… And after some time when I slept with women, I could accept the gays who were running after me.   My Video: Why a man like to be a Ladyboy? https://youtu.be/d7MQgwvvCh4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Why-a-man-like-to-be-a-Ladyboy.mp3

  There exist many natural home remedies for varicose veins that are a blend of Olive oil with some other herbs…  We chose Olive Oil with Bay leaves because it makes really sense… Cold-pressed Virgin Olive oil with Bay leaves For 2 weeks you soak 100ml Olive oil with 10g broken Bay leaves.Keep it in a cool place for 2 weeks.After 2 weeks you filter out the bay leaves with a funnel…  Apply the bay leave oil on the affected places…Massage in circular motions for 2 minutes in the evening and in the morning. Do it for 2 weeks and you will see it is getting much better…  My Video: Natural treatment for varicose and spider veins. https://youtu.be/fwtp2-2KL0QMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Natural-treatment-for-varicose-and-spider-veins.mp3

 One of the most common mistakes is to quit, even it doesn’t look that we give up. The worst thing is that nobody is free of it.What is so bad on it? We don’t know how long we should wait until we get the thing done. We try and try, and we can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel… How I do it? I do my best, and if the situation is changing, even I didn’t get what I want, then I finish up. To try longer, doesn’t make sense, because I have done my best and when the situation is changing, for what I will try longer?For example, we are together with our spouse, it is getting harder and harder, and we think how it is to get a new darling? This is not working! If we look inside and try to find our mistakes to improve ourselves, the situation will change. We are always our worst enemy, and the challenge is mirroring ourselves. What is inside is outside, and never that will change. If we change ourselves the situation will change. If we become better the situation will become better! There was in the movie: “The Secret”  a guy who was bullied everywhere… His therapist said because you attract that. Become positive the situation will change, and so it became. I had worked in the worst companies with chaotic chiefs and colleagues.  Every day I was coming home frustrated… Until I saw the problem is me, I could not get out of the situation. Honestly, I spoke of my problems with my “enemies, ”  and the enemies became human beings. This is so true for relationships problems, just speak out what is your concern, and what the other wants that we should change. You can be right or happy! What do you choose? Changing is better!Without hardships and challenges, Life is boring!!! My video: How to quit? https://youtu.be/s25PUwPqTCwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/How-to-quit.mp3

  How to accept the world as it is?  How to accept every person as they are, to accept the doing of anyone, even it looks evil, bad, unfair for us…? How is it to live in peace with the world and ourselves? Instead of fighting, finding faults… Still, it is good to fight for peace in the world and to remain calm and relaxed.  Everybody has to go his own path, we can only give our service to him/her and not to change the person. If everybody has the same opinion, the world would be shipwrecked. Imagine you are on a boat and everybody likes to sit on the same side… The different opinions, direction makes the world complete.  Even we think that we are right the other person might be with an opposite view correct too. When my friend was dying from cancer, I asked my doctor how he can accept that, when my friend had before his ultimate healing a deadly accident? My doctor said this problem I have every day… The patient can choose if he agrees with my treatment or if he leaves. My last patient said I can’t adapt to your diet, one week later he died! The world is always perfect, we can only help, and if the person doesn't like, that is his choice, that is his path that he has to go…  My video: The world is already perfect… https://youtu.be/XRH2DN4g_v4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/The-world-is-already-perfec.mp3

  One of the worst habits…Blaming makes everything worse. Instead, we look for the good in that situation. It is so easy to look good, even when we messed up when we blemish people, circumstances.For instance, the Gold price went down because the Banks and the US Government had manipulated the Gold price to stabilize the Dollar and Euro. When we had invested in Gold, we lost a lot for sure we can blame,… Does it help? Never!We have in every case to accept the situation regardless what injustice had happened.We are responsible for our life and nobody else! So more we feel responsible for everything in our life so happier we are! (After a research in London) Life is a risk and injustice is a big part of our life… I ask openly where is justice? I hardly had found any. For instance, the Deutsche Bank had to pay $2 bill of fines for the Gold price manipulation…. In the end, the Deutsche Bank was bankrupt, and the Government gave Deutsche Bank $550Bill. Who cares for the $2 Bill fine? The loss gets socialized, and the profit gets privatized!  We have to act, regardless what, to get back on track.Feel the pain and go!  What is if our strategies didn’t work out? Question yourself, learn from the situation and change your strategies!What is when your spouse is always so bad to you… Hu hu … First, you have loved your spouse and then comes the suffering. With the suffering, we go in learning mode… and look that we improve ourselves, regardless what. We communicate honestly about our problems in our relationship with our spouse. Instead of complaining, we are making every day a gratitude list about why it is so great together with our spouse… This will help a lot. My video: To blame is the worst! https://youtu.be/YINCaH66jpEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/To-blame-is-the-worst.mp3

 There are only 2 kinds of people who don’t feel psychology emotional pain!1. The psychopath2. The dead person Besides that, pain is for everybody! A happy life is not to be happy all the time! Different religious systems are selling full-time happiness…  Enlightenment/Moksha/Paradise… Those are just fake!Selling dreams and delivering B. S..  We learn to accept, and even embrace painful emotions, that is our goal to live a happy life. We learn how our painful emotions are connected to us, our goals, our dear ones, and our life.  Happiness through hardship… If we become stronger by hardships then we profit from them… For instance, we can train our muscles through weight lifting and then our muscles become stronger… What happens with our traumas? If we experience the pain of our traumas, we become stronger and happier… So more we release our negative suppressed emotions so happier we are.  I have done a lot of encounter groups, even with the most demanding therapists…We should go, regardless of what, in our worst and strongest negative emotions and encounter with our strongest negative feelings our partners in that group… … Afterward, the group was full of intense love! If people chase happiness as a life goal, they become unhappier…  I have done so also, but I could understand soon, that until I cannot feel my negative emotions, I cannot be happy. Instead, I was chasing to release my negative suppressed emotions to become happy and to be open to love. And that works. How I discovered that? I was set up for taking care of kids between 2 and 4 years old… If the kids cannot release their negative emotions, they become depressed.  A vessel filled with happiness is built out of sorrow. (Quote Aurobindo)  The first step, release your negative suppressed emotions!Open up your heart for the divine and for everything! What cannot kill us makes us stronger!  Instead, to avoid pain, which is even more painful, we open up and say yes to ourselves, our suffering and develop empathy, mercy, and love. FEEL MORE, THEN YOU ARE HAPPIER. Until we don’t understand the law of polarity, we don’t understand emotions. We embrace all negative emotions from ourselves and from all people.  That makes us free to enjoy our emotions. Until we value any emotions as negative, we cannot enjoy our life. We develop gratitude for everything that is coming to us, even if it is a hardship…  In the end, we learn from hardship the most…  Everything is Good!  For instance, when my entire body was paralyzed through a cardiac arrest… I repeated again and again: Thank you, my Lord… No doctor could help me… Then I remembered the movie The Secret… I visualized going home by myself…  With the help of God, after 6 hours, I stand up… Still, I had to go to another hospital to check my brain… It was such a nightmare, but it was also exciting! Still, my eyesight was not normal, I fixed that later…   We can enjoy every weather… There is no bad weather, only the wrong clothes. (Quote of an Advertisement)  We have 5 areas in our life that we can develop to become a fully functioning human beings: Physical. Sport, Yoga, Qigong, Music, Dancing…With these activities, we can relax and recover from our stress. These activities are fun and make us stronger.   Intellectual.We learn every day something new to what we relate positively. Those who are not curious about life and ask questions will die earlier.Do not grow old, no matter how long you live.Never cease to stand like curious children before the Great Mystery into which we were born. (Quote Albert Einstein) Relational. We develop great relationships that are even often painful.We spend quality time with people who we are caring for and who are caring for us. A purpose in our life. We are driven by something that makes sense

  Yes, I provoke to get better healthier relationships.  If we see the statics that 86% of all purchase decisions are made by women in the USA, there must be something wrong… Even the husband spend his money for the car or the house, - the wife decides, and so salespeople are trained to convince the wife...  What is with sex? Unmarried men have more sex than married men! Men buy a diamond for their spouse to get sex, that is to 90% true.  What is with separation of a family father? He has to pay for his kids and wife until they can earn their own money or the father has to go to jail in the USA. What is the problem?In old China, it was stupid to show affection or love, because the loved person exploits that, becomes the tyrant… We cannot deny that in a love relationship, the guy who is more in love gets exploited and lose his power. Love relationships are a power struggle, where the men are the losers. In old China, the country with the most suppressed women was a king who wanted to give one of his favorite horse to a husband who had the power at home. His soldiers were looking everywhere to find that husband, it was tough. They found the husband and asked which horse do you want? The husband turned to his spouse and asked, do you like the white or the black horse…? For a woman is sexy a strong man, because nature wants strong children! If men are showing weakness in a love relationship, women lose their respect of their spouse and the interest to have sex with him. Who wonders that 25% of the children in Germany from a married couple are procreated outside of the marriage?   Cowards, wimps, weaklings are disgusting for women! Nevertheless, the women choose husbands which they can overpower to exploit them. This means a woman can never be happy in a marriage if she can overpower the man because it is against her nature! If we see the satisfaction of wives with their husband after five years marriage, survive done in Bremen, Germany … 90%  of the wives are unsatisfied with their husband and 70% of the wives are remaining together with their husband because it is better than to be alone.   This means the husbands are a total failure, because they are boring, giving up their power to their spouse and getting so unattractive... The struggle is natural in every healthy relationship, harmony is unnatural.  The Yin-Yang sign shows a fight between the female and male!!! Harmony is an illusion.  I had and also have to struggle with women in relationships. Nevertheless, I never give up my power and never will marry… Because I want to love and not in a so-called partnership! Regardless what society or women think… better to be a ba(t) man than a man at all! My Video: Marriage - Man in Slavery?! https://youtu.be/mSOz0qbFlscMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Marriage-Man-in-Slavery.mp3

  Whatever religion approve is right. Quote from a sage.  Religion is man made, and God is divine, beyond of our understanding. God has no religion. (Gandhi) Everything has its place (I-Ging, Srimad Bhagavatam, or Esoteric) And God saw the world and said everything is good. Or don’t fight against the wicked. (Bible)  The Christian, Hindu, Buddhist religion are fighting against the pleasure of sex and the Sufis (Islam Mystic), and Taoist see the sex as divine…  For the Quran is a monastic path of religion wrong and even forbidden. The Quran said the human being are weak, so they should take a spouse. The idea of renunciation and living in Celibacy was that a family is an obstacle for the religion person because the religion person can’t focus his full attention so much on God and is even forced to cheat and lie in a sexual relationship.  The Srimad Bhagavatam sees sex in a marriage equal to renounce sex as a yogi. The yogi is renouncing the world, and the fruits of his doing The householder is renouncing inside of himself, the fruits of his doing. So both are the same. The householder should serve their families selflessly, and with that they serve God. This means the service of the householders to humanity is a great service to God. Without the service of the householders, the Yogis can’t live.  Everything has its place (I-Ging, Srimad Bhagavatam, or Esoteric) This is one of the greatest Quotes… The Srimad Bhagavatam tells us for instance: if one body likes to kill, he should be a soldier. If women love to prostitute they should do so because it serves the needs of men. What is with cheating? They should become businessmen because business is related to cheating (even 5000 years ago). What is with thieving? They should thieve the honey of the bees and sell the honey... So there is nothing wrong only misplaced! My Video: Whatever religion disapprove is wrong…  https://youtu.be/5fYc606VWA0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/

 The heart sees farther than the head. A sin that is hidden is half forgiven. It is not enough to run;You must start on time. Prices are forgotten, the quality remains.  What was hard to endure is sweet to recall. The first half of life is spent in longing for the second,And the second half in regretting the first. Youth lives on hope, Old age on remembrance. Only he who does nothing makes a mistake. You often meet your destiny on the road you take to avoid it. A bad workman never finds a good tool. You can cage a bird, but you can’t make it sing. You are either hammer or anvil.  An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.  You cannot be very smart if you have never done anything foolish. A fault denied is twice committed. A woman’s heart dries quicker than her tears. My Video: French proverbs https://youtu.be/FZprgcWi9MsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/French-proverbs.mp3

  Our nature wants that the strongest survives. There is no compassion in nature.Our mind is crafted to 90% from the animals.The animals don't have so much compassion, they have a love for their children and friends, even many times more than human beings. If we see the word com+passion, these means with(together)+passion, together we share our passion. Compassion is that we share our feelings with other individuals and that they feel their pain as our pain. Imagine, an actor has to play sadness, how does he do it? He remembers a sad situation from his life, and he relives this scene in his play. And so is it with us. If we see suffering, our mind is remembering similar suffering from our past, and we relive our past as compassion to other individuals.If we see children, some have compassion, and many don't have. Many societies like that we have compassion, and so we train the children to have compassion. Compassion is improving our ego, and so Buddha taught to cultivate compassion for all beings.It looks cruel if we see persons acting without having the compassion to get the things done. Sometimes this is necessary. However, we should not be like cruel animals or robots.  During hardships, compassion is a luxury. Because of we:Have first to care for ourselves, for our problems. Do not like to get more involved in new problems.Get fast back on track.Get rid of all unnecessary stress. My video: For what compassion? https://youtu.be/HQ2uUExQC9IMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/For-what-compassion.mp3